Are you worried your wife is messing around on you? You may be right. Usually, the gut knows the truth, according to relationship experts at MSN. One study found almost a fifth of women interviewed admitted to cheating on their current partners. That’s a scary statistic.
Here are some major warning signs your wife might be cheating on you.
Physical Signs Your Wife Is Cheating
Sign #1 – Her Age
According to the experts, the rates of cheating start to rise among girls in their early 30’s after they’ve been married for at least 7 years.
Sign #2 – She Works, Works, Works
There’s no doubt that working women are much more likely to cheat on their partners than a stay at home mom. To add to this, they are more likely to get nasty with a co-worker. On the flip side, it’s the same for men.
It comes down to opportunity. Naturally, we tend to fall in love with the people we are around most often. So, if your girl is working long hours with her co-workers, you might want to consider that she might be cheating on you, particularly if she talks about a guy regularly and especially if he isn’t hard on the eyes.
Sign #3 – She Brings In The Money
Highly paid women are more likely to cheat; that’s a fact. The same goes for men. There is something about financial security and power that play into the mindset.
When you take a second to think about it, it really does make sense. With money comes independence, and with independence comes the mindset you can get away with things you normally wouldn’t. If your girl makes lots of money and you suspect she is cheating, she is.
Sign #4 – Was Hooked Up Before
The facts state second marriages are much higher in divorce than a first marriage. So, if your wife was married once or even twice before you, then you need to be wary of the fact she might stray. Be aware.
Sign #5 – Affairs Run In The Family
Truth be told, often women that have grown up with a parent that has cheated wind up being cheaters themselves. Now, it’s really not fair to judge, but you do need to consider the proven scientific stats behind this point.
History often repeats itself because you only know what you have learned in the environment in which you have grown up.
Sign #6 – Your Girl Isn’t Happy With You
When a girl says she isn’t happy in her marriage, she’s more than five times more likely to cheat on her man than women that say their marriage is happy.
Funny thing is, women think an affair is perfectly fine when they aren’t happy in their marriage. She’s likely trying to keep it together for the kids, which is super sad.
Sign #7 – Your Wife Has An One Year Old Child
Studies show that women who have a one-year-old child say they are less satisfied with their marital relations. Weird but true. So, if you and your wife have a young child, it’s important to consider that your wife might be messing around on you.
Sign #8 – She’s Not Religious
Gals who don’t attend church or synagogue are more than 3 times more likely to cheat on their man than a woman who attends her religious practice at least once a week. That’s a tough statement for me to accept, but I don’t have the scientific data to challenge it.
If your wife has no religion, you are best to beware.
Sign #9 – You’re Playing Poker And She’s Watching The Bachelorette
When couples attend therapy, they tend to report they spend very little time together.
Too bad guys believe that, once they are married, there is no more work to do, that their wife will accept them as they are and be faithful forever. Talk about a stupid assumption.
This is where the wife will wander off in search of a man who gives her value and meaning, pays attention to her, and makes her feel special.
Sign #10 – Very Little Self-Esteem
One major reason a wife will go in search of validation outside her marriage is to find a man who gives her validation, a purpose, and makes her feel like she is beautiful and valuable.
The ego boost means everything when it comes to figuring out whether your wife is cheating on you.
Sign #11 – Your Wife Is A Tad Nutty
Studies show it’s the gals who are a bit narcissistic and crave sexual excitement. Think of these women as the loose cannons that don’t really think about the consequences of their immediate actions.
Did you know women who are extroverted are the most likely to be hit on by gents?
A little something you need to pay attention to.
Sign #12 – This Gal Is Totally HOT
If you have a wife that’s hot, there is no doubt she is going to get hit on again and again. It doesn’t matter whether she is wearing a ring because guys are seriously relentless when they are looking for that hot and special girl to parade around.
This is a tough one because you know your gal is always wondering if there is another guy out there that’s better for her.
Sign #13 – She’s Getting So Much Hotter
This is a red flag signal your wife is cheating. If she decides suddenly to hit the gym daily to lose weight and get back her rock-hard body, you can be certain it’s not for you.
Is she buying new clothes?
Is she getting her hair done and looking like a zillion bucks whenever she leaves the house?
If she is doing all this, you can be sure it’s not for you.
Signal #14 – Introducing Toys
If your wife suddenly starts introducing sex toys or a favorite new position you knew nothing about, you can bet your bottom dollar she is cheating. A newfound interest in being sexy, in general, in a marriage is cause for question.
