Is it possible to make your ex regret leaving you?
Absolutely! When love is lost, there’s no fun involved.
Love hurts.
And it really doesn’t matter who triggered the breakup because when true emotions are involved, it just hurts. Nobody likes a broken heart.
When it comes to love, there really are no rules.
In the moment, you’re feeling mad and angry and probably very sad, extremely emotional to say the least.
Perhaps it’s time to take action and make your ex feel sorry for leaving you.
Here are a few pointers that are going to help you make your ex regret dumping you.
How To Make Your Ex Regret Leaving You
Pointer #1 – Don’t Contact Your Ex
After you have a fresh breakup it’s important you don’t ever act like a doormat to you ex or that you are too needy.
Just don’t pull the crybaby card in any way, shape or form.
Your best move…Just don’t contact your ex at all. It’s important that you avoid all contact so you can start the heeling process.
When you do this, you are going to take action to make your ex totally regret getting rid of you.
Think about it for a second and take action as you will.
Pointer #2 – Erase His Number Forever!
If you are serious about getting an ex to cry over leaving you, then you’ve got to erase him or her forever. What this means is you need to delete their number from all your devices.
You know the deal.
You need to make sure you are going to commit to never calling or writing them again. Be proud of who you are and your willpower to give into the urge to reconnect.
*Don’t do it!
Emotions are going to get in the way of logic so you just need to be wary of this.
Show your ex that you don’t need them and are strong on your own. You can fly solo with a smile and you will.
Pointer #3 – Take Action To Make Changes In Your Life In A Positive Manner
Think of your recent breakup as a warning. It’s time for you to take control and find your happy inside-out.
Do you really want to sit and wallow in depression?
But you still need to understand what has happened is real and it has affected you. That’s life!
It’s sad that you lost the companionship of a person you loved but sometimes that is a must be when you need to figure yourself and life out.
When you reflect on this sincerely, it’s reflecting on you that it’s important to make your ex partner regret leaving you. It is what it is.
Fact – There is a reason your ex is your ex, never forget that!
Take your physical and mental energies and put them together to help you put this all behind you and move forward positively to bigger and better.
Why not dress a little differently?
How about hitting the gym and getting fitter?
What about getting your hair done and perhaps getting your eyebrows tweezed?
It’s all about the little things here and when you keep your mind occupied by focusing on new changes, you are on the right direction to get passed your ex fast.
Pointer #4 – Load Your Life Full Of Fun!
When you freshly breakup, you should be focused on finding your higher status. Try to build a new circle of friends that are trustworthy and fun. People that are going to help you focus on what’s important to you in life and not the crap past you are trying to forget.
The only way your ex is going to seriously regret leaving you is to see that you are not sad and upset about the breakup. When he sees this, there is no chance he can gain your attention again and that’s an incredibly good thing.
Get out of your united social circle for all the right reasons.
Pointer #5 – Take A Sincere Stab At Trying To Make Your Ex Crazy Jealous
When you are looking to make your ex sorry they ended things, you need to take action to create a strategy that works. Make them feel sad because they just lost the most precious thing in their life.
Social media works wonders here.
Don’t go crazy but make sure you have just enough images on Facebook and Instagram to get noticed by you ex.
A few images a week will do the trick.
Truth – It’s not like he’s going to comment or anything and he’s not going to like your pics but they will capture his undivided attention.
This will make your ex jealous – Bottom line.
Make sure if you come face to face that you walk right by. The whole purpose here is to make him feel the sting of leaving you – End of story.
Pointer #6 – Leave The Communication Gap Wide Open
This does not by any circumstances mean that you are going to let your ex back in but it does mean you are teasing him a little, letting him know there is room to move in.
This one is a tad devious but if you truly want to get passed him and make him regret leaving you, then you need to leave your connection gap open a little, just enough to not totally shut him out.
Why?
This will open his mind to thinking about why he left you and that perhaps he made a mistake. If you can plant the thought in his brain, it’s going to stay there.
Pointer #7 – Boast Confidence
This one might take a little bit of time to get used to but when you run into your ex in any way, shape or form, you need to release your inner confidence.
Whether you are really feeling it or not isn’t the question.
Pretend if you have to.
Put on your greatest acting show ever and show yourself and your ex that you are ready to move on with a confident smile. Be happy with yourself and when you show him he’ll have no choice but to be sad for his chosen loss.
