There’s no magic formula to cure a broken heart, that’s for sure. On the flip side, there isn’t a love potion that I know of that’s going to make someone fall for you.
What you can do is increase the odds you will get the girl you want by following these expert and practically proven tips.
How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You
1. Open Your Ears
Girls like a man that’s going to listen to their problems and when you open your ears and let them talk, you are one step up on any other guy in pursuit. Make sure you don’t push her to make a decision. She just wants you to listen so she can work it out.
Of course if she asks for your advice, you should give it. Just make sure you aren’t pushing too hard with it or she’ll close the door fast.
2. Give Her Compliments
Who doesn’t like a nice compliment now and then? Just please don’t give her fake praise or she will kick your butt to the curb fast. Make sure the compliment is genuine and sincere and not too deep.
If you overdo it, I can guarantee this pointer will backfire big time.
Flatter her a little and she will reward you handsomely.
3. Support Her Royally
Think of this like you might a cheerleader. You need to show her you will be there to encourage her on and support her in her daily battles. This doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything she does and says, that would make you a pushover puppet.
However, you should show her you appreciate and respect her for her life choices. That’s just plain magical in the dating game.
4. Don’t Be Afraid To Play The Chivalry Card
This is where you are going to capture her attention and rock her world. Too many guys today seem to forget their manners. When you treat a lady properly, it will never ever go out of style.
Open the door for her. Pull out her chair. Give her your coat on a chilly evening.
When you show her she’s worth being treated specially, you will be squeezing your way into her heart for all the right reasons. Give it a shot! You’ve got nothing to lose.
5. Give Her All Of Your Attention
I know this one isn’t so easy considering the technology we’ve got to our fingertips. If you are serious about showing this girl you deserve to have her fall in love with you, then you need to keep all eyes on her.
This means putting your phone away and definitely not watching other girls walk into the room.
You will come across as a prick if you can’t give her your full attention. The choice is yours.
6. Tell Her How Much You Enjoy Spending Time With Her
This can come in all sorts of different shapes and forms. You can tell her face to face that you really enjoy hanging out with her. Another route is to drop her a text or email to make sure she knows that she’s on your mind.
Or you can drop her a line on social media. You just want to make it crystal clear that you like being with her. She needs to know that if you are going to be successful making her fall in love with you.
7. Nurture The Love
You need to stand out and in order to do this, you’ve got to take care of the little things. Give her flowers or some sort of surprise just because. Don’t wait until a special occasion to show her how you feel.
This will help to make her feel loved and appreciated and that’s a direct route to making her fall in love with you. End of story.
8. Mr. Clean Is A Good Thing
Truth be told, if you are leaving your dirty socks on the floor and the sink filled with your dishes, you are killing the romance.
Girls like it clean and that means you need to make every effort to clean up after yourself and not leave it to her, no matter what she says.
You should know by now that girls say one thing and mean another more often than not.
Like it or lump it because that’s just the way it is.
9. Music Makes The Heart Grow Fonder
There’s just something about a man that sings. Girls go crazy over it. Guess there’s just something about a bad boy rock star. This doesn’t mean you have to be a rocker to get a girl. But if you’ve got some singing skills in your back pocket, that’s a good thing.
If not, just show her you are passionate in some other genre. Passion is perfect when combined with love.
10. Funny Is In
When you show a girl you can be light hearted and funny, you are one step closer to getting her walls down so you can jump in.
Laughter is the best medicine and when you show a girl you can be funny, or at least try, you will get into her heart and mind fast.
So let loose and get a little silly if you are serious about getting the girl for keeps.
11. Play It Cool
The very last thing a girl wants is a high strung man that just can’t play it cool. If you show her you’ve got the innate ability to diffuse spicy situations and shrug off the small things, you are going to show her straight up she’d be crazy not to fall in love with you.
Just trust me on this one please.
12. Connect With Friends And Family
You are certified crazy if you don’t think this girls friends and family aren’t going to influence her decision to open up to you or not.
If you can get in the good books with her loved ones, she will get the encouragement she needs to fall in love with you.
