What does it mean when you dream about someone? If you remember your dreams, you have probably dreamt about someone at some point. Those types of dreams can be confusing, often filling us with plenty of questions. Dreams can come to us in many different forms. Our dreams can be pleasant. Other times they can be erotic and other times they might be downright terrifying.
Sometimes it can be very easy to figure out what your dreams mean. If you are worried about a very important day that is coming up, then you might have a nightmare where that big day turns into a disaster. That type of dream will stem from your anxieties, worries, and fears about the big day. If you have a crush on someone, then you might dream about them as well. Our conscious and subconscious thoughts and feelings can often dictate the type of dreams that we have. At the same time, our dreams will not always make complete sense.
While it can be easy sometimes to figure out what our dreams mean, there are other times when our dreams can be very confusing and full of symbolism that we need to unpack in order to understand our dreams better. With some of your dreams, you will have to think hard in order to interpret what they mean. Sometimes, the answer is not always obvious. And when a romantic interest pops up in our dreams, things can make become even more confusing for us. You might wonder what your dream means and how it plays out into your life when you are awake. What do your dreams say about you? Do you always know why you have the dreams that you have? Instead of guessing what your dreams mean, why not learn how to interpret the packed symbolism that your dreams hold?
Our dreams can often be packed with plenty of meaning. They can have many themes that will occur in other peoples’ dreams. Still, a dream that you have that is similar to another person’s dream will not have the same meaning. The meaning of your dreams does not lie anywhere besides your mind. In your mind, you will be able to figure out the true meaning of your dreams.
When it comes to dreams, the better you know yourself, the easier it will be for you to understand what your dreams mean. From your desires and hopes to your fears and anxieties, you will find plenty of these things lurking around in your dreams when you sleep.
When you dream about someone, it can mean a lot of things. The most obvious thing is that this person is on your mind. It might mean that you are romantically interested in this person, or it can also mean that this person might have qualities that have tapped into your subconscious. Maybe you wish you could be more outgoing like this person, or maybe this person intimidates you. But there are times when dreaming about a certain person could mean the obvious: this person interests you in a romantic way.
To be able to interpret your dreams, you could even keep a dream diary at your bedside. Write down what happened in your dreams once you wake up, so you can remember all of the little details. You will be able to look at these details and analyze what these dreams have to do with your subconscious thoughts.
Having an erotic dream about someone you are not with does not always mean that you desire them. It could also just mean that your subconscious thoughts are preoccupied with a trait that this person has.
When we go to sleep, we have a series of dreams, though sometimes we will only remember one or two of them once we wake up. It is often said that our most meaningful dreams tend to occur between 2 and 7 in the morning.
As previously mentioned, your dreams can reveal a lot about you than the people that appear in them. If you are wondering what it means when you dream about someone, look no further for your answers. Here are some examples of different scenarios that can occur in dreams and what they can possibly mean in regards to your subconscious and your life.
What Does It Mean When You Dream About Someone
Kiss
When you experience a kiss in a dream, it can sometimes feel like a kiss in real life. A kiss that is experienced in a dream can usually symbolizes something positive. If you have a dream where you are kissing someone that you know, it does not necessarily mean that you have romantic feelings about this person. Actually, a dream with a kiss can simply mean that you respect this person or love them, and not necessarily in a romantic way. If you are kissing someone who is already with someone else, then that might signify your desire for a relationship of your own. It does not necessarily mean that you want to be with this person. At the same time, this kind of kiss in a dream might also mean that you are experiencing some jealousy.
When you have a dream where you are kissing a friend, then it might just mean that you have positive feelings about this person. As previously mentioned, you might just feel respect for this friend. Think about the qualities that your friend has that you wish that you had. Is that why you are dreaming about this person? Whether or not you actually have romantic feelings for that friend is something that only you can figure out.
Romance
A little bit of romance is not a bad thing, but what does it mean when you experience some romance within a dream? A romantic dream might be an indication that you need to bring more romance into your life when you are awake. You might be experiencing a desire for more romance than you are giving or getting within your relationship. Instead of waiting for the other person to make that effort, take it upon yourself to make your relationship more romantic than it currently is.
Try to look at your current relationship and see if you can think of ways to be more romantic. There are many ways that you can be romantic. You can pack your significant other’s lunch and include romantic notes, cook dinner, or even send them the occasional romantic text message.
A relationship
If you are in a relationship with someone, then you might dream about that person from time to time. This is not exactly an unusual occurrence. It is not such a strange thing to have a dream about someone that you are currently in a relationship with in real life. You might be wondering what a relationship dream has to do with your real relationship. This type of dream might indicate that something is lacking in your relationship. Your dream might be able to reveal things to you that you might not be able to realize when you are awake.
On the other hand, dreaming about a relationship with a stranger can mean something entirely different. When you do not know this person in your dream, then the meaning of the dream changes. This kind of dream might mean that you are trying to explore untapped parts of your personality. When you are awake, try to unleash your inner self. Take some chances that you might not normally take and don’t be afraid to be who you are, even if it occasionally means doing something that is a little out of the ordinary.
Marriage
For many of us, marriage is a once in a lifetime event. If you’re lucky you’ll only get married once. A wedding is a special occasion that is full of celebration with the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. If you get married in a dream, it could still feel as real as getting married in real life. You could wake up feeling very confused when you have this kind of dream, especially when it is about a person that you are not even with.
Getting married in a dream can have lots of different explanations depending on what is going on in your life. A marriage in itself is symbolic of a promise, a union, and a change. This makes sense since marriage in real life is an important union between two people who promise to stay committed to each other. Getting married is a huge change in a person’s life and it represents a new chapter in your journey. Such a dream can indicate that you are arriving at an important chapter in your life. You might also be feeling more at one with yourself. Consider the person that you are marrying in that dream. The qualities that this person has might be qualities that you seem to be lacking in.
A dream where you marry a former lover can mean a few things as well. It can mean that you have accepted that part of your past. Maybe you are learning from the mistakes that were made in that relationship. This type of dream can also indicate similarities between your past relationship and your current one. Make sure that you learn from your past relationship instead of repeating the same mistakes over and over again.
Intimacy
Dreams that involve intimacy can sometimes make us feel good or bad, depending on the person who is in the dream. If you dream about being intimate with someone that you are not with, then you might feel some guilt even when you know it was just a dream. An intimate dream might be so vivid, that it can often feel real even when it isn’t. You might even feel a little embarrassed from having this type of dream. If you see the person that you’ve dreamed of on a regular basis, you might even feel strange looking them in the eye because of your awkward dream. You might feel even worse if you are in a relationship with someone else in real life. While it is just a dream, you might feel like you cheated on your significant other.
It is possible that dreaming of being intimate with someone besides your girlfriend, boyfriend, or spouse suggests that you are feeling unfulfilled within the relationship. At the same time, such a dream can have much more complicated meanings than a lack of fulfillment.