Pointer #8 – Don’t Be Afraid To Post
The best platform in the world to boast is social media. You can brag about what’s going on in your life and how happy you are. Don’t go overboard and put your happiness in his face but you have every right to continue on forward.
When you get dressed up and are looking crazy hot, you definitely need to take a selfie.
On the outside, if he is checking you out online, he is going to see that he’s seriously missing you.
Pointer #9 – Throw Your Bitter Card out The Window
The number one thing you don’t want to do is pick a fight with your ex about your past relationship, present or future stuff. Conflict creates stress and if you want to make your ex regret leaving you, it’s important that you keep it light.
When you take the mean out of the equation, you will force him to remember the good times and ponder why he left you in the first place.
Mind over matter.
Pointer #10 – Get Your Hair Done
I’m not sure whether or not you’ve heard about girls healing faster after a breakup by getting a new hairstyle or not?
But apparently there is some truth to it.
This does not mean you need to have a makeover to recreate yourself with the purpose of making your ex do a double take. Just do something for yourself that’s going to give you a smile. Anything that will perk you up a little.
When you do this, you increase the odds of making your ex regret breaking up with you.
Pointer #11 – Get Out There
No matter what, do not ever flirt with your ex’s friends with or without him. That’s just nasty.
But when you are conversing with anyone, make sure you are smiling happy and having a good time.
When he sees you can have any man you’d like. That will change his tune fast. He’s going to realize that he’s lost big time and you are one amazing girl.
Pointer #12 – Dress To Impress
When you go out, make sure you are dressed nicely just in case you run into him. This doesn’t mean you should go out of your way to overdo it because that’s just being fake.
If you have men or gals for that matter that are talking about how hot you look, it’s only going to help you enforce the fact your ex should miss leaving you…Just saying.
Pointer #13 – Mind Over Matter
The mind is a powerful thing and when you choose to be happy or find your happy, you are pretty much forcing your ex to regret breaking up you.
The more enjoyment you find in your life, the better. Be a fun person that treats others well. Be that person people want to be in a relationship with and you’ll come out on top.
You don’t need your ex to be happy. And there’s nothing wrong with you feeling satisfied that he’s sorry he ended things.
Here are a few more pointers on making him miss you head over heels after breaking up.
Pointer #14 – Use Your Friends
When you feel the need to make your ex regret leaving you, it’s important that you communicate this to him through various means. One of which is your friends. Don’t be afraid to reach out and touch your mutual friends after a breakup.
This means you shouldn’t shy away from people close to him just because he dumped you. When they see you are happy and they tell your ex you are happy, he’s got no choice but to feel like he made a mistake breaking up with you.
Pointer #15 – Shoot Him A Postcard
Sure, you were likely down in the dumps right after the breakup but this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t find the means to get away for a while and tell him all about it.
Take off with your girlfriends for a week and make sure you send him a nice postcard of you sipping cocktails on the beach.
He doesn’t have any say now in what you do so you need to make the most of it. Surely, it won’t take you too long to move on and forget about him all together.
Pointer #16 – Shut The Door On Invitations
It doesn’t matter whether the invitations he’s sending you are subtle to just hang out or a little more serious when he’s questioning whether or not he really doesn’t want you any more.
Do not respond to any of his invitations. If he’s poking you on Facebook, don’t poke back. Keep your distance and you are going to show him that you don’t need him anymore. When he sees and feels this he’s going to be sorry leaving you.
Too bad for him!
Pointer #17 – Ignore Special Days
When his birthday roles around, just don’t acknowledge it. When your anniversary passes, do not shoot him a message and reflect.
And when it comes to his extended family, I’ll leave that one up to you. Your bond with them might be a little deeper than just your exes family.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year just can’t happen and whatever you do make sure you don’t put on your beer goggles and in a weak moment tell him your true inner feelings.
When you refuse to pay attention to him on those special days, you are shooting him the message loud and clear that he sure as heck better miss you!
Final Words
When it comes to making an ex regret breaking up with you, there are oodles of tips, tricks and experts tactics to help you with your mission. Think things through before you take action and understand no matter what, your ex does not deserve you.
Stay strong and best of luck!
Men Inist says
This entire passage is what a girl never worth having would do. One day, the tide will turn in the dating game. If the shoe was on the other foot, the guy would be called a jerk.