Let her family and friends work for you in your quest. Having an outside source tell you that you should be with a guy really is magical.
13. Keep It Positive
If you don’t have anything nice to say about her friends and family, make sure you keep it to yourself. One of the worst things you can do is dish the people she loves and is connected with.
Negativity gets you nowhere fast, just saying.
14. Step Away From Time To Time
The last thing you want to do is show this special girl that you have nothing but her. That makes you out to be needy and insecure and that’s definitely not what you want.
Sure, it’s important that you show her she is special to you. But you don’t need to make her your everything just yet. Take the time to hang out with other people and that alone will make her fall hard for you.
That just forces her to work for your attention and that’s needed in the relationship world.
15. Slow And Steady Does Win The Race
Life is often way too fast. We are always so busy wanting to do more in less time. Take a step back from time to time and slow the pace. Turn the music up and give her a slow dance whenever you feel the urge.
That’s just romantically thoughtful and she will love it on every level.
16. Timing Is Vital
When you are on time, you are showing her that you respect her time. Just don’t show up late for a date, no matter what. Of course there are the inevitable that pop up and make it pretty much impossible for you to be on time, but they should be the exception to the rules.
Do whatever it takes to make sure you are punctual and that magic will unfold.
17. Family Is VIP
When you make the time to introduce her to your family, you are showing her that she is special to you. And when you are trying to make her fall in love with you, that’s golden.
Show her off to your family and be sure to treat your family with love and respect so she can see how you will treat her in the long run.
Makes perfect sense.
18. Surprises Are Magical
When you take the time to surprise her, you will win your way into her heart. Shoot her a message at work to let her know you are thinking about her. Leave her a voicemail or note in her purse to make her smile.
This just reiterates the fact you are a thoughtful man that deserves her attention.
19. Be Caring
This goes without saying but when she is feeling under the weather, you need to show her you’ll take care of her. Make her soup or bring her a box of Kleenex. Do whatever you need to in order to help her feel better quickly and get back on her feet.
This is the sort of thing that shows a girl it’s about time she fell in love. Hard and fast works.
20. Top Notch Hygiene
This one is a given. If you are serious about getting a girl to fall head over heels for you, then you need to make certain you never leave the house unless you are showered, shaved, and smelling like a million bucks.
21. Start Talking
It’s natural to feel nervous around a beautiful girl. Just chill! If you allow your anxiety to get the best of you, then you might as well write the love thing off now.
Drop your guard and muster up the courage to just go talk with her. Trust me, it will be appreciated.
22. Slip Past The Nasty Shield
More often than not, a pretty woman is witchy first when a guy gives them a compliment. Think of it as a defensive shield that’s essential to keep the pricks out.
Think about it for a minute. When a girl is hit on by oodles of guys, she’s got to figure out a way to deflect them right?
Just turn up the charm and show her you are more interesting than all the other guys. She’ll bite if it’s meant to be.
23. Connect With Her Entourage
No doubt a woman’s friends will naturally protect her from any man they believe is bad news. This means if you are ugly, creepy or just plain rude, you don’t stand a chance.
So you’ve either got to get into the good books fast or bring some eye candy with you to keep them oogling. Cute guys should do the trick keeping them busy while you go in and at least get her number.
Time to step up to the plate and whack a homer if you really want to make that girl fall in love with you.
24. Take Action To Play Both Sides Of The Fence
This is a tough one to master but where there’s a will, there’s a way!
You need to both play hard to get and show her you like her. When you balance this tightrope perfectly, it will help you win the prize.
25. Create The Perfect Text
Be careful here because girls tend to naturally over analyze text messages. In other words, they put them under the microscope and often make them into more than they really are. You’ve got your work cut out for you.
Think of all the texts she gets each day and your focus is to make yours stand out. Open your mind and think outside the box. Keep it short and sweet and memorable. Do that and your headed in the right direction.
26. Become An Expert In Hitting Back
No worries, I’m referring to texting. When your girl shoots you a text, you need to make every effort within reason, to send one right back to her. Think tennis here.