If you are dreaming about someone that you are not with, it can also mean that you have reservations about being vulnerable in a relationship. Are you feeling afraid to expose yourself to a significant other? If you have a wedding coming up, then your subconscious could be experiencing pre-wedding jitters. A dream where you are being intimate with multiple people at once could signify a feeling of detachment on your part. Look back and try to think whether or not you are feeling distant in your relationship.
Having a dream about intimacy that takes place in a public location can mean that you are concerned with what others say about your relationship. Think about why you care what people have to say about your relationship. Why do you care what others think? Is there some truth to the opinions that others might have about your relationship? Consider how these thoughts might be affecting your relationship with your significant other.
Having an intimate dream with a friend can mean a number of thing as well. One possibility is that you feel a sense of closeness for your friend, which is true for any good friendship. It could also be your subconscious telling you that you are experiencing some attraction for this friend. If you have a dream about someone of the same gender, it is possible that you are feeling a sense of love and acceptance for your own self. If this person is a friend, then they might have qualities that you wish you had.
In short, an intimate dream about someone does not always mean that you have sensual or romantic feelings for them. Sometimes it is just a call for you to reflect on yourself. While it never hurts to try and think about what your dreams might mean, you should not obsess too much about their meaning either.
Fighting
What does it mean when you dream that you are fighting with someone? When you fight in a dream, you will often wake up feeling upset. If you are having a fight in your dream, even with your significant other, it might indicate that you are actually at odds with yourself. Is something bothering you lately because you feel conflicted? This might be the source of your dream. Do you lately feel like you are at war with yourself? Whether you have issues within yourself or some issues that need some closure, it is a good idea to try and resolve any problems you might be having. Having conflict for too long is never healthy. You might want to ask yourself if your way of doing certain things might need to change.
Cheating
Dreaming about cheating is never fun. Cheating almost never leaves us with good feelings, whether you are cheating or being cheated on in the dream. You could end up feeling guilty, neglected, or wronged, even if the cheating occurs in a dream. But what does a dream that involve cheating actually mean? Before you consider what the dream means, you will first want to take a look at your relationship. How do you feel about your relationship and how does your significant other feel about you? Does either of you feel stressed out or unfulfilled? These answers might help you shed a better light on what your dream means.
If you are dreaming about cheating on your significant other, it does not necessarily mean that you subconsciously want to cheat on them. The root of this dream might be guilt, but not necessarily the kind that results from cheating. You might feel guilty for compromising some of your values. Are you not being true to yourself? Have you been an honest person lately? If you are guilty of something then, this could be why you are dreaming about cheating.
When you dream about cheating with someone that you know, then you might be wondering if you are lusting after that person. What this dream might really mean is that you could be giving too much of your time and energy to that person. Consider taking a step back and learning to say no once in a while.
What if you dream about your significant other cheating on you? While this type of dream might set off alarms for you, do not panic right away. A dream where you are being cheated on does not necessarily mean that you are being cheated on in real life. This type of dream might mean that you feel that you are being too passive in your relationship. Try to think of ways in which you can play a more active role in your relationship. Instead of choosing to take the backseat in your relationship, try taking the reins so you can steer your relationship in the right direction. Try to go in a direction that is more assertive and more confident. Are you worried that you are not satisfying your significant other enough? Try talking to them to see how you can improve your relationship. Acknowledge what your significant other has to say as feedback that is valuable.
If you are dreaming that you are being cheated on, it is also possible that you are not feeling secure in your relationship. Are you afraid that your significant other will abandon you? Maybe you are worried about the future of your relationship. If so, try to figure out why you feel that way. When you have this kind of dream, it can indicate that you are suffering from low self-esteem or a lack of trust in your partner. Try to see if you can get to a place where you can feel confident and secure in your relationship. Maybe your significant other can even help you get to that point of feeling stable instead of insecure.
Check out our other article: How To Make Him Miss You.
Passion
Dreaming about someone in a passionate way can be satisfying, embarrassing, or both. If you dream that you are in the throes of passion with someone, then it could symbolize a temptation that is in your life. Think about whether there is an urge you have that you feel a need to satisfy. If you are in a relationship, is it possible for your significant other to help fulfill these urges? Are these urges healthy or will they be destructive to you or your relationship?
As you can see, dreaming about someone can mean a number of things. In the dream world, a single dream can hold many possible different explanations. It all boils down to your subconscious. The more you understand your subconscious self, the more you will be able to understand your dreams and what they mean. If you are in a relationship, you can even use these dreams to help you work on ways to better your relationship when you are awake. When you have a vivid dream, you can wake up with a lot of emotions and thoughts on your mind. You might wake up confused, upset, or even scared. Understanding your dreams will help you to understand yourself.
While our dreams can often seem silly, confusing, and chaotic, sometimes they really do point to issues that are floating around in our subconscious minds. Sometimes, if you do have any issues going on, it is worth it to puzzle out what your dream might mean. Any dream that has to do with a relationship can especially be tricky. You might want to know what this dream means for your relationship. As long as you are able to recognize your feelings and thoughts, you will be able to figure out what it means when you dream about someone.
Elaine Magoteaux says
You may have an answer, you may not…
I had a weird dream about SEVERAL cats EVERYWHERE and a snake. Both the snake and the cats MANY cats seem to mean about the same thing. It would appear that they mean chaos in my life. (I looked it up)
The man I’m seeing was is the dream, he was with me. When the snake got on me, I was TERRIFIED and yelled to him to get it off me. He picked it up and contemplated throwing it on me. (but he didn’t) I woke myself up because I was so terrified and yelling for him to get it off me.
My question is: What significance does he have in this dream?
It is killing me to know….
Kat says
Hi Elaine,
It may mean that the relationship you have with this man is challenging, you want to run away from it or it means something will change between the two of you.
Efua says
Hi, I just had a dream about a guy friend and I. Right now, we’re pretty close, but everyone wants us to get together, and we don’t want to. We just want to be friends. Anyway, in the dream I had, it was the end of the school year and my friends and I were on the bleachers next to this weird room with the director’s wife. Then, my friend pulled me into that weird room, and he hugged me in a romantic way, or something. Then, I kissed him on the cheek and a couple minutes later, he was gone, and I was stuck in the room by myself. Eventually I got out, and when we met up again, we went to the school doorway, and before we went through, we kissed in front of our friends, and we were officially a couple after that.
My problem is, the friend and I aren’t romantically interested in each other in real life, and I don’t want to be, like I said before. What does this dream mean?
Sorry this is so long.
Mimi says
A snake means an enemy or someone who wishes you harm.
jeannie says
hi.
it started like 3 to 4 months ago when this “someone” keep appearing in my dream. he was my childhood schoolmate and i like him before. we haven’t seen eah other for about 10 years or so. both of us are married with kids.
i am just curious why he keep appearing in my dreams. it happens atleast once a month and i have no idea why. i have not been thinking of him nor been in contact with him for so long.
in every dream, it’s like we are developing a relationship with my current situation, my child is even in my dream.
almost a decade had passed, but i was thinking, maybe because upto now, i still didn’t get the answer whether he liked me back that time or not?
could this be the reason?
how can i stop having this kind of dreams?
thank you
Kat says
Hi Jeannie,
Yes, one of the reasons you see him in your dreams might be because you had an unresolved situation with him. You never found out if the feeling was mutual.
