If you like a woman, you have to get her to notice you, even if you don’t want to talk to her yet. Why? Because if she doesn’t, and you haven’t approached her yet, then another guy can grab her attention, win her over, and make her unavailable before you even have a chance to approach her. Alternatively, if you can make a woman notice you – in a really good way – then you can win over her attention and attraction, which will ensure that you remain an option for her, even if another guy tries to swoop in.
There Is A Bad Way And A Good Way To Get A Woman To Notice You
You can easily get a woman to notice you if you are a jerk, loud, arrogant, or obnoxious. The problem is that she will notice you for all the wrong reasons, and you may earn a permanent spot on her ‘no date’ list. At that point, you will have to work your way back into her good graces, which can be hard to do.
It is much better to get a woman to notice you in a good way. For example, you could get her to notice you for being a guy that will:
- Offer her something of value
- Make her feel good about herself
- Make her laugh
- Have a future full of goals and dreams
- Not be a player or break her heart
- Be kind to her family and friends
In short, women are looking for a man who is going to make their life better. If you can get them to notice you as a good, decent, interesting, or promising partner, then you have a shot with them.
A Closer Look At How To Get A Woman To Notice You
You may be the perfect man for her, but if she doesn’t spot some of the above traits in you, then you may not get a chance with her. Your goal should be to give her a small glimpse into a positive trait so that she wants to learn more.
Let’s use the above list as an example.
Offer her something of value – Show her that you have something that will make her life happier. Yes, this can be money or a fancy car, but it can also be some sort of talent that you have. For instance, if you can sing, then that will be something she will enjoy listening to and something that will impress her friends and family. It has value.
Make her feel good about herself – You can affect how she feels without talking to her. For example, a simple look at her with a smile can make her feel good about herself; she will feel attractive, because you are checking her out. Or, letting her in front of you in a line will make her feel good. She will feel validated as important by you.
Make her laugh – This is a no-brainer. If you can make her laugh, then you will help her to feel good and she will appreciate that about you. You may not be a comedian making jokes in front of her, but you can act silly, cute, and boyish to get her attention and cause her to giggle.
Show her you have a future with goals and dreams – Ambition is sexy to a woman. Every woman wants a man who is going somewhere in life. Make sure you show off your commitment to your goals and dreams in some way. For instance, if you are at work, be the best employee you can be to show her that you are serious about success.
Show her you are not a player – A lot of women have been used by guys and cheated on, and most women are avoiding that kind of guy like the plague. (Most good women, that is.) You can show her that you are not a player by not hitting on every woman you see or checking out every woman’s ass as they go by. If you are really interested in a woman, you should show her that you only have eyes for her by only checking her out. Trust me, even though women know you probably check out other women, when they see that you only have eyes for them, they will notice you in a very good way!
Show her you are kind – Women want a man who is going to fit in with their friends and family, and a man who will be respected by others. The best way to show a woman that you are like this is to be kind to other people. Be a gentleman to women. Be friendly with other men. Treat service staff with respect. If you do this, women will take notice of you.
Why Do Women Notice The Above Things?
While the above traits are sexy to a woman, why would she notice you simply because you are displaying them? What would draw her attention towards you when she is distracted?
The bottom line is that women notice men who stand out. The men may stand out in a bad way or a good way, but women easily spot men who do not blend into the crowd.
In fact, it is human nature to notice anything out of the ordinary. If you are exhibiting the above traits, women will not be able to help but take notice! Better yet, you will get their attention in a very positive way that improves your chances of success with them.