Some women are pushovers. Some women have not fully figured out who they are, where their ethics and values lie, and where they want to go. And some women just like to be the old-fashioned woman who allows her man to make all the decisions for her in life.
But some women are different. Some women know who they are, what they want, and where they are going, and they don’t need a man in their lives. If you meet one of them, you’ve met a strong woman.
Many times older women are strong women. They have had the failures, successes, and insights to learn who they are and what they want. But, not all older women are strong. I know many older women who seem to be more lost than they were when they were young…beat down…tired…pessimistic.
I also know many younger women who are very strong.
I think nowadays, women have more of a chance to explore who they are, decide who they want to be, and be honest with themselves and others on what they want out of life, and that is why more and more confident women are popping up all over the place.
As a woman, all I can say is “Thank god!”
Yet, some men are stuck in the old days thinking that women are supposed to be barefoot in the kitchen. I can’t totally blame them. It’s not that long ago that women were predominantly in that position, so fathers and grandfathers – who have a big role in our lives – would obviously drive that point home in many guy’s heads.
But, the point is that strong women are everywhere, and there will only be more to come. And while all men were suited to be with dependent wives, not all men are suited to be with women who are capable of providing and being on their own.
Are you thinking about dating a strong woman? To be honest – a strong woman may not be for you.
Following are a few scenarios where you are better off finding yourself a woman who is less sure of who she is as an individual, what she is capable of doing for her own happiness and self-worth, and where she is going for her ultimate life.