Is your marriage in trouble right now? If you have issues with your husband, this might be another possible reason you keep seeing this person in your dreams.
M says
Hi I had this dream a couple times in the last weeks were I dream I’m in a store in a mall and I’m helping decorate it and then when I leave I’m suddenly in a classroom sitting next to a guy that’s in my gym class that I used to like and then me and him start talking all the time no matter where we are and he’s pretty tall compared to me and so then we get back to the store I go in and he leaves and I helped a little girl decorate the rest of the store then suddenly I’m at home and it’s night and there’s a party going on right next door and me and little brother see are dog over at the house were the party is and we bring it back home and then again I’m at the store and me and him almost kiss but then I woke up and also in the dream I was in a different time period but I can’t remember which one. I’m really confused now.
Martha says
For about 2 months now I have a dream about a guy who I have known for a while now but her has a girlfreind and she is pregnant. I wish them the best but why wnat these dreams stop where him and I get together
Ishrat says
I got a dream a couple of time, that we were in the school, and that lunch break. Before lunch break, it was math class. During the lunch break, one of my friends who was a girl, where hanging with me and a boy. The girl was holding his hands as if they were husband and wife. After a while, she went went with her other best friends. I was the one left with that boy. Even I was about to leave, but suddenly he asked me to stay with him. So i said “okay”. We both were holding each other hands. After that he started talking to me about the girl who was with us five minute ago. He said that ” what does she thinks, that I’m attacked to her, hell no” i started smiling.
My question is : is that the boy is meant for me or for that girl. And is he just my friend or something else.
Kate says
Do you know this boy? Have you ever hung out with him before or thought about him? I think he is meant for you either as a friend or maybe something more.
Ishrat says
I got a dream a couple of time, that we were in the school, and that lunch break. Before lunch break, it was math class. During the lunch break, one of my friends who was a girl, where hanging with me and a boy. The girl was holding his hands as if they were husband and wife. After a while, she went went with her other best friends. I was the one left with that boy. Even I was about to leave, but suddenly he asked me to stay with him. So i said “okay”. We both were holding each other hands. After that he started talking to me about the girl who was with us five minute ago. He said that ” what does she thinks, that I’m attacked to her, hell no” i started smiling. My question is : is that the boy is meant for me or for that girl. And is just my friend or something else
Daniel says
Dude i had a dream today of slapping a better-looking version of a girl i personally know on the ass and she was just so gorgeous and i am now sad that that ass doesn’t exist…
Candida says
Thanks for your Time in helping us.
There’s this friend I’m relating to. She’s been nice but sometimes appears weird. She usually acts as she likes me but anytime I propose she acts totally differently.
Recently, she’s been acting selfishly so I thought of letting go off her from my life because I don’t feel attracted to her anymore because she acts nice today and something else the next time.
That night, I dreamt of her standing in front of me asking me to get her a ring on her finger.
I didn’t take that dream serious.
The next night I dreamt of being with a company and one woman said we’re meant for each other but we both disbelieve what was said in the dream.
This dream connected me back to her but I’m not attracted to her as before. She abused my care for her last night, so I thought this girl is not right for me…
But then, I dreamt again about her and she was really nice to me.
I feel there is something wrong with my keeping up with her. It’s like anytime I want her out of my life, I dream about her being kind. May you please with your wisdom guide me through this.
Kate says
Hi,
You probably dream about her because you haven’t decided for sure if you should continue this relationship with her or not. In deep down, you probably wish she was nicer to you and this is translated into your dream. This is the reason you see her being nice to you in your dreams. However, in real life, it’s your decision if you should end things with her or not.
Jenny says
hi
my name is Jenny and yesterday in my dream I saw a man, and I was holding his hand and I was escaping from some strange things with him and at that time I feel quite safe in his hand but though I do not know that man , even I never met man like that my dream . what does it mean , can u please tell me .
Kate says
Hi, it probably means that you want some adventure in your life and maybe a new boyfriend.
bob says
i had a dream that my best friend started doing things with the guy i liked but she thought it was ok scence she didn’t knew i liked him. not sure what that meant
Kate says
It may mean that you feel a little jealous or insecure when comparing yourself to the females in his life.
Michael says
Hi my name is Michael , 2 years ago my ex broke up with me , she left unexpectedly and of course I was heartbroken. I gave her 3-4 chances to make things work but she always messed up which caused me more pain because she would lie and say she had changed. The last time I saw her and spoke to her was in August of last year , she messed up and i told her that I’m done giving her chances and that it’s time to put closure to all of this. As I said before she left unexpectedly and I was destroyed and i said to my self that I would never forgive her for what she did to me. She was my first love , my first everything , my other half. The amount of love I had for her even when she would mess up was alot. Sometimes I think about the memories and it just makes me sad and I’ve asked friends and they said that’s usually normal, but now I have been thinking about her more and today I had dream about her , the dream i had about her wasn’t long I woke up when it was starting. In the dream she had come look for me and we got back together and we started kissing and then I woke up.
Could you help me?
Kate says
Hi Michael,
It means that you still have feelings for her. However, since your dream was short, it probably means that even if you get back together again with her, it would end pretty quickly. You guys would break up again and you would get hurt.
You need to let go, don’t think about the good memories you had with her. Think about the bad things why you guys kept breaking up. Breakups are hard and painful and they take time to heal. It’s normal that you feel sad. Make yourself busy. Hang out with friends or get a new hobby so you wouldn’t think about her all the time.
Pari says
I see my crush he see me any turn his face I fell on ground 😢 crying then I see my mom coming so I run but there was my dad I run by seeing mom because she said I am not allowed to do new activities 😟in my dream I see this
T Rob says
Just had a dream that included a woman in it that I do not know nor have I ever seen. Toward the end I saw her driver’s license and full name. When I awoke I
looked the name up on Facebook and there is only 1 person with that name.
I do not know her and never saw her before. Her name has no meaning to me.
But the photos of her are eerily similar to the woman in my dream. Not exact, but very, very close.
Kate says
Hi, your dream may mean many things and it may not necessarily be connected to her name. What were you doing with her in your dream? If you did something adventurous with her, then this is what you might crave in your life. Did you see the state on her driver’s license? It may mean that you travel there or get a girlfriend from that state.
It may also mean you might meet a girl with the same name (the same first name or the same last name).
Did she look like your ideal woman? Perhaps you would like to meet this type of girl in real life.
