Facebook has brought a whole new challenge to attracting women. Now you are in front of women 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. Before, you could at least keep some secrets to yourself, but now with the help of your Facebook profile, not to mention your Facebook friends, women know who you are and what you have been doing on a regular basis.
Therefore, it is important to keep in mind the following tips when trying to attract women on Facebook – unless you want to fail miserably!
1. The Woman Of Your Dreams Is Probably Watching You
Everyone on Facebook is judgmental. Unfortunately, they form their judgments based on what they see on your Facebook page and the pages of friends.
They cannot see your body language or hear your words, but they can get an idea of what your life is like through your pictures, comments, and interactions.
For instance, if you are friends with a woman on Facebook who has a ton of female friends, and you end up in one of her pictures drunk and dry-humping a couch, then her friends will take notice. They will form an opinion on you, in part, based on that picture…and that opinion will probably not be good!
Therefore, whenever you are with your friends, and you know a picture may end up on Facebook, try and send a message that says you are not an ass, jerk, pervert, or creep. Instead, appear confident, fun, and interesting in the pictures you take.
Moreover, use your Facebook updates to show your strong qualities. In other words, don’t whine about someone or make rude and arrogant comments; instead, talk in a way that shows others your good side.
Remember, women are always watching you on Facebook!
2. Give Meaning To Your Profile Picture
If you have ever been on an online dating site, you know that your profile picture means a lot. It tells a woman a little bit more about you, but more importantly it sends a message about what you value and who you are.
If it sends the wrong message, a woman may not even look at the rest of your profile.
On Facebook, women are going to see your profile pic before anything else; therefore, put a pic up that sends a positive message about you. For instance, if you love dogs, make sure you include a dog in your profile pic. If you love to travel, put up a pic of yourself traveling.
Don’t put up meaningless or dumbass pics. I once saw a guy put up a pic of roadkill – and guess who is still single?
3. Fill In Your Profile With Witty And Intelligent Information
If a woman checks out your profile, thanks to your picture, give her something more to look at. Even though it seems cheesy, fill in the ‘about you’ section to let women know that you are the type of guy that they want to get to know better.
Whether you want to attract hot women, unique women, quirky women, or any other women on Facebook, you need to show them that you have some substance behind your picture.
- Use your wit!
- Use your humor!
- Use your intelligence!
Make sure you use all those things to let women on Facebook clearly know who you are and why they should be interested in you!
Bottom line: A woman who likes what she sees will want to know more, whereas a woman who sees nothing will not be sure if she wants to learn more.
4. Follow Pages That Interest You And Interact On Them
One way to attract women on Facebook is to get in front of their faces and make yourself known as someone with similar interests. You can do that by finding pages that interest you and then making a point of interacting with them.
Trust me, the more you interact on the Facebook page, the more you will be seen by women on Facebook. It is a simple math equation!
And if you manage to say more than just ‘cool’ or ‘awesome’, women with similar interests will want to check you out.
Therefore, leave witty, insightful, or intelligent comments and you WILL have secret admirers checking out your profile.
5. Use Positive Words
Now that you have women interested in your profile picture and your profile, make sure you keep their interest by using positive words in your updates.
Women will be more likely to like or talk to you if you send out a positive message. Think of it this way; who wants to get to know a grumpy asshole, let alone have him in her life as a partner?
Use the above 5 tips to attract women on Facebook, and then start talking to the women who show interest. The more you interact with a woman, the more she will check in to see what you are doing. Also, the more receptive she will be to getting together with you when the time is right.