The length of your shot and the timing is critical. Pay attention to every shot you take if you want to end up winning the girl.
27. Dive Into The Romance
If you want a woman to love you, then you are going to have to show her. What better way than to take the time to create a super romantic date?
Think of what she likes and appreciates and build from there. Make sure there’s some flirting and fun and lots going on so boredom has zero chance of getting into the picture.
Nail this one and you’ll get to nail her too, if you haven’t already.
28. Set Up Followups
If you want to keep the love momentum rolling, you’re going to need to set up more dates. Don’t expect her to give it up or become totally comfortable with you until at a least the 3rd or 4th date.
In other words, you’ve got to work for it. And when you give her something to look forward to down the road, you are showing her you’ve got a vested interest in her and that’s magical.
Keep her busy and you are the only one she will have time to focus on. Need I say more?
29. Great Lovemaking Is Essential
Of course this depends on where you are in building your relationship. Something you don’t ever want to forget is you need to make amazing love to her. This means lots of kissing and cuddling and not running out the door shortly after.
If you do that, you’ll make her feel cheap and used and there’s seriously no love in that scenario.
Slow and steady wins the race. The longer, the better.
30. Be Patient For “What Are We?”
If you are serious about making this girl fall for you, she needs to be the one pushing to know where you stand. When she asks this question, it’s time to make sure you solidify the fact you are her boyfriend and you want to take your relationship to the next level.
Step by step you will get there if you play your cards right.
31. Deal With Her Imperfections
No matter how hot you think she is, everyone has imperfections. If she gets a little emotionally crazy, just deal with it. When she decides she doesn’t want to wear makeup, you better support her.
And no matter what, you are best to ignore your innate need to flirt with other women. Just don’t please.
32. Tell Her You Love Her
This is a tough one for many guys because it makes you vulnerable and opens the door to possible rejection.
Usually, it’s the girl that says the L word first but not always.
Put it all out there and tell her you love her and she’s going to fall head over heels in love with you.
33. She’s Got To Feel Out Of Control
If you want a woman to fall for you, then you need to gain the power hand in the relationship. Keep in mind if you are chasing her like a weak puppy, she will get bored with you fast.
You need to get her chasing you a little and your love will be golden.
34. Elusive Takes The Cake
The guy needs to be the one that starts and finishes communication. She needs to be the one reaching out to you and you can get back to her here and there.
Make sure she knows she isn’t your everything. But on the flip side, she still needs to feel important.
Be elusive but don’t overdo it. If you aren’t ever there for her, there’s no way she can fall in love with you.
35. Be Mysterious
You don’t have to answer every question she asks. In fact, when you are a little vague or mysterious, you are going to draw her in for more. When a girl’s curiosity is peaked, she will look for ways to peel your layers and gain more connection.
You can take it from here.
36. Create Addiction
When you can become her addiction or better yet obsession, you’ve just sealed the deal. Never forget that girls are great at playing the game so you need to be wary and cautious.
In order for you to create addiction, you need to drop off the radar from time to time and master the art of slipping back in unannounced.
37. Challenging Is Good
We all like a challenge. Keep in mind, as humans, we always want what we don’t have. Use this to your advantage.
Don’t be afraid to challenge her and be a challenge. It will help you make her fall for you pronto.
Final Words
When you are figuring out how to make a girl fall in love with you, there are oodles of factors to consider. Take each of these tips, tricks and pointers into consideration and follow her lead. Show her your confidence and create a plan to make her crazy about you.
You can do it.
Best of Luck!
Pipo says
I was using sinuasu lui technique on facebook and it work greats.
Terryl Miller says
Pipo, What the hell does keeping your nasal passage clear have to do with losing a girlfriend?
Mickey mouse Oluwaseun says
It’s a bit needed
Cos’, some girls hates it when there is a thing disturbing the conversation over and over
Dougl@$ says
Yah u r right dude
John says
I agree
Sarange says
You can follow all these things all you want, but then you meet your opposite and all if it is all for nothing
David James says
I know the feeling man.
