When you have mastered the art of how to make a girl chase you, some say you’ve just discovered the Holy Grail. Ask Men experts have done the research and studies that undercover useful and often clever pointers to make women chase you.
Time for you to pay attention so you can use these tactics and watch the girls swarm you!
Let’s start the countdown.
How To Make A Girl Chase You
Pointer 1 – Nail The First Impression
Most guys seem to have mastered the art of screwing up from the starting gates when it comes to women. The majority of men let their nerves get the best of them and when you are sweating and acting insecure, you are openly turning any girl off stone cold.
When you muster up the courage, mind over matter, to be confident and secure in yourself you will transform into a total chic magnet.
Work on getting confident and you’re going to get girls to chase you.
Pointer 2 – Hide Your Desperation
If you are serious about getting women to chase you, then you’ve got to show them you aren’t desperate. Make it a little challenging for her. Be powerful and show her you are strong and secure, even when you’re not.
Put the ball in her court from time to time and you’re showing her you’re not just going to roll over and play dead for her. She’s got to work a little.
Pointer 3 – Prepare Your Questions
Be smart and prepared with your questions. Ask clever ones so she doesn’t think you’re a dork. Show her you are intelligent and that you have many different layers. When you intrigue a girl, the sky is the limit.
Pointer 4 – Get Busy
Absence does make the heart grow fonder and when you don’t let her breathe, that’s just not a good thing. Make sure you allow time for anticipation and excitement. If you want a girl to chase you, then you’ve got to give her a reason to get off her butt and do it.
When you get lost from time to time, that’s going to translate into a “want” for her and she’s going to look for a reason to chase you.
Pointer 5 – Give Her Intermittent Attention For The Right Reasons
Everyone likes to get noticed but that doesn’t mean you should pay attention to her every move. That gets dull pretty fast.
More than attention it’s the sheer anticipation that girls really love.
So knock it off with the 24/7 compliments and the flashy gifts every time you see her. You’re better to give her “real” attention. Tell her she’s been on your mind and you can’t wait to see her again.
When you give her “anticipation” attention, she’s always going to want more.
Pointer 6 – Find A Way Into Her Brain
FACT – You’ve got to learn to think like a woman if you want her to chase you. Get inside her head and you are on your way.
One way to do this is to ignore her initial advances at least somewhat. This doesn’t mean totally shut her down, but it will give her the impression you are busy and she’s going to have to work to get your attention.
This puts the ball in your court.
Even if you are free to hang out on Friday, you might want to pretend you are busy and set it up for another night.
Supply and demand is what it’s all about. She needs to know you are in demand and she’s going to want to chase you that much harder.
Pointer 7 – It’s Quiz Time!
You can’t skip past this pointer. If you are serious about getting a girl to chase you, it’s important that you know how to turn the tables. Take control of the situation and set her up to prove she is deserved of your time and attention.
Be lighthearted and joking about it but ask her what makes her so special compared to other women.
This may seem a little harsh but you’ve got to keep her on her heels if you want her to commit to chasing you.
Pointer 8 – Become Expert In Humor And Cockiness – Find The Balance
No doubt if you want the direct route to a girl, you need to be funny. That’s scientifically backed so there’s no reason to challenge it. On the flip side, if you can find the perfect combination of humor and confidence or cockiness, you are ten steps ahead of the competition.
*Girls love a man that knows who he is and can simultaneously make them belly laugh for real.
Just make sure you don’t cross the line on either or you’ll send her running.
Pointer 9 – Hang Onto Your Cards
When you first meet a girl, be sure you aren’t an open book. Be a little evasive and do not, under any circumstance, spill your guts.
If you give her a little suspense and mystery, you are developing the essential draw of attention needed to get her to chase you.
Pointer 10 – Just Don’t Chase Her Please
If you are taking a crack at anything that moves and throwing out cheesy pickup lines – You will never ever in a zillion years learn how to convince or sway women to chase you.