Joseph Chandler says
hi I keep dreaming about this guy from high school see I really liked him and we were friends but he was a player so we never hooked up like that. now 18 yrs later im dreaming of him twice and think about him at least three times a day what does this mean ? please help
D Annonymous says
wrong name I’m a girl not Joseph Chandler thanx
Kate says
Perhaps you feel lonely or wish to have a boyfriend so you’ll think about someone who you really liked in the past. It’s quite common to obsess over unfinished relationships and this will be carried over into your dreams.
pauline says
hi, I’m confused with my dream last night. I was on a trip with my friends and then I saw a man. in my dream, it was the first time I met him. it was so weird because at first we were just talking and laughing, and then he taught me how to kiss, and then we kissed. it wasnt long though..in my dream his face was blurred, and in real life I don’t know him. I hope you can help me know what that dream meant. thank you.
Kate says
It may mean that you want to get a boyfriend or you’ll get a crush on someone.
Sophia says
Hi there theirs this boy that I know in real person but I don’t really know him will and he kiss me and we kept kiss then I had I dream about him that in my dream he got married with other girl what does this dream means but I think he is cute and I like him can someone help plz
Kate says
It means you like him and feel jealous if he would start dating someone else.
M says
I had a dream last night where I married a close friend of mine. We were happy, but I didn’t know why I married him. I don’t know what to think. He is a good man, but we are only friends.
Kate says
It may mean that perhaps you like him more than a friend.
Rose says
I dreamt that a man I’m romantically interested in turned up at my house with a dog. The dog was not in very good shape and it was pooping all over the place and he was running around cleaning up after the dog . This dream has baffled me.
Kate says
Seeing dogs in your dreams often mean friendships, loyalty, and protection. Seeing an animal poop in your dream means that this animal relates to someone you know. In case of a dog, it means a good friend.
Marilyn Muir says
I had a very strange very vivid dream last night about a neighbour I had about 15 years ago who unfortunately passed away quite some time ago.I haven’t thought about him nor has his name been mentioned at any time.In the dream he blurted out that he loved me even though we never spoke much when he was alive then he did some odd jobs for another neighbour then I got ready for a night out with him and he told me he was going out with some of my other neighbours in a group.It was very confusing and I actually awoke crying.Is there any explanation for this I have racked my brains all day trying to figure this out.Thank You.
Kate says
Seeing dead people in your dreams mean different things. If they give you advice or some kind of a message, it may mean that they are trying to help you or you need help with something. In your case, are you lonely? Do you need more love in your life, a new boyfriend etc.
Anoynomous says
I had a dream about kissing a guy at work who’s only 22 years old and I’m 32 we were stuck in the elevator and lights turned of I said his name and asked him if he was beside me he said yes then we kissed passionately with tounge action. Then the lights turned on and the elevator moved and he whispered something to me. My work friends were also there but was confused and didn’t know what happened and laughed.
What does that mean does it mean I miss my youth lol.
Kate says
Perhaps you wish to have some fun adventure with someone youthful or do something you haven’t done before (maybe something you’ve considered forbidden).
William says
In my friend’s dream, she was asleep. In the dark. Then she felt someone stroking her hand. So now it’s dark and eerie right. she opens her eyes slowly. Then you know how people turn slowly to see what’s there??? Bam!!! It was my face!!! She screamed in the dream and woke up in real life, she literally had to whisper a prayer because It looked so real. but in the dark, even a smiling baby is scary. But why was I smiling? It was creepy for her…and I was stroking her hand like it was a kitten or something.The other weird thing is that my hand was SUPER soft. Like a new born’s hand.
what could this dream mean for our friendship?
Madeline says
Hi Kate.
So I have been in a committed and loving relationship for about 2 years now. I love her very much, and I would never cheat on her or leave her. However, recently I have been in class with a someone male who is really nice and shares some of the same values as I do. While I have proven to myself I am bisexual, I have a strong preference for women because I had a people-pleasing complex with every man I was with and they treated me poorly for the longest time. (Until I started dating my girlfriend.) I’m afraid I cannot tell if I am actually attracted to him or ‘like’ him, or if it is old habits. He also may seem to ‘like’ me, but I’m unsure in this and he is also in a loving relationship (that he’s left once before briefly.) Last night, my dream was very childhood-heavy. Nearly everything was an aspect of my childhood that I was trying to assemble to solve a puzzle or something and it was all out of curiosity with friends. However, he was also in my dream and there was a portion where one of us pulled the other to the side, and I said “I’m in love with my girlfriend—“ and he continued with “And I’m in love with mine—“ and we both finished with “But I feel like I might like you” or something of the sort. Also later in this dream we broke off from the group searching for something and he began to put his arms aroung my waist in a behind hug, and I didn’t comfirm or deny it. In the dream it was comforting and felt like what I may have wanted. However when I began to wake up and tried to imagine kissing him to test this, I just kept imagining my girlfriend, and almost couldn’t imgine him. Do I truly feel an attraction? Or are these old habits coming through from my people-pleasing days. Thanks.
Kate says
You probably feel some attraction. It’s okay to find someone else attractive, it doesn’t mean that you will act on it. You have a girlfriend whom you love, and you’ll be faithful and true to her.
Jackson says
I have a dream about a girl that I don’t know, but we have a relationship in the dream. Is it because i need a girfriend or no?
Kate says
Yeah, perhaps you wish to have a girlfriend in your life.
Ms Candy says
Hi Kate
I have a young daughter with one guy. I recently had a miscarriage of my second child and broke up with my boyfriend. I don’t speak to any of these men at the moment and i don’t see eye to eye with my baby daddy. The other day i had a dream i was happy and in a relationship with my recent ex whom i had a miscarriage with, then i ended up sitting at a table with all him, my baby-daddy and all other guys who had hurt me in my life. It seemed like this ex boyfriend had convinced me to sit down and talk things out with my baby daddy. This dream worries me up to now and what really concerns me is that i was sitted with every men who had “hurt” me , not just past lovers, yet i want nothing to do with any of them.
Kate says
You might be still bitter about the men that have hurt you. Perhaps subconsciously you would want to tell them how you feel about them.
Gabby says
I have been having this dream about a guy who I like but he also is currently in a serious relationship and I keep dreaming that I am his girlfriend or that I confront his girlfriend. I don’t flirt with him and I keep it strictly friends. What does this mean? Does it just show my true feelings?
Kate says
Yeah, you like him and keep thinking about him so you see him in your dreams.
Maryjane says
I heard a dream about a man who left the woman he impregnanted to marry the woman he loves even when the pregnant woman pleaded for him to accept her
Gellie says
I’m in a relationship for 3 years but i keep dreaming with my ex boyfriend for 2-3 times a month. It really bothered me because in my dream we’re very sweet and intimate and every kiss and every hug feels so real and my feelings for him is so intense. I don’t know why, and i keep choosing him over my boyfriend. We are so very happy and inlove with each other but We don’t communicate much and i don’t think about him. He is also with someone else. What does it mean?
Kate says
Perhaps you never got your closure or you still have feelings for him.
cassandra says
HY I have not seen someone that i like for a while and know i dreamed about him
the most meaningful dream that i could tell you about is the time we were dating and we sat near each other we crossed are arms together but we started to get nervous and so this was the most weird dream i had if anyone dreams about dating someone and is nervous then it means that you want to have a life with that person but when you are around him you get nervous so it will feel weird.