Dosty says
Yeah that can be true
John Smith says
great tips. What also helped me a lot to get a girlfriend and find happiness is Eisner Fjord’s books like “how to get any girl you want” or his “how to satisfy a woman in bed”. I recommend to anyone who has dating troubles and anxiety , performance issues
Jog says
I think I missed a step. I got the girl in the basement, but don’t know what to do next. Please help.
Sincerely Jog Manson
Passy khen says
Thank u a lot, A very big thanks
EASE says
Great
Levid says
Great tips
Willies says
But the think is i have this assumptions that she hates me, but at times she shows signs of liking me to
dishant says
i am also in same situation
Taheer says
I am also in the same situation
Daddy says
I feel ya…i seem to be in pretty much the same boat,every night when i relive her from work we hug,and its like a lovers hug,it always last for a few mins or longer. If it was a friendly hug it be a quick 3 sec hug but its not.. I tell her all the time how beautiful she is and i already do alot from these tips.. But I still learned alil more of what i should or shouldemt do… But I can ask her how does she feel and she will wait a hr or more then repky back with idk.. Which makes me think she does like me.. Then one day I ask her and she said no she has no feelings fof me.. But its ok cause I really lije her and ill continue with more from these great tips untill I do make her mine!!
Thx late
And good luck to all. 😁
Mickey mouse Oluwaseun says
I also am in the same situation
Zach says
Girls love to play with guys emotions
Jeremy Kelly says
I really appreciated and thankful of this guidelines
joseph says
I enjoyed and learnt on how to make a girl fall for you.thank you.
Felix Kiptoo says
thanks for the tip.
Felix Kiptoo says
I really enjoyed reading it.Thank you.
NYENDE says
It really works, my girl friend is now I deep love
Arnold says
Thank you for all this tips,I really love ❤️ it all
kingi says
Atleast I will use this as a headline and fortunately thank you later
ritesh says
Yes it’s nice
Papaga Bless says
Wow. I read to the very end. I’ll practice them and I hope it works for me. Thanks Kate❤❤
Jamal says
I love a local girl can anyone give me some tips to convince her, because i love her a lot but she is not interesting in me. Please.
Thanks,
Maridadjoash says
So nice tips
Einon says
I will try it thanks
imo obinna says
nice kate
Xotty khan says
Thanks for tips I don’t have a words to show my happyness 👍👍
Alex says
Hello
Meshailoh Sandizo says
Am really happy amd i will use these tips to make mah heartholder believe in me.Thanks Kate May God Bless You.
Stephanie says
Very Good Article
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Rithik says
But the think is that the girl how I love satay near my home and
I think that she loves someone I just think I just think I just think
basaija emmanuel says
thanks 4 ur fantastic love tips, its really interesting!!
keep it up!!!!!!!!!
aaron levi says
tnxs…..for advice…
Richo says
It was a pleasure to have read all the tips,thk u very much
Fantom Dada says
u will always be on my heart coz ov the words u have given us
Kirito says
Thanks a lot this will be helpfull GLHF
McPerseverance says
It is very important to me.
I followed it and it has worked for me. Thank you
Aswin says
I want to know to make a girl’in love
Steve says
Thank you for the tips
Must try all these👍
Abdul_Aziz says
Very good it has worked for me
yeabtsega says
tnxs for all the tips. i’m sure i will use it to make the girl in my heart fall in love with me.
Hillanna says
I also like it
Yien Thareel says
Thank u
I’mma gonna try
Ali says
I am really following these steps, but there is something annoying me: it’s dates, whenever i ask her for a date, she accepts, than when the date arrive, she will run away and saying : “i was busy, sorry …” This is the third time i ask her for date and our relationship has approximately 2 months. Can someone help me to avoid this ?
Godstime says
great one
kenny says
me too thks.but the girl that i love loves me but she does not express it even if i try hard ,she just gaze at me,
Dakota says
Thank you I will use this in my life a lot and hopefully be very successful
oscar zoe says
hhhhaaaa i really appreciate
Odei says
Wow
fabian says
nice one
sehmat says
The article is very nice. The tips are very useful.
