Have you ever wondered why women are so critical of themselves? Why do they tell you that they are ugly and complain about the little things that don’t really matter at all? Or, do you wonder why you have to constantly tell them that they are fine just the way they are? There are a number of reasons why, and the way guys talk about girls is one of the biggest.
The Messages Girls Receive From Guys On A Daily Basis Contribute To Their Self-Worth
Words are powerful. They hold meaning to both the speaker and the listener. And when someone talks about what makes a person worthy of being attractive as a human being, other people listen to those words and take them to heart. It doesn’t matter if those words are talking about facts/truths or not. If the listener believes them, then they will take them on as a belief and move forward letting that belief impact their life.
For example, if you heard a girl saying that being short was unattractive, and you were short, would you believe it? You would probably, at the very least, consider it. Now, if you heard it from a girl that you really liked, would you take it personally? Probably. And, if you heard it over and over and over again, would you start to view it as a ‘truth’ even though it really isn’t? Probably.
That’s what this article is about. It’s about girls constantly hearing messages about what is attractive and what is not from guys they don’t know, guys they like, and guys they are huge fans of. And, unfortunately, a lot of these specific messages are repeated until many girls start to view them as facts not opinions and let those facts affect their self-worth.
The Impossible Standards Set Out By Some Guys
So, following is a video of three guys talking about what they find attractive in girls.
These three guys