And it will take a while before you get that person.
Stacey says
I had this dream of someone I don’t know. The true feeling of trust and and letting go to love. It was her face. Her sitting down off to the side. Her words where just don’t hurt me. The feeling of actually letting go and trust and enjoying. With who ever those erson is in my dream. I want that. But what does it mean?
Mary jane bragat says
Hi a had a dream last night… I dream him twice a week… But we are not close to each other… Everytime when i dream him he always court me but i always evade him because im scared coz i have already a husband… But still this man never stop courting at me he always keep smilling at me, and sometimes he keeps beside on me… And the more he try to keep beside the more i keep distance in him but still he never give-up…can u please give me some of advice.
Maurice says
I keep having this strange dream about 3 times now about my cousins female friend I used to have a crush on her back in the day but she wouldn’t give me the time or day but now my cousins female friend b keep popping into my dreams but i don’t think about her at all and she not on mind like that but for strange reason my cousin female friend keep being in my dreams so I would like to know what that mean to me even I don’t think about her like that at all please help me find the solution or some type of sign
Lavinia says
Hi Kate,
Thanks for this great article.
Like few days ago I had a very weird dream about my friend, where we were like kissing and in a relationship ( the Very same day I just wondered where he was). This friend of mine is somebody I haven’t spoken since 5-6 month’s. We used to be really good friends.
The weirdest part is that the very next day I get a call from him and he says me about his dream where he saw me. He said that we were like so happy together. We kissed and got intimate as well.
I am completely clueless about this. May be you can help me figure this out.
Kate says
Do you like him more than a friend or wish you guys were more than friends? Seems like you guys both like each other and that’s the reason for these types of dreams.
Malaak says
Hi today I’ve dreamed of my celebrity crush
and I have a big crush on her I’ve dreamed of me and her and her boyfriend but he was her friend and we were in a really nice place and I was her friend too and she gaved me a biggyback ride and I’ve her a kiss on her cheeks she blushed and her eyes started to shine and we were working on a movie and when I’ve woken up I’ve heard that he is her boyfriend and she posted a picture of tham in the same place that I’ve dreamed of and they were in a relationship
Charisse says
I had a dream about me and my friend, we also had friendship with someone unfamiliar. We took a picture in her cellphone *which is my cellphone in real life* I half surprise when I saw myself with her face and my friend has mine. I looked at her, our face actually changed. We didn’t make it a big deal. The other friend of us is too shy to have a picture with us. She’s avoiding the camera, we convinced her so at the end we took a picture together. As we had a selfie.. I wore a big smile, my friend who has my face wore a natural smile and my other friend wore a awkward smile.. This dream is so long but I think the others is not important at all we just fighting, running out of danger and I already know what’s that mean . This scene is the only one that triggers me…. These days I dreamed more, I always look at the internet so I could interpret it and it turns out that it’s all related to my personality.. I think this dream represent my other personality, what do you think?.. I was thinking that those friends I had in my dream is actually me and my face changed into my friend’s face because I have insecurity with her or I want to be like her *I have no insecurity in her in real life*.. what do you think?.. *I’m not a english speaker so I hope you’ll understand my english :(*
Charisse says
I just don’t understand why I have her face. I’m not insecure of her or anything and I know that in myself
Kate says
Perhaps you like something about your friend, her personality or characteristics etc. You might want to be more like her in some ways.
Linda says
Hello,
I feel so guilty for having a romantic dream about a guy I was unhappily in love with before I got together with my current boyfriend. The guy and I are friends now, but sometimes I feel some of my old feelings for him, but only when we hang out which almost never happens, and when we do hang out its usually in the company of my boyfriend and/or his girlfriend.
In the dream I was choosing between them, and I choose the guy over my current boyfriend. The day before the dream I realized that I have a small crush on a collegue that I hardly know, which makes me feel guilty and like I’m mentally cheating on my boyfriend. Im quite disturbed by this dream and by my small infatuation IRL, and I have had problems letting go of it and its meaning, and especially the guilt.
sophie says
hi my name is Sophie.
I’m 13 yrs old and last night I had a dream of my boyfriend. I know that this is weird and we should brake up because we haven’t spoken in just under a year but I had a dream of a friend and me and him aren’t really friends anymore but in the dream it was like he was my bff and we were really close (in the dream) so we were at this school that recently shut down and it was lunch So we had our lunch and we was walking past this room that had glass windows all around it. But because we hadn’t spoken in so long (me and my boyfriend (Kahn)) it was really awkward because me and Kahn made eye contact. I told my friend (kyreece) that I didn’t want to walk past the room. so he said why don’t we just walk fast so I said OK. as we were walking past really fast I was so focused on getting out of there that I didn’t notice him leaving. we bumped into each other and said sorry at the same time. we both blushed. kyrece must have sensed the awkwardness and pulled me over to him and we both walked away. I looked back at him and noticed Kahn was staring at me. And then I woke up and I Really want to know what it means.
can someone please help me.
Edina Jacquez says
I have a dream with my bestfriend, in my dream he always protect me hes caring, he always make me happy, and we feel both in love with each other but we cant express our feeling because me and hem are shy to say,. We keept it even i know that he love me and i love hem too.
How mamy times that i see hem in my dream and he gives me love but he can’t till that he love me, its feel like a real and i wake up my heart is beating faster,
Louise says
In my dream i have seen my boyfriend that is hermaphrodite ,we are fighting and finally I run away by crying and it was mid night
Cindia says
Today I dreamt that i went to my bestfriends house and then my crush saw me and he talked to me and told me that he needs to let me know that he still loves me but her doesnt know who to choose.
But in reallife he doesnt talk to me, we had our first kiss then he forgot about my existence.GUYS!!PLZ HELP ME WHAT DO I DO IM SO CONFUSED!!! HELPPP !! WHAT DOES IT MEAN?!
Patty says
I keep having this dream about a married man that I love and his son , he is standing there with his son and there are looking at me to come to them but I don’t go because I am scared and I am looking for his wife.. What dose this mean, Also I talked to him and he said he has a dream about , He came home and I was standing in the kitchen cooking dinner…
Carmen says
hi, so this is sort of odd this dream. So before this guy would stare at me a lot in class. So once I had to work on a team with him, I was sort of a smart ass in the group yet quiet. (This was a assigned project we had to do.) So, later on after couple of weeks I had a dream. Where I found him crying. Then we promised ourselves to each other. Then on a road we found a necklace, a necklace with three blue sapphires. He put it in his pocket and we continued to walk.
Now I barley know the guy. I wasnt thinking about him before I fell asleep. The dream was just so odd to mean. Also if you reply to this thank you. Also I was extremely nervous to post this comment. Also before with this guy didnt really care with his staring. Because I hurt after getting rejected by a guy I liked a lot. So I didnt really care about anything else around the time.