Malibongwe says
Thanks a lot with tips.. I have a problem here the first time she saw me she looked at me straight to my eyes and she said, “I like you. ” the next day I ask her if she had a time to talk she said yes so I started to tell her that I love her she said, ” She doesn’t know how tell me the answer. ” so since now she always want to talk to me now I don’t know how to win her heart…
Mainak Sarkar says
I try it and it work . And I have a Iover . Thanks you
Hillary says
Great tips
George says
I’m really mad because my friend likes my crush
Da Boss says
This really works, thanks a lot bro
olajide says
Thanks, really appreciate but what do I do to make a girl love me, I just told her I love her but she said she is not interested in my relationship for now. What do I do? pls
Mission says
love is blind, it’s hard to understand the true ones, after all they can be shy or nerves to tell you that they love u, who can read what is going on in human heart? well some they rely don’t , be persistence in what u are doing do not give up so easily am sure u are going to end up with her one day, nothing good come easy. thank u.
hassan cullen says
thanks but i hope it works on my girlfriend bless u
Prince says
Nice tips
Ban says
I don’t liked this because the most I love is my love but the article is fantastic and gave me confidence to ask my love to be my girlfriend thanks a lot
Love to my love
Yaro says
It is not easy for me, I have tried my best for almost a year but still yet to win her heart. When I ask her if she loves me, she cant answer but she tell me sometimes she likes me. No matter how hard I try and think, I believe she does not love me and just playing with my heart but I really love her and dont want to give up so easily even I have already lost hope of finding love.
Robert says
l have tryed and has work. thanks alot
Fuse deh man says
wow this one is jst ryt…thanks so much av been followin her for quite sam tym n im playing it cool with ua ways n i jst learnt more frm u 2day…big up
Samuel Amaechi says
Well suitable tip.
Nikhil says
I’hv done these all tricks and in 25 days I got my love, she has been follen in my love…….. Thanks luvze.com👍👍👍💏😘😘
person says
these tips dont mean crap
the love whisperer says
love is a beatiful thing but this stuff is shi@grhft
Jayden says
Thanks for the advice of ge a girl
You really should write a book of all these good
advices god bless you
And once again thank you very much
Fidel says
Very helpful article
Thank you
Fandele Yanga says
Agreed
katiso says
Thanks
,i believe in this,i hopefully think it will work for
Farhana Afroza says
Thank you so much, it’s a very nice article. Too much helpful
Emma says
Wel helpful tip
Ben says
I sort of understand these tips but I don’t really know how to be practical with them. Going about being mysterious and whatnot I’ve always had issues of going
0-100 way too quickly and scaring her off I think this woman might be the one and she seems to be losing interest due to me being needy how do I get it back on track please let me know.
Frank Timothy says
Some are very stubborn. You can not even know if she loves you. Very hard to get kindah gurls. Thanks for these tips. I’ll give a try.
Briam says
did not work i did every step in front of her face and got rejected. 0/10 would not recommend. Ill try again later though.
revenger says
Heh…
Now will it make us harem king?
I’ve been waiting for this time.
where you make them fall in love with you…
and a shot to their heart.
with the the done revenge, you can go back to your broken life.
This is what makes us, HUMANS
Fandele Yanga says
yep
Tsun_ami says
Hey, I’ve been wondering if a girl in my class likes me. We’re both 17 and she keeps sending me pictures of her, hugs me (long ones) , tells me she needs manly love and invites me to some place with her best friend (who’s also in my class). However, from one day to the other she can basically ignore me or at least show no interest in having a good conversation. I’m really confused.. Anyone have experience or tips? Greatly appreciated!
Marvellous says
Guys, pls I have a girl I love so much
I’ve prove it to her and she told she knows I love her, but she said she wants me to put it into action.
Pls I need your advice.
Pimpdaddy Hunglow says
Quit telling her how you feel dude that one thing right there will push them away faster than everything….and if she wants you to do something tell her you have other plans but schedule something in a week or so to do then don’t call her till the day of and just send the address and confirm you will be there on time….if she tries to reschedule tell her its ok lets do it some other time just give me a call when you get things figured out THEN DONT CALL HER LET HER CALL YOU assume she is ready ask her out on a date then get off the dam phone before you f*ck it up!!
