My live-in mother recently started Internet dating, which has been quite an experience for both of us. Whereas many adult children are uncomfortable with their older parents dating and actively discourage finding a new partner to replace a deceased or divorced spouse,1 I actually … [Read more...] about Retired and Dating: Starting Over When You Are Older
Adventures in Dating: Memoirs of a Single Mom
“I Need Closure!” Why It Is Not Possible To Get It
“Closure” is a term I have heard bandied about by many of my friends over the years, but I have always wondered what it really means. For example, after my friend Daphne’s long-distance boyfriend broke up with her over the phone, she told me she needed to fly from NYC to London … [Read more...] about “I Need Closure!” Why It Is Not Possible To Get It
The Case of the Disappearing Date: Playing Hard to Get
My friend Hope came over the other day seeking relationship advice. Hope’s mother set her up with a man from her work (so Hope was skeptical), but he called and they spoke on the phone for well over two hours. Not a bad start, so Hope agreed to meet him for drinks. When he walked … [Read more...] about The Case of the Disappearing Date: Playing Hard to Get
Manscaping: A Question of Bushwhacking
Over cocktails this week, my girlfriends and I got into a discussion about grooming. We first compared notes on our preferred “wax specialists” who have been keeping our bikini hair lines nice and neat for our pool and beach excursions. We then started talking about the men in … [Read more...] about Manscaping: A Question of Bushwhacking
Beyond Boyfriend/Girlfriend: The Search for Another Label of Love
I have been dating The Consultant for over a year now, and we have been discussing moving in together. Although over half of Americans cohabit before marriage for financial and convenience reasons,1 our consideration of “shacking up” without getting married is driven by our … [Read more...] about Beyond Boyfriend/Girlfriend: The Search for Another Label of Love
