Do you want to break up with your girlfriend? Are you scared that you are going to break her heart when you do? If you do and are, then you are likely a nice guy, but you just don’t see the relationship going in a direction you want anymore.
The Bad News
Here’s the thing: You can’t really avoid breaking her heart if she is in love with you and thinks that you are going to be together for a long time to come.
Her mindset is not in the same place as you.
She’s had no time to consider that the two of you were never going to be together again.
So, of course breaking up with her is going to cause her to feel confusion, anger, sadness, and pain.
The Better News
Breaking up with her is good for both of you.
Don’t avoid doing it simply because you will both be uncomfortable. The effort you have to put in towards the break up will be worth it when you both get into new relationships that satisfy you both more.
When you break up from a relationship that is lacking something, you get to be free of the relationship and find someone else who makes you happier or more fulfilled. And she gets to do the same.
2 Things To Remember When You Break Up With Her
So there is no avoiding the pain, but you can ease the pain a little. Use the following 2 tips to make the break up as easy as possible.
1. Do It In Person
No break up text.
No break up Facebook message.
You have to do it in person!
It is hard to confront her with bad news – I get it, but breaking up in person allows her to get her emotions out, ask you questions, and leave the confrontation feeling better than she would if you did it over text or message.
Remember, you have known the break up was coming – she hasn’t. You have to understand that she will pro