A Gemini man is known most for his impressive brilliance, his innate intelligence, and his strong communication abilities. Getting to know his mind comes easy, as he is an open book willing to talk about anything under the sun.
While a Gemini man makes for great company and is undoubtedly always transparent about his thoughts and his opinions, he might be a little more challenging to figure out in the realm of intimacy.
Learning about a Gemini man in bed means going beyond the level of his sex drive. Any man can enjoy sex, but we are going to dive into the nitty-gritty details of what a Gemini man likes and dislikes and how to can achieve high levels of passion and satisfaction in the bedroom.
A Gemini Man’s Sex Drive
Gemini men are different from others in that sex isn’t their main driver in a relationship. Unlike other signs, he chooses things like intellect and a good conversation over hours of lovemaking.
Some may be discouraged by this, but it’s important to note that these things do not mean a Gemini man doesn’t enjoy sex. On the contrary, he is capable of delivering great pleasure and has some unique ways of doing so.
What’s crucial to learn about a Gemini man is that lovemaking, even during the act, is not the most exciting part for him. He enjoys the things that lead up to it, as well as the idea of the entire situation as a whole.
With intellect at the forefront, a Gemini man will approach sex with romantic settings, sexy language, and daring situations. While others prefer to get right to it, he would rather take his time to carefully plan every detail and will later observe and take everything in as the night goes on.
As a thoughtful man, the Gemini man not only takes pleasure in pleasing his partner, but he puts a lot of work into studying and perfecting technique. Because the Gemini sign is that of the twins, he can sometimes play two leading roles in bed: a lover and an observer. For that reason, not only will he learn what makes his lovers tick and master the technique, but he also loves to see as much as possible.
You will likely find a Gemini man to be someone who keeps the lights on or has a strategically placed mirror in his bedroom. If he can possibly view the act of sex from multiple angles, he certainly will – and he will enjoy it immensely.
What Does He Like in Bed?
While we can talk broadly about the Gemini man in bed, it’s better to move into more detail so you can get a firm grasp on how to really please him. There are certain areas that pique his interest.
Given how intellectually stimulated Gemini men are, it shouldn’t come as a big shock that they are curious about all things – even sex. Their curiosity comes as a bonus, as it allows them to delve into experimenting in the bedroom.
While we can state that the Gemini man isn’t all sex all the time, we can almost guarantee that a sexual relationship with him will never be boring or vanilla. In fact, if sex becomes too dull for this man, he might be tempted to move on to someone more willing to try new things.
When it comes to experimenting with a Gemini man, we don’t necessarily mean that he’s interested in kinky or wild things. Sometimes the word experimenting can be a little overwhelming or nerve-wracking; for a Gemini man, it merely means trying something a little outside of the box.
Remember that a Gemini man needs to maintain stimulation. If you lose focus on this, your relationship will start to lack passion. This means that switching up positions, using a toy here and there, or changing locations are all easy ways to keep things fun and interesting.
The biggest component of experimenting with a Gemini man is in switching positions often. Keep it to the same two or three positions, and he’ll be yawning his way through sex every night. Learning new and even challenging positions can really get him going, and he will definitely appreciate any effort that you put into initiating these changes.
Having a physical relationship with a Gemini man is perfect for anyone who has the desire to try something new. While others may have shied away from your extravagant ideas and Kamasutra, a Gemini man won’t be able to resist it once you’ve mentioned it.
We have all heard the cliche that men don’t like talkative women, and that there’s nothing worse than a woman who talks a lot in the bedroom. When it comes to a sexual relationship with a Gemini man, you can toss that twisted logic right out the window. Communication is key for the Gemini man, and talking is something that he loves.
Gemini men are incredibly expressive, so when you’re making him happy, you will definitely know it. In fact, he will probably make you feel so good about yourself while you’re making love with his dirty talk, his encouragement, and lots of moaning. Gemini men show much appreciation during sex, which might be something you’re not used to.
Likewise, your Gemini man will appreciate hearing from you as well. He’s such a talker, but he’s also a listener. Open communication between both of you is super important to him. He loves to hear what you like, dislike, and the things you want to try as well as whether he’s doing a good job or not.
A telltale sign that you’re doing something he doesn’t enjoy or is getting bored is that he will quiet down a bit. Of course, since he’s such an open communicator, he’ll be sure to talk it through with you afterward to work on improving things.