When a guy is constantly chasing a girl, it’s really just painful for her. The only reason she might be giving you the time of day is because she feels sorry for you. Ugh!
When you choose to stop chasing women around, you will instantly create that magnetic attraction. With this attraction, you will learn how to use it to drive the women crazy. They are going to be attracted to you and hence the chasing will start.
More Direct Take-Action Expert Tips To Get The Girls To Want You!
Let’s look at this from a woman’s perspective. Seems a little more reliable than a man’s right?
If you want a girl to want you, it’s not just a Herculean move. It’s not about being Mr. Macho Muscle or Mr. Money Fashion.
You just need a few proven tactics to draw women in and you’re off to the races when you apply them.
VIP – Don’t ever think you need to be rich, an athlete, or drop-dead-gorgeous to get a girl to chase you. That’s just not true.
Connections and synergy can be created if you know how. These tips will help you find the key to get the women to chase you.
First, What Are The Advantages Of Women Wanting You?
When you make women desire you, it’s two-fold. Your’e going to get more girls and more girls are going to want you.
When you learn how to get girls chasing you, it makes it much easier for you to get what you want when it’s right in front of you.
Does that make sense?
Important Factors For Success With Women
1-Make conversation with oodles of girls
2-Figure out how to make women want you
3-Sealing the deal while the attraction is red hot
Number 1 and 2 are pretty straight forward. It’s a numbers game. When you talk with lots of women, you increase the chances of more being drawn to you.
*ATTITUDE is priority one!
Be yourself and make sure you are confident but not cocky.
The quickest way to send a girl running far and fast the other way is to act like you are the last man on earth. If you play the cocky card, you are going to make a bad first impression and that’s the last thing you want to do when you are trying to get girls to chase after you.
Be strong and confident but don’t go overboard and you’re on the right track.
What you need to stick in your pipe and smoke it right now is that girls aren’t going to fall for you just because you are going to make their life exciting and alive. There’s so much more to it.
It’s hard for women to trust and you need to show her that she can trust what you say and do.
Tactic One – Find Your Style
I don’t want to write this one in stone but looks are very important if you are looking to get girls to chase you. Sure, women are attracted to men for all sorts of reasons. But, the better looking you are, the better your chances of landing girls.
What does this mean?
Take a shower, get your hair cut, dress nice and make sure your overall look is appealing. Facial hair works for some guys and others the clean-cut look is super sexy.
Figure out your style and make it a priority to keep on top of it.
Tactic Two – Make It A Priority To Become Mr. Sexy
Easier said than done I know. When you find a way to make yourself sexy, you are one step closer to getting sexy girls to chase you.
Sexiness has many facets.
*Your look
*Your body language
*Your eye contact and facial moves
*Your voice and tone
*The words you use
There is so much to sexiness. All you need to do is work on all the factors and find your sexy. When you do, you’re golden.
This is going to take some time and experimentation so be patient. It will pay off in the end.
Tactic Three – Find Your “Want” Look
When you master the art of looking at a woman like you want her, she will chase you. This means, you need to make eye contact and flirt with your eyes.
Hold your gaze and let them know they are your only focus and you are confident in you.
Huge steps towards getting that special girl to hunt you down.
Tactic Four – Don’t Be Afraid To Give Her The Bored Look
This may seem a little scary at first but it’s not a bad thing. When a girl sees in your eyes that your mind may be wandering, the will trigger her to capture your undivided attention.
This means she is going to try just a little bit harder to keep your attention.
Even if you are desperate, never let her know this. Always give her the impression that you have other options and that will inspire her to chase after you.
Tactic Five – Trigger Her To Invest In You
What does this mean?
Well, you want her to become emotionally attached to you by revealing her hopes and dreams. When you do this, you’ve succeeded on getting her to play the vulnerable card and that means what you say, do, and think matters.
Psychologically, the more she invests in you emotionally, the more she is committed to you.
Tactic Six – Understanding Is A Must
Make sure you step out of your comfort zone to show her you understand, just trust me on this one.
