Is she into you or are you just reading things wrong with her? If you feel as though you are getting mixed signals, then that is not surprising. Women are known for sending mixed signals and men are known for not being able to decipher them. Probably because men are more straightforward and women are more…well, not straightforward.
7 Signs She’s Not That Into You!
There are some obvious signs that she’s not that into you, though. If you see one or two of them, you can pretty much bet that she’s not that into you. If you see them all – look for another woman before you get really rejected by her.
1. She Doesn’t Chat With You For Longer Than Necessary
If you try to start a conversation with her, she will end it very quickly. She may give a few one or two words answers, but then she will say she has to go someone, do something, or any other excuse that she can think of to stop talking to you. This is a sign she is not attracted to you. Why? Women like to talk to people they are interested in.
Women like to share their feelings, thoughts, views, and emotions with other people and, if they are interested enough, can literally talk for hours to someone. So, a woman being abrupt with you, and ending the conversation short, shows that she is not interested enough in you to sit down and enjoy a good conversation.
2. You Have Yet To See Her Smile At You
You have seen her laugh and smile with other people, but when you enter the picture, she becomes someone who never cracks a smile. This is a sign that you annoy or frustrate her – or cause some other negative emotion in her.
Smiling comes naturally when you are happy, while a lack of smiling comes naturally when you are not feeling good. No smiling = no good feelings.
3. She Disappears When You Show Up
You walk in one door and she walks out the other. Or, you hear that she is attending events that you are not at. In short, she is going out of her way to not be around you. Huge sign that she’s not that into you – even in the slightest!
A woman that is interested in you will be where you are. She may not always wear her attraction to you on her sleeve, but she will make a point of being in the same place as you as often as possible.
4. She Doesn’t Look You In The Eyes
Eye contact shows a sign of interest. We make it with people we respect, enjoy being around, and want to get to know better. Hell, we even make it with strangers that we interact with.
If she doesn’t make eye contact with you, then she is either really shy (you would be able to tell) or she doesn’t like you and wants to try to avoid conversation or end the conversation you are having with her.
5. She Talks About Other Guys Around You
A woman who likes you will not talk about other guys around you or to you. If she has an interest you, she will not want to scare you away or make you retreat for fear of rejection.
So if she mentions a guy she likes or went on a date with, then she’s not that into you!
6. She Is Hard To Get In Touch With
You never get a response to your calls or texts, or, maybe you do get a response, but only once in a while when she feels like it or is bored. If this is the case, she’ s not that into you.
If she liked you, she would be responding and engaging with you. She would even initiate some messages by herself. She would want to share her thoughts, day, or whatever with you through text or calls.
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7. You Are Never Right
If she doesn’t agree with anything you say, this is a sign she’s not that into you.
Of course there may be some things that she will have a different opinion on, but a woman who likes you will try to see things from your side of view. She will not call you stupid or dumb, or try to make you feel bad.
How Many Signs Do You See?
There are more signs that she’s not that into you, but the above 7 signs are pretty standard.
If you see one of them, she may just be nervous or inexperienced.
For instance, if she talks about other guys around you, she may have heard that men like the chase and making them a little jealous is a good thing – so she’s trying it out.
But if you see all of the signs together (or a lot of them), she is not interested – plain and simple.