Martin says
Waiting for all the best when I put this in practice.
Mark says
Most women today are just so very horrible to meet thanks to Feminism. And most women in the past were the very opposite of today, and real ladies as well which made love very easy to find back then as well.
Rui jabi says
I’v tried hard the guidline..
And am like am seeing change in her
first she w’d nt even have thirst 4 my presence but gradualy she started tex’ng me and i w’d reply in time..
Now she won’t let me go away without her awareness…
..Great tipe..
Rowan 💖 says
Uhhh… what if I’m a girl… trying to make a girl… fall in love with me…
Twongirwe mathias says
I will try and see.
Mai Kafingana says
I have really interested with the skill but all the problem iam facing is how iwould deal with my love~hater girl and how to make her fall deeper in love with me
Cassie Stock says
So, a little back story. I met a girl in my A&P class this year. Well, really I’ve known her for 3 years, but I never truly knew her until now. She’s funny, sweet, incredibly good looking… the same sex. She sends a lot of mixed signals and I don’t know if she likes me or not. Can I use these simple tricks on her even though I’m the same sex? I need advice, please.
kafingana palace says
that is good mr…….
u are really perfect, what a wonderfull skills is this that is working like a magic? u are really amazing, thanks u alot for your effort of wanting to make us love gurus
Landon Condit says
Hi Kate:
I don’t know if this site is still running since what I am reading is two years old.
I am dating this girl you could say but I don’t know how to interpret the situation. I have been cheated on used and abused in several past relationships. So trust is hard for me. Most of my ex’s we’re older than myself so could be part of the problem. This young lady is most different for me. She approached me firstly. This is different for me. Second she is 11 years younger than me. Again so very new to me. We enjoy each other’s company and like a lot of the same things yet are different enough not to bore each other. The problem is that she doesn’t talk much. She has only been in two other relationships and was treated very badly from what I can understand so far. She over the past year lost a close family member that was also her best friend. And it is like our going out is a secret because her parents are overprotective due to her previous two boyfriends. She still lives at home but is working on getting her own place. Normally I would think something wrong given the situations but because of my past relationships I can sense her Innocence and know she is being honest. That and the fact that even though she will not open up she stays in constant communication through text and video call. How do you get a lady to open up when they have trust issues. I know I do as well but I guess I am different than most because even though it is hard for me to trust I for some reason keep getting back up and take a chance. Because of this I need help in helping her get her walls down. Again she is special and doesn’t have mean or manipulative bone in her body. It easy to tell she was sheltered more than most growing up. But her personality and Innocence is what has made me fall for her despite she is not who I would normally go out with. Because of being hurt so much I don’t have friends really. Even my best friend stabbed me in the back. I am new to online and all but if you are out there and have any insite I am all ears so to speak.
Thank you in advance for your help.
Bishal says
Nice Tips
trevor says
I think I will try it and see how it go
Kamal nuhu says
Thanks for this tips, I will put them into paractice, let me see if i can succeed. Thanks once again dude.
heartboy12 says
bro spoke major facts in this one
thanks for helping the bois in need
Maurice says
I wished I’d knew then what I know now, I have won her heart, and broken it many times, and now she has canceled me from her life, I really love her, I just read your tips, and I can now see where I’ve gone wrong, how can I get back on track (we were each other world).
I wish I had read your tips three to four years ago
SIMON says
you guys has helped alots thanks
Kelvin says
hi Kate:
there this girl who keeps worrying me,she always want to sit next to me in class and insist I walk her home everyday.she is super hot and all the guys in my class are after her.how do I know that it’s real and not some elaborate prank.
Promise says
I’m really convinced that all these TIPS are perfect route. From my prospective, they’re aids.
precious says
Let me give a try
seth johnson says
i already tried that
Focus says
Hmmm………..I like it I will try to make use of every thing.
My gf is just stubborn I don’t no why.
Emmanuel says
Yes, you are right for all what u are saying.
And how did you know about all these?.