Tania says
Ok so this dream though vague to me for some reason instilled a lot of anxiety.
In my dream I was in my room trying to go to sleep. The lights were off but I had a tv on. (Which I do not have) my friend opened my room door to tell me something but I didn’t hear words so I attempted to turn volume down which I couldn’t. He left and came back and handed me a house phone. I already had a phone in my room (again which I don’t really have) I switched the phones and then tested it to see if it had dial tone. Which it did. After dream got weird and a ton of cats and kittens ran into my room underneath my bed. Different colors. One stood out though, a gray one with glowing eyes.
Traci says
Today I had a dream of basically my crush trying to escape me and it worked. It doesn’t say anything about your crush escaping you on this page . I would really like to know what it means
Hannah says
Hi,
Every now and again, I have a extremely vivid dream that I’m dating guys that I know. This week I dreamt that me and one of the boys in my class were dating. I don’t really know him very well so I was very confused when I woke up. In the dream I vividly remember that when he was hugging me, my body felt all tingly. Now, whenever I think about it, I get all tingly in the same way. This is not the first time I have dreamt a dream of this nature, so can you please tell me what’s going on. Thanks
Julie says
Had a dream about a guy i like, he likes me too. .but he’s married. I can’t mess that up. I keep on thinking about him. We talk from time to time., i don’t know what that dream means. Maybe i should just stay away and let him be.
grazziana zee says
Hi. I dreamed about lighting a match with a guy. The match was on his mouth and I was trying to light it (but it was never lit because I woke up) and everyone around us are asking if we are dating or something and even take pictures of us and tease us. I wonder what could it mean
Regena says
Hi, I had a dream where I was on a bus with my current friends and the bus wasn’t riding yet. It’s like we were waiting for the rest of us to come. Then after some time a group of people came by the bus and I recognized them as my very old friends that we are not in touch anymore. Then I opened the bus’ door to let them in and I let a part of them in. When I was going to back of the bus to take the remaining seat, I don’t know why but the structure of bus kind of changed and there no way to walk to last row, you had to go through the front rows. Anyways I went back and right when I was going to my seat, there was this guy that I don’t know IRL was sitting there without me remembering letting him in. I climbed the row he was seating in and suddenly he touched my butt and I aggressively told him Don’t touch my butt! (I know, very funny) and then we kinda looked at each other and had eye contact and stuff. It was like I liked him but I don’t know him in real life. 🙁
Pamela says
I had a dream proposed by a man we ain’t in relationship in real life. I answered Yes. He inserted a ring into my finger and prayed. Waking up in real life as I respond “Amen”. This happened 05:20am. Can’t place the meaning.
Kate says
Your dream might be associated with Angel number 520 .
J says
Hi. I dreamed I asked him to become my boyfriend in chat
J says
This article is so good.. My very complicated dream that cannot be found in the outside search gave me some answers.
J says
I don’t where is my comment here. I hope I can see mine like others. They’re commenting here. I don’t know how
T says
Dream the other a previous Lover said he will marry me then dream my current Lover said he will marry me. Not a proposal just talking. What does this mean?
Molly says
I keep dreaming that me and my ex will get back together… and of course I wake up and none of its real.
Kehinde says
Please help interpret this dream l traveled with my son of 22years but seen as 6 year old in sport uniform by has poo on his body.Teacher took him out to clean. I follow into a big house of where nation wealth is gotten (oil) but ground slippery was careful in walking
Zanne says
Im in a relationship, but im distant, im distant with everyone in my life really, but i keep dreaming almost every night about me and another guy that isn’t my boyfriend, sometimes the guy will repeat, other times its a new guy. I know some of the guys, but i don’t recognize them all. I don’t understand why im dreaming about other guys, please help me understand if you can.
Kate says
Perhaps you are unhappy with your current relationship and this is the reason you keep dreaming about other guys.
Heather Barrows says
Hi,
I’ve been having a reoccurring about running with someone in the woods. Suddenly I trip and fall and find myself lying on a street but I am surrounded by wolves that are attacking me. The same person I was running with before is now standing behind the wolves, not offering any help and says, “Why would you let them do that?” I have tried to look into it but have found many different interpretations and would love to hear what you think about it.
Madalyne says
Hi…I’ve had a couple dreams of having a baby, but the man I had a baby with isn’t my husband. The guy would have the same name and personality as him. Literally everything from the way he laughs, smiles, jokes around, but his face or physique is totally different. But I totally feel and know its my husband.
Ann says
I just dreamed about helping a younger coworker with some superficial personal tasks. In the dream I was comfortable with him as a friend but also felt he wanted more and would try to use the helping as a way in. This made me vaguely uncomfortable. In waking life we are not friends just coworkers. Is this dream informing me of some underlying dynamics I could have with this person? Or with the opposite sex in general? Or am I way off base?
Daniel says
Hi, I need help. There’s a boy in my class that I have a crush on, but he thinks we’re just friends and he doesn’t know that I like him a lot. He hangs out with a different girl. Last night, I had a dream that me, him, and the girl (classmate and former friend) went to a fancy hotel with a movie theater, and they both wore fancy clothes, and then he proposed to her and she said yes. It broke my heart, and now I don’t know what I should do. Also, about 2 months ago, I had a dream that he had a sleepover with me, and I wanted to kiss him and cut some of his hair so I could keep it to remember him, even though I already have a boyfriend and we’re probably going to get married when we are older. I know I need to forget about him, but I don’t know how.
A Person Thing says
Maybe it means that your jealous that he’s friends with another girl, and if he’s on your mind a lot then maybe your other boyfriend isn’t right for you if you like this guy more.
Brenden A says
I had a dream where I was intimate with one of my best friends, made out with an other one of my friends, then dated another. I’m a guy and those of my friends are guys. So I think it’s a bit strange. And at the very end of my dream I got back with my girlfriend and made out with her until I woke up. Idk what this means, this all happened in one dream. Please help me.
Alf says
Please help. Just over a year ago I was seeing a woman who was in a marriage- things ended after a couple of months. She’s been on my mind a lot lately. Last night I dreamed that I was in her house and we were fooling around and her husband was in the room but was oblivious. Then we were in the back of my car getting intimate when the car brakes failed and the car moved by itself.
Next thing we were at her house and two people (man and woman) whom I knew at school and whom are married to one another (wasn’t close with them) had moved in next door and we were all chatting.
Douglas Burnham says
I need help. I recently had a dream about a woman and I together during a dream, but we had no contact whatsover and it was as it we were friends. However, in real life, me and this woman barely talk to each other, but are friendly. What does this mean?
Cas says
I had a dream that my boyfriend grabbed my hand and we were in school then the teacher asked if we were holding hands I looked down and it was like we never were doing anything it seemed like he was farther away than before but not really far. What does it mean
Scarlett says
hi…
so for the past week I have been having dreams about certain boys in my life that I’ve had some sort of relationship with without being boyfriend girlfriend and we are in different situations and places. I have even previously had a dream with a few people at the destination where they are now and its weirding me out. every night there has been someone I’ve liked and other friends who have been popping in and out of the dreams and even a few guys have been in a few dreams.
why is this happening?