Katie says
My ex used me as free childcare. I don’t have kids of my own, and I loved his son. I would watch him while my ex went to “hang out with friends.” But really he was cheating on me. He waited till the day after my grandmothers funeral (who I was very close to, I was holding her hand when she died) and he broke up with me. In public of all places. I never once made a scene. I was devastated. It was after that I found out he was cheating on me with women who would never have been interested in having a step son.
After a year. A whole year. He has started contacting me and I know it is because I did the things listed above. He absolutely deserves to regret the decision he made and he can continue to regret it. I was good to him and he didn’t appreciate me. Maybe by regretting his decision he will have learned a lesson and teach his son not to treat women so badly. He probably won’t though.
Any woman who treats a man like that deserves to feel regret too.
Akilem says
You sound like an incredible woman. I wish you all the best!
Ocean says
U sound just like her lmfao
Hassanat Bint Hussein says
How ungrateful certain men could be….
I pray u have a man who would be grateful for all u do n who’s gonna be proud of having u with no act of making u devastated
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Ocean says
I don’t understand why she deleats him from all her life and dekets his number then sends him a postcard in the beach looooool this is do lame . Me as a man when I’m done . I’m done . Why would I ignore my ex and play all that or try to make her regret me ? It’s life . I know she would regret leaving . By her own and I don’t have to do anything to make her feel that way . All I have to do is sit back and don’t even watch . Move on and stop being lame because I broke up with my ex for playing thses silly childish games that people like you poison the minds of people who really want to be better at life and love . And you are here for the few bucks or the very little fame you gain from this . Get real don’t fake anything . Be you .
Anonymous says
Shut up, you are sounding like a Narcissist.
Debbie says
It’s not about being fake. Sometimes you need to do this for people to realize your worth in their life.
Zoe LeClair says
that’s a good point though. i had issues with this list, and that was it. i could do these things to get over the guy breaking my effin heart, but if a guy did a lot of this to me, it’d hurt me. imma take the high road. and find another article. lmao
Aaron says
Omg I hate articles like this. It’s so biased. Why are you just putting it in a female’s perspective?
Patoranqueen says
U really helped me. I am going to give that moron what he deserves
Mitsiwati charity says
This just helped me a lot..I think this ‘son of a gun’ will realize his mistakes😎😎
Candice says
Hi
My ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago, he is 60 years old, I’m giving him the space he needs, no contact at all after I collected my things from his place, but he knows I love him and want us to be together, he text me and began talking about his day 3 hours later I responded nice, then he replied just checking in, he still like my tweets now and then last night he posts a song on FB Josh Krajcik Let Me Hold You and an hour later he posts Madison Ryan Ward Mirror wording in this says its just not going to work out between us do you think he sending a message to me in that song? talking to himself? or does he just like the song for no reason he never posts sad songs on FB in the year that we were together.
Kate says
If he was the one who broke up with you, then I believe the song was a message that things would not work out between you two.
Doulat Hirani says
Interesting
Kira says
That’s Dark.
Aloria says
I still love him I want him back… in my life.. its just that he thinks I’m playing on him with another guy…it hurts he doesn’t believe me
Gary says
My ex wife left me for another guy , our divorce was about 10 months later , 2 weeks after the divorce she came knocking on the door telling me I was the best friend she ever had. I thought it was a ploy to try to manipulate me , keeping me on a string so to speak. Was never a consideration as long as the OG was anywhere around…I told her to hit the road….6 months later she married the OG …my decision was vindicated….they divorced 4 years later. Karma!
Asma'u says
Am presently facing this problem with my guy
Aloria says
he broke up with me but he didn’t leme know he only told his guys he broke up with me…I tried talking to his friends about it cause I genuinely love him..I tried they no calling and texting rule..he only replyed telling me that am always online that I don’t even care to send him a chat or call him up to check up on him…he said I told his friends that his ignoring me…that he only told me he needed his space that he didn’t say he wasn’t gonna reply my chat! I’m so confused please help me out… is he still in love with me and ready to come back to me or he is not?
Kate says
I’m not sure if he’s going to come back. If he wants space, then you should give it to him. However, you guys should agree on a timeline for the break. It’s only fair to you.
