We all have a little bit of feminine and masculine energy in us. Usually, thanks to hormones, experience, and beliefs, we either display a more feminine side or a masculine side.
If you are straight, then chances are you are a male who is attracted to a woman who displays feminine characteristics as opposed to masculine characteristics. And, it is the same for women – they tend to be attracted to men who are masculine.
What Are Masculine Traits?
Masculine traits can be physical, such as a larger upper body and chiseled face. But even the prettiest boy can exhibit masculine energy traits such as being assertive, rushed, controlling, and hard.
It is important to know that some men display these traits to the extreme, while others just display them a little.
Extreme equals not sexy, while masculine equals sexy.
For instance, if you are extremely assertive, then chances are women will find it attractive initially but then quickly become turned off by. Alternatively, if you are self-confident in your actions, but not pushy or forceful, then you display a masculine energy that is sexy in the present and the long haul.
Why Do Women Find Masculine Traits Sexy?
It is all about balance. Yin and yang stands for feminine and masculine energy in all of us.
Most men (and women) have their energies out of balance because we have been taught to play under a certain role. Men have been taught to be tough, no matter what the circumstances are, and women have been taught they have to be extremely feminine in order to get a man’s attention.
We need to be closer to a balance of feminine and masculine energies in order for our actions and our inner desires to line up.
In any case, our focus is on attracting women, so because women tend to be more feminine, they are attracted to that masculine energy because it brings about a balance in the relationship.
Yin and Yang cannot exist without the other. In order for a relationship to survive, it has to have a dominant feminine and dominant masculine energy. If there is, the relationship can be loving, peaceful, harmonious, and in balance. Furthermore, that energy may shift at certain points in the relationship, where the female is more masculine and the male is more feminine.
Can You Be The Yin To Her Yang?
Can you be the feminine energy while she is the male energy? Sure! Why not? It still strikes a balance, and as long as both of your needs are being met, then it will be a relationship that is balanced.