Be wary of this one because, if you didn’t teach this to her, you’ve got to ask yourself who did.
Signal #14 – She’s In Ovulation Form
Research shows a woman that is ovulating nearly doubles her fantasies about other men. This just means you need to understand you are not the only man in the picture. Look at the facts here. If you aren’t the only man on her mind, that means she’s with or wants to be with someone else.
It’s never easy to accept the fact your wife is probably cheating on you. In fact, that totally sucks. Consider these facts because it’s better for you to figure this out sooner than later.
Is there an acceptable reason for your wife to cheat? Probably not, but keep in mind there are two sides to every story. According to The Telegraph, many men and woman cheat and have been cheated on at some point. That’s pretty sad news!
Studies show men and women tend to cheat for very different reasons. Guys stray because they are searching for the “get the job done” sex, and women just want some sizzle with a dash of connection. Men seem to do just fine skipping that connection part.
Makes perfect sense if you look at it from an evolutionary standpoint, where the men were providers and procreators, and the women were the nurturing type caregivers.
When a woman isn’t happy with her relationship in the big picture, not just the sex, she will step outside the marriage to find that missing piece or pieces with another man.
It’s much easier to figure out if a woman is cheating because all you need to do is analyze her behavior and connect the dots.
Pay attention to the following “types” of women for hard set clues your wife might be cheating on you.
Types of women who might cheat:
Type One – Miss Centre Of Attention
There are women who expect men to meet their every need, no matter how frivolous or ridiculous it is. She might set you up to fail miserably or perhaps she puts pressure on you to fulfill all her dreams and expectations.
This type of woman is much less likely to be content or find satisfaction in a relationship. Her solution is to justify her wants, needs. and expectations and cheat, hoping to find a man that will give her everything her heart desires and more.
Type Two – Miss Innocent Virgin
This type of women likely doesn’t know what she wants in bed or doesn’t have the guts to ask you for it. Too bad you can’t read her mind. Maybe she’s having a tough time picturing you as the father to her future kids.
Because communication is everything, this woman will have no issues stepping outside the sanctity of marriage to try to find the man who will please her in bed. Too bad she didn’t give you a real shot!
Type Three – Loving The Exciting High
There are women who fall into the arms of marriage expecting the honeymoon to last forever. When your wife craves the emotional excitement of desire and making love to a new partner, she might be stuck in the adventurous honeymoon phase, and this might push her to cheat on you.
Be wary if this is the type of women you’re hitched to.
Type Four – The Mental Weakling
If a woman is self-conscious and doesn’t believe in herself, she often goes outside of herself to look for validation by other men. Essentially, she’s got a dainty ego that gets smashed easily.
Think of her as a player who lacks self-confidence and has the constant need and desire to be told how amazing she is. Instead of working to get this from her marriage, she thinks it’s easier to step outside and have an affair.
Type Five – Just Don’t Want To Be The Bad “Girl”
This woman wants to break up with her husband, but she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings. She doesn’t want to be the “bad” one in the relationship. She might be afraid to be alone, and to make sure this doesn’t happen, she will cheat with one or more men to make sure she’s got a couple of possible replacements on the side.
Time To Step Up The Plate…Is It ALL Your Fault?
When a marriage gets into trouble, you’ve got to step back and ask yourself what part of this is your fault. Over 90% of women who cheat believe they can justify it. In other words, it’s all “his” fault, and she’s got no issues shouting this out loud and clear.
It always takes two to tango, but when a woman cheats on a man, regardless, it’s all on her. It’s called communication BEFORE you decide to break your marriage vows. Agree to disagree and move on.
Let’s have a look at physical signs your wife is a cheat!
Cheat 1 – Behavior Changes
When your wife suddenly starts to change her attitude, and it can’t be explained, it’s out of the norm, you are wise to consider she might be sleeping around on you.
Just be wary here because your gut instinct is often correct. Pay attention to how she is acting, and if she’s changing her language and shutting you off or not communicating with you like she usually does, she might be cheating.
Cheat 2 – Null And Void With Intimacy
There are times when women just don’t feel like having sex, when they are on their period, or when they really do have a headache.
However, if your sex pattern has changed without valid explanation and you haven’t had it in over a month, you need to think about the faithful factor. This physical sign is so obvious after the fact. Why would she want to have any intimacy with her husband when she’s getting her booty call with her lover?
As long as you haven’t done something to piss her off and she’s holding back on the sex, cheating might be real.