When girls open themselves up to you, they need to hear and feel like you understand them or they will shut the door fast and put the walls up.
Connection starts with understanding and trust, whether it’s to get a gal to chase you or more serious.
Understand this and you will get what you want when you want it.
Tactic Seven – Be Positive
Even if your life is bad, you need to act like you are Mr. Happy to a point. Show her you’re willing to pick her up when she’s down and that you can always find the silver lining.
Women love a positive man, particularly when life hits roadblocks.
Final Words
When you are looking for direct routes on how to make a girl chase you, there’s oodles to consider.
Take the time to make sure you understand the proven expert pointers, tactics and strategies before you take action with them.
Pay attention to the girl in front of you, learn to read the cues, and use the proven strategies in front of you and you WILL succeed.
Best of Luck!
Engelbert says
Thats a gud one
Clovis says
This is a damn great clue
Whatever says
Im a girl..THIS TOTALLY WRONG..every tips always said tht the guy should dont chase..make busy..dont do this dont do tht..well IF YOU WANT LOOSE UR GIRL..than go ahead..they hv an ego too..my men do this tips too in hoping i could chase him back.. nah…we women hv own ego..now our relationship is breakup.
Saint Zayan says
Nope you’re wrong. Whether you disagree or not, you will do the opposite of what you say. This article is mostly true and has worked. I made my girl chase me by simply speaking smooth words and not talk to her until she calls me or text me. I ignore her almost every day and she comes at me harder asking where have I been. She even video calls me every once in a while trying to get my attention. Psychologically, it proves that she really cares about me and is serious in a relationship with me. If it works for me it can work for other guys.
Drew says
you’re in a serious relationship with a female this is about getting girls you’ve already got that girl… .
Jojo says
I know women will say this is not the right thing to do. Well, only the nice guys will believe them. Nice guys will always suffer. Look I don’t give a shit if stays or not. A girl should be the one chasing me not me. Many men have to reset their brain. The movies they watched when they were young got their brains wired to think that men shoul do the chasing all the time. Guys, do the right things, be bossy, be mysterious, don’t answer all her questions, make her laugh etc. You can turn women on and make them to chase and love you. They won’t even know it’s happening because it’s a brain hack. Don’t be a nice guy, I have been there. Don’t be afraid even if think you are going to lose her..move on, there so many girls everywhere. Do the rights you will be amaze how they start chasing and find you attractive and sexy even if you are not handsome.
Trent says
I agree on all
Gilbert Ssenyonjo says
True. Being a nice guy is f*cked up.
Ari says
With all of this tactics listed in other for women to chase a guy, i will like to say it wiil be difficult to attain, expect you employ the don john tactics or become a rake hell with a darker reputation
Sampinou says
This articles was one of the best ever. A confident alwas will be attractive no matter his looking.thank you for this advice.
Frank says
well said
Stan says
It’s in a woman’s DNA to do the chasing whether or not they like to admit it. How many women do you know will tell you what annoys her about a particular guy, but she’s constantly in his face while he’s acting annoyed.
Men who chase women end up in ‘The Friend Zone’.
Men have to play their part too however. That role is to to draw them in first.
Gilbert Ssenyonjo says
Yep!
fctbestteacher says
This assumes that women are stupid and that women are doing things wrong way. as though, men hope that women do not know all this stuff themselves if men won’t let them do it or men do them first…
Peter says
I have read all the tips but I did not understood ….make the language more simpler…hahaha
Emmanuel says
The ideas here is great the method works for me. You need to balance things to attract beautiful girls. Women are like a shadow. Pursue it, it moves away from you. Move away, it follow you. You need tact. For women also are like horses. Break their spirit first, you will ride them for Pleasure.
Mitch says
The only thing these very pathetic single women want is chasing after guys with a lot of money since most of them are real Gold Diggers anyway.
