I’m not a fan of using pick-up lines. I think that most of them are annoying, and they can scare a woman away much quicker than they can attract a woman to you. But if you want to get a woman’s attention, you do have to eventually say something to her, and whether you call it a pick-up line or just a way to start the conversation, there is one way to do it that works very well – in every situation.
7 Simple Words That Work Wonders
The best pick-up line you can use is this: “Can I get your opinion on something?” That’s it! It’s those simple 7 words that can start off a great conversation and get you headed towards the first date.
When the target woman agrees to give you her opinion, you are set up to ask something interesting that requires engagement between you and her. For instance, if you are in a club, you can ask a woman which bartender is most likely to give a free drink away. If she doesn’t know, then you can ask her if she has been there before. If she does know, you can continue the conversation about how many times she has gotten a free drink.
The beauty of this pick-up line is that you will never be left without something to say. Asking an opinion is pretty easy, and continuing the conversation from her answer will be much easier than trying to come up with something to talk about.
Why This Pick-up Technique Really Works
This is a great opening line for a couple of reasons.
1. It makes them feel good about themselves.
Whether they are answering a question about the best sandwich in the shop or about the most lucrative route to take in your career, you can bet they will feel like they are helping you with their knowledge in some way. That can only make someone feel good about themselves, as people love to feel needed and valued. And if you are the person making them feel good about themselves, then they are going to naturally feel good about you.
2. It allows them to learn something about you and vice-versa
If you ask a question about something that pertains to you, then you can literally lead that conversation into a mini-biography about you and that subject. This means that they get to learn a little about you and whether you fit into what they are looking for, and it also means you get to learn if they are interested in the same things you are, and whether they are someone who fits into what you are looking for. It’s a win-win situation.
The thing to remember when using this pick up line is to ask for their opinion and wait for them to respond with a positive answer before you start yammering away. This allows them to not feel pressured into talking to you as they can easily say no and walk away. Moreover, by taking some time to let them answer, it makes them feel like you are valuing their input and their mind, and not just trying to ask them something as a way to pick them up.
In the end, you are going to set yourself apart from the other guys with this simple pick-up technique. Trust me, women are more inclined to talk to someone naturally (give their opinion) then to have to deal with a guy who is sending out cheesy one-liners or obviously only interested in the getting a number and not connecting in any way – even if it is only for a moment.