If you like a woman, you have to get her to notice you, even if you don’t want to talk to her yet. Why? Because if she doesn’t, and you haven’t approached her yet, then another guy can grab her attention, win her over, and make her unavailable before you even have a chance to approach her. Alternatively, if you can make a woman notice you – in a really good way – then you can win over her attention and attraction, which will ensure that you remain an option for her, even if another guy tries to swoop in.
There Is A Bad Way And A Good Way To Get A Woman To Notice You
You can easily get a woman to notice you if you are a jerk, loud, arrogant, or obnoxious. The problem is that she will notice you for all the wrong reasons, and you may earn a permanent spot on her ‘no date’ list. At that point, you will have to work your way back into her good graces, which can be hard to do.
It is much better to get a woman to notice you in a good way. For example, you could get her to notice you for being a guy that will:
- Offer her something of value
- Make her feel good about herself
- Make her laugh
- Have a future full of goals and dreams
- Not be a player or break her heart
- Be kind to her family and friends
In short, women are looking for a man who is going to make their life better. If you can get them to notice you as a good, decent, interesting, or promising partner, then you have a shot with them.
A Closer Look At How To Get A Woman To Notice You
You may be the perfect man for her, but if she doesn’t spot some of the above traits in you, then you may not get a chance with her. Your goal should be to give her a small glimpse into a positive trait so that she wants to learn more.
Let’s use the above list as an example.
Offer her something of value – Show her that you have something that will make her life happier. Yes, this can be money or a fancy car, but it can also be some sort of talent that you have. For instance, if you can sing, then that will be something she will enjoy listening to and something that will impress her friends and family. It has value.
Make her feel good about herself – You can affect how she feels without talking to her. For example, a simple look at her with a smile can make her feel good about herself; she will feel attractive, because you are checking her out. Or, letting her in front of you in a line wil