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Living Apart, Together: Why Some Couples are Forgoing Cohabitation
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“I Wanna Hold Your Hand”…But I Can’t
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“She’s Just Not Right For You!”: What To Do When Friends & Family Disapprove of Your Relationship
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Difficult Parenting Conversations: Death and Dying
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Friend and Family Approval for Relationships: Crucial for Your Health?
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Sleep Tight…Will the Sex Dreams Bite?
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When Friends & Family Disapprove of Your Relationship: Is the “Romeo & Juliet Effect” Real?
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Is No Sex the New Sex?
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Made in America: Russia’s Proposal to Remove Children from Same-Sex Parented Households
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Sexual Compatibility: The Importance to Your Satisfaction
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The Flavors of Female Orgasm: The Debate Continues
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Four Tips for Navigating Long-Distance Relationships
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