Greg says
Does this work for guys? My ex started to treat me like crap after 5 years and always blamed me for everything because she couldn’t face up to how she was treating me or who she became. I miss her or at least who she was and can’t believe she would treat me the way she has. Everything that’s wrong in her life she blamed on me because I became her scapegoat. I was always there for her or doing something to cheer her up. 4 weeks after leaving me she’s with some guy who’s clearly younger than her that she wouldn’t go for usually but it’s shiny and new I guess the biggest thing to her is plans for the future and what plan does a teenager have? It really stung to find out but he clearly is some kind of down grade not that I’m all that great but she said I wasn’t man enough yet went for a kid nonsense really I’ve never borrowed a penny off of anyone for at least 7 years and pay my own bills as well as making my own meals and having goals she kind of got jealous of. Is that a sign she’s regretting it and trying to fill the void with anyone she can. The photos are there but there isn’t one smile. Some part of me wants her back but I know it can’t be me to break no contact or I will go back to being the doormat who apparently needs her. I’ve went on dates since but it hasn’t worked out. No chemistry even though they seem like nice girls some seem to ready to throw themselves at me when I’m not really there yet trust wise and don’t want to have a rebound of my own to mask the pain. They deserve someone who will give them 100%. I get that it would make her jealous seeing I’ve upgraded but I’m not willing to use or hurt someone else to get back at her
Kate says
Breakups are hard and if she didn’t treat you good in the first place, you need to really think about why you want her back. You deserve someone who would love and respect you.
asma says
yes youre right …u know my ex didnt treat me right really 🙂 i had really bad days but i still love him and i want him to come back , shit ***
Keino says
I’m starting to hate men. My ex told me I’m better off without him but we can still be friends. I’m missing him, but I’m learning to move on. Men and women are suppose to love or like truly with respect. Don’t do to someone what you wouldn’t want to be done to you, it’s that simple…its like we have no self respect when we use, mistreat, lead On, manipulate, ignore or hurt the ones we love. All the time spent sharing saliva, body fluids, oxygen space, a bed, food, a house, thoughts, dreams, fantasies and so much more was not of any value. Why do we keep doing That, why are men who are like little boys that fight for a toy then throws it away behave like that??
I will never talk to my ex again he’s unfair, unkind and he’s an ass. I want him to regret leaving me, because I’m a good woman and I only wanted him to treat me as such and stop ignoring me.
Let him go I only pray that I stop missing him and loving him quickly.
I agree with your methods I think they can be very effective. I’m the person who loves a man that has a great sexual appetite I found that in my ex, so to not contact him when I want him is driving me crazy…but our relationship wasn’t all about sex it’s just that other things were lacking. I believe I have much more to offer when or if another man comes.
To those who will read this keep making them regret it.
asma says
its been 10 month of our break up and im going to do this …
Victoria says
I removed my ex and his family on everything, which I regret after reading all this. But when I tried to re add it rejected and now I look desperate. Despite wishing I’d kept him so he sees me strong and regrets leaving. What do I do?
Kate says
For now, just think about yourself and try to move on. Make yourself busy so you don’t have time to think about him all the time. Hang out with friends, go to the gym, or pick up a new hobby. Get your mind off him.
Lorah George says
Just stubbled onto this page…
Writing on this comment box i can just feel so much pain already…I’ve been in a relationship for 5years now..And I can’t get over this guy…But deep down know that we both Ned to move on…As much as I know this relationship is toxic for me I loved him much …One way or the other we could break up soon…And I want him to regret every single bit of Me…
He is a very stubborn guy..And I don’t know if once we break up he’s not gonna regret anything….As much as I want him to regret…What is the possibility of changing ones strong will mind into regretting later, is there a possibility??
Please I just need to know
Kate says
If he has feelings for you, he might regret the breakup. However, if he doesn’t really care about you, then most likely he will move on without any regrets. I don’t really know what kind of relationship you have and can’t read his mind so I’m unable to answer if he’s going to regret anything.
Waf says
That’s dark stuff. I would’nt my ex-broke up with me 2 months ago over nothing. been together for 2 years. No man in this world would do what i done.
Travel every week from london to wales for 2 years imagen how much am wasting… gifts here and there. i send her flower twice a week. every weekend we go out for dinner and out about. treated her like a princess. even at the beginning she got divorced from her ex-husband and he was attacking her with text and for 5 months calming her down and taking all the bad away. never done 1 bad and never said 1 bad thing to her always romantic and kind with her.
2 month back she texted me saying I cannot commit and am not fit to be in a relationship. really after 2 damn years, you playing me all this time. After we argued she turned and said I love you and cannot let you go. 1 week after I mean 3 weeks down the line she changed her mind and want to be away. so I gave her time to rethink about what she said and what she is doing. time didn’t even matter at the end she wanted to leave me for no reason. on the 4th week, i went to see her and we tried to talk she said she is talking to someone for the past couple of weeks. that killed me when she said that. How can a women do such thing, she even brought him to her flat. All the love that i gave and all the hardship that i build with her. she thrown it all aways in a blind of an eye.