Panda says
I am single in late 20s. Last week i dreamt of a man from business network. We have met only 2 times. But we are friend on Facebook. In the dream, he showed romantic interest and acted like a boyfriend to you. Eyes on me all the time, intimate touch, and hug. I also saw myself naked around him, but i didn’t feel embarrassed or anything just totally comfortable around him. After that dream, my interest sparks. I keep visiting his Facebook to see his photos and try to find out if he has a girlfriend.
Angel says
Hi, I keep having dreams about someone that I had a crush on at the beginning of the semester. I’ve been with my significant other for almost 7 months now and I had feelings of wanting to be in an open relationship to explore more with the people I had crushes on. They (my significant other) are very monogamous and didn’t like the idea much at all. Months have gone by and I thought that it was just a phase I was going through because I’m waking life I only think of them and not wanting to be with anyone else. However, I keep having dreams about this other person, not sexual or super romantic, just being with them. In the most recent one my dream self was thinking “it’s finally nice to be able to know what it’s like to be with you” and I’m curious what exactly this means. I’m waking life this person (the old crush) is a good friend of mine now and I enjoy being with them in a non romantic sense. My crush on them stopped when they told me that they didn’t see me like that and didn’t want a relationship, then a couple weeks later they started seeing this other girl. She’s nice and I am happy for them and I don’t feel icky or jealous. But the dreams ….Please help me!
Samuel says
1–I keep dreaming of asking girls out.
This is the third time this year 2019 with three different girls, meanwhile am in a relationship. What could be the meaning..?
2–i also dreamt that, i’m in my dream dancing with my Ex in my house. what could be the meaning…?
David says
Once there was a girl who everyone in my science class table who always had a grouchy attitude. I did not like that person she was mean. I dreamth once I was in the school locker rooms talking to some boys and then she came in pushed me back grabbed my legs and proceeded to molest me then I awoke. I felt terrible sitting in front of her the next day. What does this mean ?
laila says
I have a dream about someone that we have a mutual understanding we laughed and we have a sweet gesture. In real life the guy in my dream is my schoolmate which is we knew each other by name but we are not friend but he smile at me when we saw each other.
I hoping for your reply.
Very Uncomfortable says
I had one of the most terrifying dreams last night. There, I was in a relationship with one of my mom’s friends. She’s double my age and I clearly have zero interest towards her both in real life and inside the dream but somehow she seemed to be crazily infatuated by my presence and keeps clinging onto me and even did some minor erotic things to me which is making me shiver as I am typing this but it felt so real and I was cringing the whole time inside the dream and even now. Please tell me what it means, I’m dying to know.
Anonymous says
Hi im dreaming of this boy twice and he’s with another girl, in my first dream i don’t know the girl and my second dream he’s with his friend (also a girl) and they always appeared happy and always wearing black. Did it haave a meaning?.
A says
Hi, about three yrs ago I received a friend request from someone I had met in 96 while visiting my cousin in California. We had an instant connection then. I still have the pictures of us together with my cousin and another of their friends. Well since that friend request three yrs ago we have talked every day from the moment we wake to the time we go to bed always starting with good morning and ending with good night. Both have told each other of how we felt about each other in 96. Neither of us said anything at that time. Then in 06 I ran into him and it was like he didn’t remember me. So I was like ok whatever. Well in the 10 yrs from that encounter now being 2016 we’ve both had change in our lives. I am now divorced with two teens. He was going through a divorce with three young kids. Now three yrs later we still talk everyday and hangout every Friday on his day off. He and his wife are still together yet he claims there is no intimacy between them. Whereas there has been a couple times where he and I gave into our feelings for each other and have been intimately involved. This past weekend we had similar dreams. We dreamt of each other in a very erotic x-rated sort of way. He knows I love him and I know he cares for me as much as he can. Why would we have this dream the same night? The only difference is in his dream we were together and in mine we were trying to come together yet couldn’t. He said he woke up happier then he’d been in a long time. I woke up crying but not sad tears. Please help me understand what this could mean.
Katherine says
I had this weird dream. I am a teen girl. Their is this guy I know and I used to think he was cute. Well I only ever talked to him once in 7 grade now I’m a Sophomore. I was in a whole
Classroom and we were all sitting on the floor. I could feel everything in my dream in real life. He kept scooting behind me really close to my back and butt. So I scoot forward cause I thought their was no room. He scoot even closer, then started to feel me up, grabbing my butt and chest in a very urging way like he wanted to get in my pants. I don’t know what this means because I could feel it in real life even though I was dreaming and it even woke me up. In the classroom when he was touching me nobody even noticed except his friend was watching, so then I moved and he would give me looks from across the room with the I’m gonna get in your pants one way or another look. What does it mean? I have had dreams like this with three different guys for the past week their kinda similar.
Emma says
Btw i dont like him that much….
Emma says
So the thing is that i dreamed about some kind of person tht looks exactly as my classmate. I dont like him that much…
I was in a relationship with him, and we were like the perfect Couple on a adventure….
Does anybody know what this means??
(Srry im dont speak English very well^^)
Willow says
This might sound weird but I have been having a reoccurring dream where my significant other is standing in the middle of a square and they are dying, but I can’t do anything I can do but watch. I break a little bit more each time in the dream. It’s very vivid and scary. Does anyone know what this could mean?
Leia says
I keep dreaming about this guy i have been seeing a few times now i keep dreaming that he is a cry baby and a different guy than he is in person. tbh i still don’t know how i feel about this guy but when the dreams happen i wake up liking him less. what does it mean?
Senkanthal says
On our engagement day, I’m going to meet him without telling him…He is planning to leave and I’m asking where are going. He says that one girl is waiting for him. She will feel bad if she is not able to meet him. So he planned to meet her. I was crying and asking, why are not you speak with me and why r u going to meet her? I didn’t get a response as I woke up. In real also, he is not speaking or sharing a lot. But asks when to get married. Then why am I getting dream like this?
lyndan says
I was in a relationship of almost two years, we both just graduated high school and I’m currently going to college while he was just working and trying to get the job he wanted. Right now, things are tight and confusing because a bout a week or two ago I had a dream about another man who works at the same store I do. The dream was in a public place, like a park with families present, and in the dream I confessed my feelings for this man. In the dream, he did what he always does when I see him, he smiled and laughed. We went inside a building and I started crying to him because I was with someone else and I didn’t want to break his heart. I didn’t want to put him through pain and yada-yada-yada. Well, I made a tragic mistake by cheating on my boyfriend in real life with the guy I had a dream about. Of course, he broke up with me and kicked me out of his house and after that, I was so ashamed of what I did that I didn’t want to care anymore so I slept with the guy, twice. I know, pretty freaking horrible. Now, my boyfriend who I hurt very much, wants to try again with me and see if we can fix things because we had it good. It would never be the same but he would like to try and I thought so too but I keep thinking about the other guy. Now, I’m confused and don’t know what to do because this guy is obviously wrong for me but somehow, I’m very attracted to him. I blocked him and all I want to do is just talk with him again and go at it. I’m so lost and confused, I have no idea what to do. I’m sorry this is very long oh my GOSH!
