Are you making New Year’s resolutions this year? If you want to improve your game with women, then you should be!
The whole point of New Year’s resolutions is that you make a firm decision to become better, stronger, happier, and more fulfilled in life. And, really, that is the goal of life isn’t it?
You don’t have to make a ton of new resolutions though. Personally I’ve got at least 3 resolutions in every area of my life, so since this is a specific part of your life, let’s talk about 3 resolutions that will benefit you.
Resolution 1: Stop Needing A Woman In Your Life
Maybe you thought I would suggest making a resolution to finally meet the woman of your dreams, but I know that doing that will backfire in the long run.
When you feel that need to have a woman in your life, you will always resort to acting needy around women – which is not attractive.
Acting needy includes:
- Trying to make things happen faster than they are
- Saying the wrong things when you approach a woman
- Calling too much
- Texting too much
- Saying ‘I love you’ too soon
- Getting upset when she doesn’t show the same intensity you show
All of these things are a turn off for a woman, and you will just end up repelling her away.
Here’s some advice from Jason Captial to stop being so needy around women.
Resolution 2: Improve Your Texting Game
It is a part of life. Texting a woman you meet is easier than talking to her. It saves time and it allows you to avoid being a bumbling idiot on the phone if you are nervous. You can think out what you want to say and leave a woman wanting more of you.
But, when you text the WRONG texts, you can lose a woman instantly. It doesn’t matter if your text meant well – The context of what you are trying to say can be lost if you are not good at explaining yourself through your words.
Even texting something like ‘Cool. Sounds good,’ could send a message of disinterest to a woman depending on what you were talking about and what she previously texted you.
Confusing, yes. Fixable, yes. That’s why improving your texting game should absolutely be one of your resolutions for this year.
Read: Why Texting Women Can Ruin Your Chances With Them for more.
Resolution 3: Make Other People’s Lives Better
- volunteer
- do nice things for strangers
- donate money
- donate food
- be kind to someone
- smile at someone
How will this help you get women? In a few ways.
First, when you actively work towards making other people’s lives better, you become more attractive to women. All women will be drawn to a guy who visibly does an act of kindness for someone. It shows compassion, and that is something that all women find attractive in men.
Second, when you make other people’s lives better, you also make your own life better.
You become more respectful of others and less judgmental, and that makes you feel better about the world, and a nicer person that women want to be around.
Moreover, you remove the bubble that keeps you focused on yourself, and that opens you up to a ton of possibilities and relationships that you may have otherwise missed.
Third, the world becomes a better place.
Think about it. When you walk past or ignore an old lady in the supermarket who is struggling to get something off the top shelf, you are doing nothing to the world. It has no effect.
But when you stop to help her, you make her day better and your day better (and if anyone is watching, their day better), and that has a ripple effect.
She may do something kind for the cashier, who does something kind for a business person going through her line, who in turn donates some money to the food bank, and the kindness goes on and on.
AND, you may even have an effect on the perfect woman in the store who was feeling pissed off about something and wouldn’t have noticed you, but suddenly feels good and upbeat and takes notice of you as you walk by.
I’m serious, when you do good for others, that karma is returned and it has huge potential to change who comes into your life. It should be a part of everyone’s New Year’s resolution list.
So, to recap, the 3 resolutions that will help you with women are:
- Remove the need to have a woman in your life – That need will make you act needy and you will do things that repel women.
- Improve your texting game – Nothing will ruin your chances with a woman like a bad text will. Learn how to text in a way that makes women want more.
- Make other people’s lives better – You will feel better about yourself, women will feel better about you, and the world will be a better place full of happier people.