2 weeks back she text me saying ( You are so missed) lol what kind of a game some women play.
Having a kind person. who cares about her and her daughter. who took her daughter as his own. who treated her with respect. who always want her to be happy and always wanted her to be Succesful and finish her uni…
All this with a blink of an eye she has thrown it all away. For what No idea. any reason given only stupid reason was I want to be away and I don’t have the time to think about us…
Such a petty to break a person heart for an excuse like that. I cannot do anything. after 2 month today, I have decided to block her and remove her from my life. and think about my self and I wish her a happy life and i know like the ones before her they will regret the day they left me and they will contact me back crying that they made a big mistake. But its too late a person get a couple of chances in like not 10000. When you give soo much and you put 100% in your relationship you will break your self and u will end up being the one with heartbroken.
Forgive and forget and wish them a happy life never do something you will regret doing.
thats what she said
(Last time
I didn’t ask for time
I said I want to be away
You wanted to give me more time
But I didn’t know what else to say
You are free
And I’m sorry for the hurt
It I can’t do this
And the reason are as I told you before and what we talked about when you were here
I didn’t want you to bring anything or feel you had to do anything to bring me closer
I prefer to be away
And I am still unwell
And I have loads in mind
I can’t think more about this)
Debbie says
No one deserves to be a doormat. You are a great person for loving someone other than yourself, and that too unconditionally. If she doesn’t appreciate you, then she is not worthy of your notice.and you shouldn’t blame her gender for what happens to you because not all women are unappreciative, selfish and uncaring as not all men are cheater.
Susanford says
I am levering my cheaing ex boyfriend Bradley macintosh for good this time keep my self busy move on pick new hubby get of your mide
Jelly says
To kiara, you will get your karma soon enough.
Tsion says
He left me for another women after 6 years of r/ship. I feel so lost in life. Maybe i should do all of this and see if it helps regain my confidence.
Maleeha Afzal says
But you see, right after being dumped, no one can pull this off. Even the calmest people lose their shit. I did. I abused him for 2 days straight :P. The depression doesn’t let you dress up or not be clingy or not appear sad/broke. Also This post is plain mean. Even though i’m over my ex by now, i still just wish him good luck 🙂 life’s too short to hold these kinda grudges. He broke me but it doesn’t matter. coz the truth is, the day u are able to live your life happily is the day you no longer need to see him regretting. Because its the day when he just wont matter anymore. Whether he is happy or sad over you, it shouldn’t matter. the day u truly accept this by heart is the day when u will truly move on.
Also, if anyone is trying to get over the denial/depression phase, read the book “The subtle art of not giving a fuck”. it really helped me through that phase.
Debbie says
Well , everybody has right to their own opinion but I will like to say something. Making someone to regret leaving you and treating like a trash is not connected to holding a grudge.if you feel that you aren’t important enough for someone to regret leaving you. Well it your problem.
Debbie says
No one deserves to be a doormat. You are a great person for loving someone other than yourself, and that too unconditionally. If she doesn’t appreciate you, then she is not worthy of your notice.and you shouldn’t blame her gender for what happens to you because not all women are unappreciative, selfish and uncaring as not all men are cheater.
Chinenye says
Bravo! I like your comment,always be yourself,dont fake it,stay strong and move on
Princess Tunny says
I don’t really understand my boyfriend,he is claiming I should go look for someone else cos of his flexing and lieing DAT am cheating on him,imagine DAT shit,moreover he is d game cheater.
I really want him back but I also want him to regret his actions because he is so stubborn
Need advice
Nina says
My ex dumped me after a 5 year relationship. We were engaged. I caught him cheating with one lady who is working with him. I lost 14 kgs in 1 month, i collapsed. I used to treat him like a mom, sister and a lover. I helped him financially when he didnt have a job.he paid me back by dumping me. I am heart broken taking anti depressant pills.i will never forgive him. Karma started doing its job. The lady he dumped me for didnt accept to marry him. He lost his job which he was supposed to start next week with a very good salary. Last night he sms me to **ck off telling that he lost his job cz i am praying bad will happen to him. I am broken. Hope he will come back one day and i will treat him in the same way he dud and dump him. You think he wull regret????