Confused Reader says
Hi,
I had a dream about a friend of the same gender. What you said may be true but I think it may have something to do with that girls who are my “friends” keep calling me gay because I don’t have a crush. Could this be the reason because I hate every bit of myself, in fact this dream made me feel worse because I thought if I am gay (note I have nothing against the gay community) that would make everything they say true and one of those girls doesn’t like gays so If I were and I came out maybe she wouldn’t be my friend anymore.
Of course you can’t know the answer to my dream but It feels good just to tell someone of this, I told a friend that goes to a different school and told her the “guy” I had a dream about was called Sam because that’s her nickname. Talking to her made me feel better but only for a little while because I didn’t tell her the whole thing.
If you can please give me some reassurance about this situation it would be much appreciated.
meann estomo says
I just Dream That the girlfriend of my best friend go over me and kiss me, and I like haras and angry . and in the dream, I go to my friend and told her what happen. and her girlfriend told me don’t tell her. When I wake up I feel so angry about what she did.
we are all girls by the way.
Maan says
Hi,
I had a dream, just now.. the guy I wanna meet… met another woman in my dreams, but he told me that he is going out with the girl, and that it wont take long and that he will message me as soon as they are done. To my curiousity, I asked my girl co worker to come along with me. i searched for them and i saw them holding hands and going to the party etc. i felt this stabbing feeling in my chest just watching them from afar. Even when I am already awake, my chest still feels in pain. This guy in my dreams was just a textmate of mine for almost 4months and i was planning to meet him soon. We already have a mutual understanding.
What do you think about my dream?
Lea mae pacina says
I dream about my person in the past that I’m still rooting with is with someone else and that someone else is the girl I’m a speculating on. And on my dream, he said to me “ you have moved on, right?” and i response “yes, i do”(but i was not) and he then told me that they are communicating after our last chat and i think he is happy. Then there’s this part of my dream that we are looking for that girl coz she gone missing and we search for her. We found her somewhere in an abundant house sitting unconsciously and he took her and after that i’m in panic bcoz they are kinda dating and i don’t know what to do. In my dream, I’m thinking subconsciously and consciously like i want to change my dream but i’m a bit too late coz i woke up. It happend around 6 am
kaylee says
hi so i had this dream about one of my guy best friends. i mean, ive been friends with him for six years but we recently have just gotten really close. because i hang out with him a lot, people always assume that im cheating on my boyfriend and it annoys me a lot because the guy is nothing more than a best friend to me. last night, my bf and i had a really small argument but that was all i could think about for hours before i could even get to sleep. then i had a dream about my guy best friend and it was just so strange. we acted like how we usually act in real life, until he gave me his jacket to wear because i was cold and then more things started to happen. and, it just felt so real. i hadn’t forgotten about my bf though, but it didnt seem to matter to me. it was just extremely strange to me and i trusted one person to tell this about bc i dont want it getting spread around but she thinks that it could be a sign or something. im honestly just really confused with it all. what could it mean??
Romaly Diogenes says
Hi!im very much interested about this i had a lot of questions about my dream…please help
lori skins says
ok so there is this guy that i work with. when he first started working with me i may have had a little crush on him but i quickly got over it when i heard he had a girlfriend. however, maybe a month ago i had multiple dreams of him and i together as a couple but i haven’t had any more until last night. so in my dream, somehow i lived in this old brick mansion and it was beautiful. my dream starts off with my mom being concerned that i had a boyfriend and she was convinced that we had a hiding stance where we would “be intimate.” well she was walking throughout the entire mansion trying to find it. there were no hallways in the mansion, you got to the rooms by going through another room. well she got to a bedroom and went to the closet and found a secret door leading to another room. when she went through the door, suddenly i took her place. as i walk around the room i was just amazed at how pretty it was. on the farthest wall, there were floor to ceiling windows that showed the front yard and a short hallway that led to a balcony connected to another room. suddenly, i was downstairs, in the front yard. the yard was unkempt and there were overgrown trees and bushes. as i looked around, all i could think was that it was absolutely stunning. as i looked across the yard i noticed my golden retriever (i don’t have a golden retriever but i have always wanted one) and i called him over and started to play with him. while we were playing, he jumped into the pool that was right in front of us. the pool was lined with very vibrant and colorful tiles. the water was dirty and full of leaves from the tree above. when i noticed the water, i told the dog to get out and that i would tell my mom to drain the nasty water. next thing i know, i’m upstairs in a wide hallway with lots of arched windows. i go over to a window and notice that they can open. the windows were the size of doors so i figured that there would be a balcony. so i open the window and look down and all i see is a kind drop so i close the window. i go over to another window and notice three teenagers standing on the sidewalk. i try to get there attention but they don’t notice me so i just watch as they walk towards the front of the house. as i was watching them they started to break into the house. all of a sudden they were in my hallway and i pinned one of them down and asked why they were in my house. when i said i lived there they all got surprised. suddenly they were gone, and i was back in that hidden room and i was with that guy that i work with and we were just holding each other and looking into each other’s eyes and we were just “in love”
lmao so what does any of that mean?
miguel says
hi my name is Miguel I have a girlfriend but I was deriming about someone else but I dint coseder it cheating tho cues nothing hapend she just came up to me and my boyfriend broke up with me (which he was my friend) and she held me then I woke up. what should I do.
aamna afroz says
So I had a dream about my friend, with whom I am in a relationship in the dream. But, since he already have a gf in real life and dream, I feel guilty and get a feeling of cheating over. My real life crush is also in the dream and I see him giving me angry faces to me. What does this mean?
unknown says
I keep dreaming about me having a relationship with my friends. I have dreamt about three friends already and they keep escalating. The first friend I dreamt about I hugged them. The second friend they kissed me and the third friend I got married to them. But the weirdest part is that they all felt slightly real. The third one I dreamt about last night and it felt so real I thought it actually happened. I felt so confused when i woke up. But the one thing that’s bothering me is that I think I have feelings for my friend in the third dream we are very close after all.
Shreeya says
Every 2-3 days I have this dream about a specific friend of mine. We are good friends in college and we sometimes hang out too and we don’t even talk everyday. He’s in a stable relationship since years and I’m single, just liked guys here and there. So every alternate day I get these romantic dreams about him. Dreams where either I feel for him and I’m scared to tell him and everyone wants us to be together or either we are already together but he still doesn’t want to leave his relationship that he is in, in real life. All of these emotions are so strong that when I wake up I am shook and just have 1 desire that I want him here right now. We both have never thought about each other in a romantic way ever. So this is very very weird for me. All those feelings, it feels like he’s right her holding me it just feel too real. What does all this mean? I can’t fall for him because of all these dreams. It would complicate a lot of things.