Cheat 3 – She’s Drifted Off
Many cheating women disconnect with their partners and become distant. If your wife shows a distant, yet aggressive, attitude toward you and her usual routines start to dissipate, you need to consider she might be sleeping around on you.
If she seems irritated with you constantly and hardly looks at you, it’s a telltale sign she is making magic on the outside. She really doesn’t need you anymore because she’s apparently found what she needs in another man’s arms.
How else are you going to explain this behavior toward you?
Cheat 4 – She’s Suddenly Looking HOT!
This is another obvious sign your wife is cheating on you. If all of a sudden, she goes on a diet, hits the gym, and starts getting her hair and nails done, you’ve got to consider she’s likely doing it for a reason other than you.
Chances are she lost her connection with you and is looking to feel attractive and sexy.
Be careful here because she might be trying to look and feel better about herself just for her. You need to tread carefully and maybe drum up the guts to ask her why she is putting so much effort into looking hot. Reassure her you are crazy happy she is, but make sure she gives you the truth.
Usually, people don’t like to change.
Cheat 5 – Addicted To The Phone/Computer
Technology is both sweet and nasty. It’s too easy these days to hide behind a computer screen and muster up the guts to create relationships virtually that interfere with the real deal. Some women start fooling around with online dating sites and, suddenly, on paper, see the man of their dreams, or so they think, and they jump at the chance to connect face to face.
If your wife is spending lots of time on her electronic devices, detached from you, it’s fair to say she might be dicking you around.
This is another clear physical factor your woman might be cheating.
Cheat 6 – Protective Of Her Phone
Suddenly, you might notice your wife is receiving more messages than normal. Perhaps she is protective of them. If she is very careful with her phone and makes sure she grabs it before you get to glance at it, it’s a sure sign she’s got something going on that she doesn’t want you to know about.
Cheat 7 – It’s All About The Office
Studies show many cheats occur in the office. It’s tough to push away an attraction without strings when you work with a super-hot man every day. Sometimes, it’s too hard to resist. The only way to make a connection with a man is to spend time with him.
Think about it. When you are working 8 hours with a man, five days a week, and you are attracted to him, it is super tough to resist. You see him more than you see your hubby.
Just be wary about the people she works with and how much overtime she’s putting in.
Cheat 8 – She Just Doesn’t Want You To Go With Her Anywhere
Perhaps you might notice she leaves home a little early or more often than usual. Of course, she has an excuse, like getting to work early to get some extra work done or dropping in to see a girlfriend going through a difficult time.
If you find your gut feeling suspicious of her, you need to follow it.
Often, these homemade covers are just a cover for her cheating on you.
Bottom line…If she is changing her normal routine to be around you less, it is a serious red flag she might be cheating on you.
Cheat 9 – Deer In The Headlights With Her Excuses
Often, if your woman has no ability to give you logical explanations, just excuses, then she is certainly cheating on you.
Look your partner in the eye, and if you can actually see that distant disengaged look, she is probably cheating on you.
Cheat 10 – Scaredy Cat
If your partner is having trouble sleeping, experiencing episodes of depression and anxiety, and acting crazy strange, she is likely lying to you.
Fear has a way of taking control away. If she is cheating, she will be afraid you will find out, no matter how disconnected you are.
If she seems nervous and uncomfortable when you ask her questions, she is most certainly cheating on you.
Final Words
It’s such a hardship when you are questioning whether your wife is cheating on you. No man wants to think that, but far more often than not, it’s true.
You need to look at the facts and signals to give you all the information you need to know to figure out whether your wife is stepping outside your marriage to have some fun.
It’s not right any way you look at it, but you need to be clear this is the case BEFORE you bring this to her attention.
A strong marriage is based on love and trust and looking to lift each other up and support one another forever.
If your wife is cheating, you need to kick her to the curb, no matter how much you “think” you love her.
John mukiri says
Good
A says
You know is true about this article
Julius says
Hi friend, thanks for your informative article, I have a question, recently I accidentally found an adult video in my wife’s phone sent to her by a man, she has denied ever watching it,kindly tell me an honest interpretation of this.
Kate says
If it’s on her phone then most likely she has watched it.
Jason says
I could use some answers.
Jason says
Thank you!
Jason says
I am afraid that is the trend these day.
Moses says
what an eye opener script. thanks a lot
TG says
Thank you for the priceless information and willingness to help.
20 + years off and on and married for 8 now with 2 kids under 6.