Idowu nimotallahi says
we’ve been dating for years,bt smtn happened,we broke up bt later he came to apologize nd we started again just bcos i still love him,bt some weeks after i accepted him back,he has stopped callin nd messaging,later i heard he’s dating anoda girl,so i just excuse d two of them,bt he do message me on facebook just asking how i was dn,bt am nt sure if he still love me,d thing is confusing,even ppl do ask him if we are still dating,he said no,i dnt seems to understand
barbie says
Ya truely men who are cheaters deserve thanks coz me too went thru dat,lwish he regrets it
Joyosa says
Ever since I caught my boyfriend cheating wit another girl I no longer love him anymore I hate him dearly
Doria says
Why bother MOVE ON to a better person. My ex hubby left me after a year of marriage to be with someone else, i was angry at first but i never ran after him nor beg him to come back. When a fool runs let him go, erase his existence from your life, now it has been 4 years am happily married to the RIGHT man and he is stuck living with his parents.
nora says
i felt very happy to meet him, i thought that i have found my next half after years of my first divorce, he was a leo man, he crept a lot to have my attention, he looked very happy when we became at contact for the first time, i was so nice with him so kind and caring, but i found him very strange one , he used to come to me two days a weak, he was from another town in my country, we used to spend them at work and going for lunch or dinner, as we meet for the first time at work in my town, but i found that as soon as he leaves me , he doesn’t care about getting in touch with phone or social media or by any other means, we talked about this, and he apologized many times, and contact me for awhile and return back uncaring after he leaves every weak , after his two days in my town
i tried to warn him that i want to leave him, but he insisted that he loves me and care about me and that he doesn’t want me to leave him.
finally we talked about commit and he said he want short time to be ready as he has no enough money yet for such step, i said that i don’t want expensive things, especially i had a falt for my own, and i am ready to get marry in it, but he said he has no thing to offer now even a little and even he was a doctor and has good job.
he asked me for making love and mating but i refused to do that until we got married.
suddenly he changed, he became very nervous and tough, he didn’t use to call me, and if i tried to call him, he don’t reply, and answer my messages after long time and always say i am busy
i became very far, and recently he tried to convince me that he is going to do some checking in the hospital as he thinks he may have serious disease such as cancer, i knew that he was a lie in his words
but i used to ask about his health and said that he is good and he would find that he is good and there isn’t any disease
he become very nervous and said that iam putting pressure on him, and that he would tell me the results of the checking in the hospital as soon as he knows, and he stopped contact with me
i love him , i can’t imagine that he was a layer and that every word about love was feak
i don’t know how to leave far of him after one year, evey place i go to it , make me remember evey word and everything between us, i want him to regret
i am o leo woman who really loved undeserved leo man
do you thing he will regret and come back after i follow your article
we got spelt for three days now, our spelt is new
Fafa says
Hi
I have broken up with my boyfriend last week and since then I feel kind of broken and sad and sometimes I feel I am strong and I don’t need him but in the end I fall and cry every night since then . I am not like other girls fit sure all my friends say so but this doesn’t matter I still love him that is for sure and I can’t take him out of my mind it is really hard I don’t know if he really loved me or not but we had a lot of fun that is for sure I felt that . Something went wrong we where dating almost two months and we where in a good relationship but we used to fight alot but it was over in a minute but one day he started to chat with me in a bad way like he doesn’t like me he counted to be like that almost two weeks and one day he told me he let me fill suffer I don’t understand what he said and then I had gathering with my friends and my friend told me that u told my boyfriend that I am going out with some one else it wasn’t true I swear but my friend was confused and then he called me and said that u are a lair I don’t trust u u are nothing u have many faces u where acting all this time I was shocked I don’t know what to say so I started to shout to him and my last words where F*ck and I ended the call and then he blocked me in snap chat I deleted his number and chat but I still feel sad I sometimes I feel I regretted what I have done so what should I do now?
Brooke says
So you say no matter what you shouldn’t contact them, but what if it’s a type of relationship where you guys could still be good friends afterward? I don’t know if I should reach out and try to make that friendship happen and grow or just not contact him. People are telling me to let him come to me, but if he’s doesn’t? Also, i’m thinking if me and him do become good friends again and can talk and share a laugh, that alone will just make him regret his choices and miss him being with me because he will remember how fun I was and what we had. Right? What should i do?