O says
Oh this is the WORST. This will get you low-value, insecure chicks, for sure. So if that’s what you want, go for it. Real connection and love will NEVER come from this kind of BS. Find your purpose, be a good man, treat her with respect and CLEARLY PURSUE her (while also naturally having a life, because you are not avoiding your own potential). If, after you’ve done that, she does anything disrespectful, discuss it with her once, and if it continues – let her go, she’s not your woman. But you cannot IMAGINE the amount of beautiful, good, open-hearted, sexually alive, amazing women out there who are actually just dying for the one man that will not pull this kind of idiocy with them. If a guy did any of this to me, I would see it a mile away – it would tell me he is completely insecure, unclear of his desires and emotions and an absolute coward. Someone who would rather manipulate than courageously connect. A feminine woman who has good self esteem HATES being forced to pursue, and she will leave. Guys who play straight with women will eventually find the love of their life, and a devoted, sexy, high quality mate. Those who follow the advice of this article will have repeated lame sexual experiences with low-value women, will never know the radical joy of opening their hearts and will get bitter really soon.
nope says
100% wrong
Gilbert Ssenyonjo says
Please elaborate. I am cut in the middle here
supermario says
Finally, a high value woman. I agree with you. The problem is, most chicks these days are morally corrupt insecure sl*ts, low-value. That’s why so many men don’t agree with you, because we mostly deal with such women. High value morally sober women are hard to find these days. Most just sl*t around and for those this advice in the article is solid. However, if you want a high value woman, who still has some morals in her and is not an insecure sl*t and wants to find her equal, a high value man with moral standards in tact, I agree with you. You are correct.
supermario says
once again, to emphasize: “Find your purpose, be a good man, treat her with respect and CLEARLY PURSUE her (while also naturally having a life, because you are not avoiding your own potential). If, after you’ve done that, she does anything disrespectful, discuss it with her once, and if it continues – let her go, she’s not your woman.”
100% correct. If you want insecure low value women with no brains, do what the article says, if you want a high value woman, do what O says. The problem is, good women are hard to find these days. Most are just as bad as the “bad boys”. They only play pretend.
Connor says
So if I did to much chasing and the girl iv been casually dating and seeing for 3 months put out a few hints (over the past 3 weeks or so) to slow down but I didn’t get the hints until I brought up why the vibe was changing and she told me I’m too available and she’s not ready for a relationship yet. Can I still attract her back by completely backing off?
Haven’t talked in 4 days since our discussion about why the vibe changed. I thought about calling or texting her in another week telling her i understand what i did and how it made her pull away and I want to prove it to her given the chance…and from there set up a coffee date. Would this be a bad move on my part?
steven says
Dont be a pu$$y dude!
Connor says
Update: asked her on a date to meet up for drinks tonight. She replied an hour later and said “sorry I can’t”…. I replied OK a while later…..just shot my shot, needed to ask. Cutting my losses and giving the others some attention
Connor says
Update: she replied back saying “sorry I just wanted to go to the gym tonight”
I replied back later with a simple “it’s okay”. So what’s going on here?
JAckie says
What happened?
Frank says
Nice one. In fact, it’s GREAT!
Pretty says
This is MANIPULATION! I don’t agree with this.
MML says
Those tactics don’t work on educated and intelligent women who don’t like mind games. Those guy appears rude. Intelligent women don’t want to waste their time on those guys. They like gentlemen.
supermario says
You’re being defensive. Even intelligent and educated women have an inner sl*t. It all depends on the moral compass. Most woman have a broken moral compass these days, and those don’t like gentlemen. They like bad boys. They like to be b*tch slapped around, they like to have their hearts broken eventually and they don’t care for the mister nice guy who wouldn’t brake their heart but would respect her. But eventually, because most don’t learn from knowledge but woe, even such women come to their senses, when enough bad boys b*tch-slapped them around and broke their hearts, and then they finally get the lesson, that if they want to be happy, they need a gentleman.
Collins says
This girl’s will think this is being rude but the tips are true I have made a lot of women to chase me using the same but no woman will accept that the tips are true because they want to be the one chased😂😂