My GUTT will not let me move on. It is constantly reminding me of the unanswered and questionable times. I want to move forward with her even if she cheated, but I need to know one way or another.. Period. I’m starting to realize this may never happen.. So what is next.. ?? How do I / can I facilitate the end of the bad so that we can start our lives up again and move on.. I truly do not know if she is being truthful about the past..
My wife falls into just about every category listed. She suffers from Trauma(s) from early childhood and some symptoms that follow. She avoids any kind of conflict and will lie to avoid it. She is an extreme extrovert and needs socializing for fuel.
I caught her in a “white lie” and that was a shock as I had never known her to lie about anything..
Down comes the avalanche of the “realization of Reality” and what has transpired over the last 20 years.. She has always told “little white lies” or omitted information by her words to “avoid conflict” and not for “hiding or cheating” purposes. I have experienced the avoidance of truth for the sake of ease and non conflict.. So I am at a place I’m sure many have found themselves throughout time.
We started counseling in April of 2018. She is undergoing EMDR to help with the trauma and symptoms and is making progress albeit slow, still progress.. It may seem weird or strange that I would post in this thread while in counseling, but I have had a recent deluge of anxiety caused by the lack of “closer” per se’ for past events and questions that she lied profusely about in the beginning.
The fact that she has NEVER been UP FRONT with anything from the past in the way of shadiness and that I have had to bring everything to her attention which has me VERY CONCERNED! This fact alone causes me, as it should anyone to question the Clarity of the past. Transparency equals Future.. I have read so many stories that tell of the Cheating spouse never being able to admit or verbalize the cheating in its true form or in any form for that matter.. I personally have been in a place as a teenager when I remember not telling the truth and not feeling like I could ever tell the truth of the event. So I know we are capable of withholding things even if we do not want to with hold them..
This has me perplexed as to how to handle, learn and grow from this as an individual and as a couple..
I love her,
She loves me and wants to be in this.. This I know is true.. 😉
Thank you for the shoulders folks!
Thank you for the priceless Article/reality check Kate 5!
TG
Marcus Jackson says
My wife caught me chatting with someone online, i told her it was a cam show thats all nowshe has a new girl at her job that they call each other “bae” she tells me this girl at work is younger and says how fine my wife is and my wife says she has a nice big ass so i went through her phone and seen texts saying how she misses her when she is not at work and calls her before work should i not be worried she has dated anotther female before
Muthu says
Dear friends, this article is really great to support the male spouse.
I am the victim and the points which are listed above are really matching in my life and wife.
Recently I got hurted when my wife was closely chating with the person in my home and in my absence, whom I know him he is my relative only but not a good guy.
As per my knowledge she never allowed any one in my home in my absence, but on that day she allowed and was chatting with him closely.
When I entered, it hurted me a lot, they both were acted like nothing happened.
From that day onwards, I am very curious about her, because, I don’t want to repeat that again my life.
From that day itself I am totally depressed and I left my job also.
Kindly suggest me to come out from this shock, and help me out to come out of depression.
I have decided for divorce. Kindly suggest.
Shiva says
Don’t divorce its not the right solution, it hurts you for long time, please keep your wife happy and tell her how much you love her and her family. If she really understands your words she gets change her mind.
Always pass some good comments of her way cooking, dressing and love of your old memories.
Jason says
If that doesn’t work then what? I have love her from the time we met.
Mickey says
Very informative. But still Lakshmi knowledge of how to really identify cheating Wife. Mostly men are to be blames, were easy going. Women are smart, hidious, smiling g, covering up cats.
What A MAN wants is a real WOMAN,….!!!
Looks like like it,
. Who to blame. If bother He& She has needs , why to be together?!!!
Jason says
I have lived through a cheating wife 4 marriages. Four times to the same on I am married to now.
Lior Rozensweig says
It can happen in any marriage. I thought all was ok and then I discovered my wife was cheating on me. I think it went on for a long time even after she said it was over. We are still together but it will never be the same. I gave her all she wanted to keep our marriage together. Lior Rozensweig, Karkur – Israel
sam says
I have been working outside the country for almost 5 years now going home for vacation every year expecting my wife to all loving but to my shocker am the one engaging her in s..x all the time and most of the time am the one on heat i hv been assuming this issue but of late my wife has been distant and she lies every time on money and location issues she does not want to associate with my family members like before arguers on the phone over little issue
am soo confused and i can’t go home now until December i dont know how to approach this issue
Lewis Wray says
Reading these posts I’d like to offer some advice. If you have caught your wife talking to another man or out right cheating or whatever, but you still love her and want to keep her, listen up.