If you are quiet, shy, or conservative in the bedroom, you might have a hard time navigating a sexual relationship with a Gemini man. He needs to know what you’re thinking, and he definitely needs you to hear him out as well.
With open communication comes a love of dirty talk. A talkative man outside of the bedroom is going to naturally be very vocal in the bedroom. If you really want to see a Gemini man get going, try some dirty talk. You can easily encourage him to get his dirty talk on by asking him suggestive questions. He’s also great at phone sex, so don’t shy away from a long-distance relationship with a Gemini man.
Keep it Fun
Gemini men are known for many things, but deep, emotional connections are not on that list. Although a Gemini man is totally capable of settling down into a serious relationship eventually, he’s more likely to look for something light and fun in the romance department.
His aversion to emotions is especially apparent in the bedroom. If you try to bring deep emotions into your sexual relationship, you will quickly turn this man off. He’s happy to keep things chatty, but keep it on the fun and light side. If you match his energy in this way, he will definitely reward you in a passionate way.
It’s very common for Gemini men to sleep with a partner before forming any emotional attachments to them. It’s vital to know this going in; just because you’re having sex doesn’t mean he’s falling in love with you. It may be an expression of love for some, but for him, it’s fun, it’s pleasurable, and it’s casual.
If a Gemini man starts to feel that you are getting in too deep emotionally while in the bedroom, he’ll head for the hills faster than you can put your clothes back on; however, if you keep things playful, light, and casual, you are actually more likely to capture his heart. If you play it cool with him, he will feel more relaxed, which will cause him to loosen and open up to you.
That’s how you reach his heart: have a fun and casual sex life to reach to his innermost place of feelings. They may be tucked far away, but they’re in there somewhere for the right person to let loose.
Other Ways to Turn Him On
Setting the mood, encouraging communication, and trying new things are all at the core of a good sexual relationship with a Gemini man. But we want to dig a little deeper and learn his darkest secrets and innermost desires in the bedroom. The following tips press beyond the surface level and get down to the good stuff.
Using His Mouth
Think about it: A Gemini man is one of the biggest communicators of the Zodiac signs. He is highly gifted in speaking, holding conversations, and captivating people with the spoken word. So, it shouldn’t be a surprise that he’s good with his mouth in more ways than one.
One of a Gemini man’s favorite things to do in the bedroom is oral sex – and lucky for you, he’s good at it. A Gemini man is one who loves to receive, but he also loves to give. And unlike some men, he actually thoroughly enjoys pleasing his partners. He won’t stop until you are fully satisfied.
And just as he likes to please you with his mouth, so does he like to be pleased in this way. The best way to get things heated up and going in the bedroom is to start with oral sex. He will absolutely love your boldness and desire to make him feel good, and he will almost always return the favor.
Let your lips and tongues do more than just talk to one another, and you will have a happy man.
Believe it or not, a Gemini man is easily stimulated by pornography. Some couples prefer to keep their sexual lives between the two of them, while others spice things up by adding X-rated videos into the mix.
Not only does watching pornography turn your Gemini man on, but it’s also something different that touches on his desire to switch things up and keep them interesting.
Ultimately, you might decide that you’re not into porn. That’s okay; your man will love that you put yourself out there and tried something new. Now you can switch to something else to find something that you both enjoy together.
If you do watch porn with a Gemini man, don’t be surprised if he wants to try whatever they’re doing on the screen. There’s a good chance he was studying it very closely.
The theme of experimentation continues in a Gemini man’s bedroom with the idea of role-playing. Gemini men love role play. It allows them to be someone else and enjoy you as someone else. This excitement really gets a Gemini man going. It keeps things fresh, fun, and playful, and it allows a Gemini man to use his creative side.
Role-playing is easy to do with a Gemini man because he loves to keep things super light and playful. Even if you feel awkward pretending to be someone else, he’ll be totally on board with laughing through the whole thing. If you can learn not to take yourself too seriously, then the two of you are in for a fun night.
The best way to implement role play into a sexual relationship with a Gemini man is to surprise him with it. He loves the unexpected, the change, and the excitement of something new, so throw on a maid or a nurse outfit just before he gets home from work or shows up for a date.
You are sure to catch him off guard, and he won’t even care if you end up staying in for the night rather than attending the plans you had already made.
Role-playing not only keeps things fun and exciting, but it also shows that you have listened to his wants and needs and are willing to do silly things for the sake of him and your relationship.