If you are tempted to go in for the kiss and start making out with a girl without a game plan, you may be setting the girl (and yourself) up for disappointment. There are certain things that you need to know in order to make a girl’s toes curl during your next make out session.
How To Make Out With A Girl
How Loud Are You?
It is important to set the mood for a good make out session. Making out is about taking the time to enjoy each other in a passionate and slow way, so your voice should reflect that mood and be soft and slow. If you are too loud, she may not be able to relax into the mood. If you are too low, you could come across as creepy to her.
You should use a lower voice before, during, and after a make out session to keep the mood the same. This doesn’t mean that you have to whisper throughout your entire date though. I would say about five minutes before you plan on making out, lower your voice a little. Then when you start making out, lower it a little more when you decide to say something, and then revert back to your previous voice when you stop making out.
How Deep Is Your Voice?
Women naturally prefer deeper voices in men. Experts think it is because a deep voice signifies that a man has more testosterone, and most women are naturally attracted to a man with a lot of testosterone. (It sends a signal you are a strong protector and provider, and instinctively women are drawn to that – even if they don’t need protection or providing!)
In other words, a low voice is sexy, and should be used during a sexy time (like a make out session) to turn a woman on.
But don’t try to make your voice too low like James Earl Jones (Darth Vader) or you will sound fake and weird. Even worse, you will ruin your vocal cords because producing such an unnatural low sound wears and tears on them.
You can’t change your natural voice, but the good news is that proper breathing can help you to put your sexiest and deepest voice forward. Taking a deep breath in through the diaphragm, instead of the chest, and then speaking, allows you put some power behind your words, even when you are whispering.
Use Your Hands To Stimulate Her
Making out is great. But while the focus is on kissing, touching is very important too. It keeps her senses stimulated, and it keeps the make out session interesting and sensual. But, you have to know where to touch, and how hard to touch, to really make her toes curl.
Touch can be sensual or it can be annoying. When it is sensual, she will get shivers. When it is annoying, she will literally want to push you away.
During a you shouldn’t grab her boobs. That kind of touch should be reserved for sex. You may ‘accidentally’ brush by a breast to send a quick shock of electricity through her body, but if you focus on them too much she will feel as though you are more concerned with getting her into bed than enjoying the make out session.
Touching her neck, arms, hands, legs, or back gently will keep her skin tingling (and her sexual excitement high) as you make out. For instance, if she is sitting in your lap facing you, you can move your hands up her back and grab the back of her neck lightly for a few moments before you slowly move your hands down her arms and interlace your fingers with hers.
By doing it gently, you are sending a sensual message, whereas a rough touch would send a message of wanting to get in her pants. Making out should be about enjoying each other’s kiss, not about sex.
How To Kiss Her For Real Pleasure
Lastly, the way you kiss a girl is going to make or break the whole thing. Kissing while making out is much different than any other kissing session. It is going to last longer than normal, so it has to stay interesting and passionate.
Start out with very slow kisses. This helps to build up the sexual tension, and makes each kiss more passionate.
Breaking up your kisses can help the kissing mean more when it does happen. Therefore, choose times to linger between kisses and focus on the energy you feel being close without touching. (She will feel that energy too.) You can also break up the kissing by gently kissing her cheek or heading down to her neck to lightly kiss that area.
When it comes to tongue, you have to use it wisely. Instead of sticking your tongue directly in her mouth, try licking her lips lightly or gently biting her lower lip briefly. This will help you mix up the sensations while making out, and it will keep it from getting boring and repetitive.
And finally, when you do decide to stick your tongue in her mouth, remember that using less tongue is more. This means you only want to stick it in slightly, and you want to do it sporadically, not continuously.
Putting the tongue in slightly feels better, and it is much sexier while making out. If you start poking your whole tongue in and out of her mouth, the passion while making out will start to fade quickly.
Use The Following Action Tips To Make This Article Work For You
1. Practice breathing from your diaphragm and speaking in a low and sexy voice.
2.. Use a pen or pencil (or whatever object you want) to touch yourself lightly on your neck, arms, and legs, and then increase the amount of pressure you touch yourself with to get a sense of the different sensations that touch can create.
3. While you may not be able to practice the above tips right now, try visualizing a complete make out session using them in order to create a ‘memory’ of what you should do next time you make out with a girl.