Women are attracted to many types of men. Sensitive, masculine, funny etc.. but NO woman is attracted to a needy man who is emotionally delicate. She may feel sorry for you and want to nurture your wounded soul, but in no way is she feeling moist and aroused over catering to your whimpering ways. I KNOW its hard to do, but if you are confronting your woman over crossing the relationship boundary, do it with your head held high, not aggressive, not meek but with steadfast “matter of fact” assurance.
It does not matter what her answer is. At this point delicately put your hand behind her head, look her deep in the eyes and slowly bring your lips to hers and give a long, deep , passionate kiss. One that says I’M the man in your life and I will not be forsaken .
Now if she she cheated because you are an emotionally or physically abusive man, forget it.
You have already lost. But if you have been a good husband/boyfriend, a good provider, a good lover…well..you have just been too much of a “good” boy and now is the time to tap into her innate need for dominance.
After all, why in the hell do you think she strayed in the first place? It does not matter if the other man was better looking, taller, richer…it doesn’t matter. It is you she has been giving herself to all this time and she is waiting to be desired by the one she fell in love with.
Jason says
Wow, so true…
Okurut james says
iwork as security gard meaning iwork at night only and she works as nursary teacher i only have enouph time with her during holidays.Of recent her time of coming back home has changed from mid day went up to 2:00pm and now upto 4:00pm and yesterday she came at 6:00pm when i asked her she doent give any reasom that they stay at school chating with her friends and marking books and at school they only female teachers is there apossibility that she is cheating on me? since we dont sleep at night together she works day and iwork at night.
Jeff says
For what it is worth. I had a GF that I was pretty sure was cheating. I called a female friend of mine and she went to the bar that the GF mentioned as a favor to me. Well, she not only told me but took pictures whit her phone camera. OK, well, MY GF and I were not married. She had kind of moved in bit by bit. So, I changed the lock on my home. The GF was in my second car so I and my female friend went and got that too. I took the car to the dealership and got the keys changed. I went to the bank and opened a new account and closed the old one. I then hired a professional mover to pack everything she had at my house and move it to a storage facility. With both cars firmly locked up in my garage and ensuring she didn’t have access to one dime from me I was ready to move on. I called a private security company to keep a very close eye on my house after the ex GF and her “friend” showed up on my doorstep and had to be escorted off my property by the local police. I then called my female friend, told her how much I owed her for helping and asked if she wanted to go on a two-week vacation with me to St. Johns. Long story made short, cut your losses move on and make better choices who you let into your life.
Joselito C. Mendiola says
I’ve been working outside the country and went home last Feb 2018 and I was surprised with the reaction with my wife towards me and she don’t me to hold her, hug and do sex with me and again it happened just recently last March & April when I had my vacation same time happened. Small issues are always being argued at, can you please advised me if my wife has been cheating on me or if she’s still in love with me?
Jean D Ramambason says
Love does not cheat. Cheating is dirty. Cheating is risky. Cheating is sin. Cheating is exciting. Cheating is fun. Cheating is pleasurable. Cheating is adventuresome. Cheating is backstabbing. Cheating is a lie. Cheating is hypocritical.
Jimmy says
WELL SAID !!!
Major says
For a couple of days my wife would go out and stay much longer than necessary. Things that should not take more than 30 minutes but will be away for 2-4 hours. If I called her she wouldn’t pick. Sometimes her line would not be reachable. She will later give one flimsy excuse or the other. One of those days, at night I made attempt to stir he up so we can make love, she was not in the mood at all. Usually, she enjoys me playing with her, she was removing my hand. I became seriously confused and troubled. What do you think is happening to my wife? We had been very faithful to each other, and I never had any reason to suspect her before then. We have been married for over 10 yrs with 3 children
Richard says
I have been with my wife for about 11 years now and we have three children but these days i feel something is missing ,something is not right and she keeps on dying that she is not seeing any one.
Thomas Riddell says
Pry on her phone and you will be sure
Joy says
What makes you feel she is lieing
Peter Lahm says
I caught my wife cheating electronically, she had asked for forgiveness confessing everything to me, she insisted there were no physical attraction just the electronics gadgets. They had met often which she also confessed, is this possible.
