What is the universal code for being attractive? Don’t listen to the jerk that says the only thing that makes you attractive is a great face and body. That person doesn’t understand what attraction is really about. That person is stuck in some weird egotistical reality where they judge people on looks alone (including themselves – how sad) and can’t allow themselves to see past the cover. Attraction is much more than just ‘I like your face’. As humans, we are attracted to people who make us feel good, and they don’t need to have a perfect face.
1. Stand By Your Words
Faithfulness is one of the most attractive qualities a human being can possess. – Ron Kardashian
Being faithful is not just about not cheating on someone. Being faithful is all about standing by your vows and promises to other people and to yourself.
For instance, if you say you are going to take on a challenge for a month, then being faithful to that challenge means you do what needs to be done because you said you would.
Being faithful makes you look reliable and trustworthy, and those are two very attractive qualities. When someone is looking for a partner, they are looking for someone who appears to be loyal and reliable. Nobody wants to get into a relationship with someone who they can’t trust or believe.
2. Be An Active Participant In Life
Pay close attention to how you feel. There’s nothing more attractive than being totally present & excited about life. – Lisa Evers
I’ve met some real Debby Downers in my life – both in male and female form. They are focused on negative things about the past and they are unenthusiastic about what is to come – assuming the worst normally. They are the biggest drag to be around!
I was even set up with a guy who looked good in his picture, but made me want to pop my eyes out with a spoon when I was around him. He wasn’t an active participant in life. He was letting life control how he felt and what he did. He was full of sad stories and conspiracy theories, and he downright hated life. And he wondered why I never called him back?
Wake up and participate in your life. Be present. Pay attention to what’s happening and get excited for what’s to come. I guarantee that will make you instantly more attractive.
3. Be Yourself
Being different is the most attractive thing you can be! – Keion D. Henderson
Don’t try to be like anyone else on your quest to being attractive. It won’t make you more attractive because it’s not the real you. It may trick some people in the beginning, but soon they will see that you are wearing