OlderWiser says
If the relationship was hurtful, and ended, there is no reason to do any of this. Why try to make the other person see the error of his (or her) ways? It doesn’t work. Either that person truly valued you to begin with, or did not.
If you are playing games like this you most certainly are NOT over the other person, and in some way would like him/her to come groveling back.
If the love affair or marriage ended, it ended. If you find one another again and can make it work a 2nd time, it will not be because manipulative games have been played, but because both people realize past mistakes and are willing to start again with a clean slate. That is rare.
Moving on means truly moving on. The ex cannot occupy your headspace. It’s difficult to be sure.
florence says
my best friends has betrayed my trust, she told my husband lies and blackmailed me to my husband, I got devastated and couldn’t imagine my very own friend wanted to break my family apart out of jealousy.
I couldn’t let my husband go just like that, I went looking for help and I found a psychic who did everything and brought my husband back with a single spell. He told me and showed me everything my friend sent to him, she event went photo shopping to take my husband from me.
Lori says
I met this guy and We were just business ,Then things changed after getting to know one another.
He lied and told my sister and myself he was separated and getting a divorce. He had his kids staying with him from time to time and being it was so soon he didn’t want to invite me to his home. So months went by and he just explained it was his kids healing and his soon to be x would bring them to the house and it wouldn’t be good to have me in the situation . Any ways as time went on my sister says I think he’s still married and mean time I am invested . I have left my husband and was already had left him few months be fore I meet this guy MY x now.
Any ways we last 6 yrs he divorced his wife moved to WY to make a better career for him and I
then I could move there . I being stuck with a home I couldn’t sell and my raising my grand daughter of 7 yrs and she wanted to complete her high school year and graduate with her class. He would travel back to see his kids and me and family he had here. I went along and felt we were making plans and me being stuck in Il due to obligations . Finally My grand was graduating and I had 3 months to go and I would be able to transition to WY So I was going to go see him at this time it was 6 mo. before I could move to WY . I asked to go see him Nov couldn’t he was working to much . Dec I couldn’t no time off and he no one could get time off so jam Feb. He says yes So I start making plans in Feb. to go there and he calls and says he has a GF he’s found another person . The three months he was seeing her he was making plans with me and also lying to me . I just wasted 6 yrs with this guy and believed him and found out so many horrible things he has done in our relationship . I was able to get into the computer and see things with other girls . Why drag me down and not be honest. O the Biggy was he called me to tell me he moved her in to his house and to tell me he didn’t move her in . she seen him calling me so she calls me . She basically tells me to find a boyfriend and that she was going to get pregnant . And one month after she moved in she was pregnant . HE called me to tell me . Also he lied more on that subject . He didn’t think she would get pregnant and that he was too old He is 46 she is 43 and his kids are 27,23 and hers are 11 and 8 . I’m so paralyzed and just cant believe he did this to me and never even blinked a eye to how hurt I am or where he put me.
just threw me over board . It has been 6 months I have an counselor I just cant breathe or cant seem to get out of this bad place of missing him even though he was a bad person to do what he has done. Knowing he bought her two houses and she is all over FB exploiting her BABY BELLY and he’s all over her . Showing the new house they are moving into . I’m devastated. How can people be so cruel and hurt another person . He could have told me then resumed a relationship after we had passed over our break up . I never even was able to fix anything or knew nothing .
I just want the worst for him and nothing bad is happening to him but me it is .. like the laws of attraction is attacking me not him because of my ill wishes.
I stalk him and it is so sad why I do this . I hate myself for all of this.
what a mess
Johanne Enevoldsen says
Nine times out of 10, your ex will ask if you’re still working at your old company. Nothing wrong if you are. Just say yes, and add how you’re up for a promotion and how they really value you.
taylor says
my ex left me today because he said “i love you i just dont want my ex to know we date” sooo he broke up with me and im hurt im gonna try these tips tho
Peck says
F*ck the guy who used me badly at work and emotionally. This f*cking retard played with me for 2 years, suggesting that he’s serious and want a marriage. I did the work at work for him, but in the end he left and dated a manager who’s senior than him.
After some time I am starting to get over him I got obviously fake accounts adding my social media, with intro saying things like “miss you”. From the words and choice of photos it’s from him. So I checked and he’s still dating that woman and they are traveling around. WTF.
This article is good for those trying to move on but not good enough for those who are looking for a complete revenge.
I come to realize that a**holes just don’t deserve our time nor attention. Our time is precious. And those a**holes will suffer from karna.