When you decide to kiss a girl that you have been finding yourself attracted to, you already know that it is such an act of vulnerability, both for the giver and receiver. That is why it is very important for you to be thoughtful and in the moment when you give any kiss.
Kissing another person is obviously an act that is full of emotional intimacy. It is something that shows a strong sense of affection, passion, and attraction for the person you demonstrate this act on. When thinking of the act of kissing, the mouth is usually the first thing that comes to mind. But there are many other parts of the body that you can kiss as well.
One such example of another body part to kiss is the neck. A kiss on the neck is a very intimate act and if you want to take things to the next level, then this is a good place to start. Who, after all, does not like to be kissed passionately by someone that they are attracted to?
This is something you can do to build up an intimate relationship and it can also be done to spice up things in an old relationship as well. For most couples, kissing on the neck is not an everyday thing, so when it is done, it should be something that is quite special and memorable for the two people that are involved in the act.
When it is done right, the person that you kiss will want you to give them a thousand more kisses. But if you do it completely wrong and do not try to improve on it, then that is obviously something that could affect the mood or even the relationship.
Tips on How To Kiss A Girl’s Neck
Touch Her First
Believe it or not, you can add foreplay before you go ahead and kiss your girl’s neck. You can do this by lightly stroking her neck with your hand or fingers. Stroke the area that you plan to kiss as that will make her anticipate your kiss.
When you do approach her, do it slowly. You want to avoid startling her and making things awkward or ill-timed. It helps to be connected with her before you make the move to kiss her neck. This can mean having your hands on her first or making eye contact with her.
Explore the Neck
While the neck is generally sensitive, the area where the neck meets the collarbone is especially sensitive to touch. This is a really great spot to kiss her if you want her to feel pleasure. You can also kiss her neck near her jawline as well.
Find the Right Kissing Position
You don’t necessarily have to be face to face when you are kissing her neck. You can stand at her side or even behind her as you kiss her neck. When doing this, a great place to put your hands is on her waist.
Use the Rest of Your Body
Do not think of the act of kissing the neck as a simple act. You should not be only using your mouth. Use your whole body including your hands. Move your body closer to hers, even pressing yourself against her if that feels like the right thing to do at that moment.
Use Your Hands
There are so many things that you can do with your hands once you are kissing her neck. You can put your hands on her shoulders, run them through her hair, you can place them on her waist or around her back, and so on. Whatever you end up doing, it should be exciting and pleasurable for both of you.
Blow on Her Neck
Another great technique to add to your neck kissing is to lightly blow air onto her neck. Your warm breath on her skin will be a nice sensation for her and this can be done before or while you kiss her neck.
Do Not Rush It
When it comes to kissing the neck, try not to rush. You want to make sure that you and the other person can really enjoy and appreciate the moment as it is happening. Take your time and be thoughtful and gentle. At the same time, listen to her feedback. If she wants you to be more aggressive with your kisses, then go with it.
Nibble on Her
If you want to focus on the neck a little while longer, you can lightly nibble on it as well. Just remember to be gentle and to listen to her responses, both the physical and verbal. Biting can be arousing for some people, but make sure that she is okay with it. Do not bite too hard as that can be painful.
Don’t Overthink It
A neck kiss is like any other kiss in that you can do it whenever you deem appropriate. It can be the first kiss you give, or you can even kiss her on the lips first and then move on to her neck. Whatever you do, do not overthink it too much. Just go with the moment and with what seem right.
Slowly Turn Up the Passion
When you are first kissing her neck, keep your mouth closed. Otherwise you could end up slobbering all over her. Do not jump into it. Also keep in mind that you want to gradually make it more passionate of a kiss. There should be some kind of buildup where the kisses get more intense than they were before.
While you might be tempted to jump in straight for the super strong and sensual kiss on the neck, then that is not always necessarily the way to go. If you jump in with a super sensual kiss, then how can you possibly make the moment even more intimate?
Use Your Tongue
As you kiss her neck more and more, you can also open your mouth a little, letting your tongue graze her neck. This is one of many moves that will keep your lady on her toes.
Keeping this in mind, gradually work your way up to a more passionate kiss as you kiss her neck. After all, kissing the neck is sensual and should be approached slowly and carefully.
You can even ease into this by holding her neck with your fingers first. As you begin to kiss her neck with a closed mouth, you can begin to lick your lips to lightly moisten your mouth. There is something arousing about kisses that make a slight smacking noise.
Suck on Her Neck
Sucking on your lover’s neck is another good option as well in some cases, but be aware that doing so can sometimes leave a bruise that is called a hickey. That might be okay with her, or it might be something that she does not want.
Either way, it is nice to have it as an option. Whether you bite her neck or suck on it, it should still be done with some level of gentleness.
Look to Her for Feedback
Here is something to think about. How do you know that she is ready for a kiss on the neck? The most obvious answer is that she tells you she wants it. But there are other ways to know by reading her body language.
Read Her Body Language
If you are kissing her lips and she begins to tilt her head, then it is a sign that she might be ready for you to kiss her neck. Even if she does this, you should still kiss her neck slowly. Do not rush into it.
Now that you know some of the best tips out there when it comes to kissing a girl on the neck, just go for it and do not overthink the whole act too much. Otherwise you might get too fixated on whether you are doing it right or not.
At the same time, try to be slow, gentle, and thoughtful as you do this. Gauge her reactions as you caress her neck with your hand and pause to see how she responds to you as you nibble on her neck or leave soft kisses where her neck meets her back.
You might feel a bit nervous to try this if it is something that you will be doing for the first time. But try to calm yourself down and remember that there is a first time for everything. Keep in mind that when it comes to kissing, there is always room for improvement, so you might as well get some practice in. If you are lucky, your patient lover will be more than happy to give you many chances to practice kissing her on her neck.