Joy says
If there was no physical attraction then there should not have been no electronic involvement HELLO!!!!!!😣
karl says
Hi,I am 45 yrs old my is wife is 40 yrs old we have six children marriage past 11 yrs she stay at home I am thinking she cheating on me she has low self-esteem she want me to leave her at our farm but I don”t want her reason is she is not working why must she stay in town
Joy says
What if she is more comfortable on the farm than in town
Princess Tam Tam says
Hello!
I am a 45 year old man and this article saved my marriage! I thought my wife was cheating with her boss but it just turns out they are just yoga buddies! In fact, we decided it would be better if she stayed over at his penthouse on the weekends for some good team-building exercises. I am so glad I found this article lacking any real quoted data instead of speaking with her directly. Isn’t the Internet amazing??
Thanks!
Sandman says
Congratulations to all of you who read and commented on this article. Whatever brought you to read this article (whether by accident or intentionally searching for an answer probably because you have been cheated by your wife, is still in denial or already have suspicions of your wife cheating) , YOU have been enlightened and introduced to the new millennium of women not only being equal but more powerful, cunning and wicked than men to the point this comment might get edited or not even posted in this webpage. They have been corruptly influential in society nowadays…even in politics and porn. Am pretty sure they will be able to protect the society when faced with war or invasion when there are no more good men left because all of them were also sued for sexual harassment.
Please Don’t get me Wrong. It’s not a bad thing . It’s an awakening and a pending realization of humanity on its numerous mistakes over time. Actually..: gender, race, culture, religion, or financial status has nothing to do with cheating. People will cheat if there’s nothing to stop them from doing so. It all boils down to lack of love, respect, conscience, dignity and gratefulness. If a person (straight, gay, etc) has any of this…cheating won’t happen. It applies to all relationships (marriage, engagements, parent-child, siblings, business, politics, organizations, etc.)
Am not the author of this article. I am commending and expanding it. Being a Devil’s Advocate for it. Kudos to the author of the article. It’s one of the bravest and realistic depiction of how women had become the men they despise for the past two decades. It’s one of the very few keyword search results on “cheating” that exposes women’s infidelity as opposed to the many pointing to men.
Why do you think there are more articles about cheating men than women?
Because Men are not so good hiding and controlling their emotions and keeping secrets compared to women. Men turned into stupid zombies and idiots, looses control when tempted by a woman. Think about those men your wives cheated with. They are all wrapped around her fingers to be partners in crime. As Father Tom said in my pre-divorce counseling, you wouldn’t know when a woman cheats. Everything is so weird flowery as if nothing bad is happening.
Most men get caught and society find it more easier of a blame by branding them as pigs, prowlers, players or simply cheaters. And they get sued a lot and most of the time lose everything. Women seldom get caught. And when they do, society brand them as victims. Somebody made them do it. Just like Eve blaming the Snake. And Nope, they seldom get sued and always get everything even if they are the one who actually cheated. Alimony and Child Support. I’ve seen every time in Probate hearings.
Somehow, The new age women had failed to be the better person and abandoned their primary role in society by trying to correct a wrong with another wrong.
All the signs are TRUE! Although I can add some more signs i.e.
SIGN #25 Pretneding to go to a store that closes at 11pm after rushing the kids to bed at 8pm or pretending to return some clothes she bought before the store closes. (A favorite tactic of a woman I had an affair for year before divorcing her husband who is aVP of a famous bank)
SIGN #26 Another good one is your wife frequently hanging with her girlfriend you don’t trust pretending to have a dinner at 7 then watching a movie and catching late night drinks.
SIGN #27 Instigating or Starting an Arguments out of simple things and contradicting her own premise of her current dislikes which she used to like.
SIGN #28 if your wife works in a hospital, sudden changes for on-call schedule . Grey’s Anatomy
Sign #29 she has more new underwears than a Victoria Secret model.
And so MANY MORE issues that can be fixed as a compromise or answered with a simple yes or no but she doesn’t want to. Catch Phrase = “I Don’t Know”
This I can attest from my multiple experiences from “Both side of the Fence”. Meaning being cheated myself several times, surviving to recover for more than 3 years both financially and emotionally AND eventually cheating with women who are somebody else’s wife or girlfriend.
Yup! I’ve seen it all. Slept with them, Treat them like a Queen, Cheated with them. Lied with them. Lied by them.They all have a common denominator. Once a Cheat. Always a Cheat. History Has a Tendency to Repeat Itself if you don’t learn or repent from your mistakes.
Don’t think twice letting them go. They didn’t think twice when they cheated on you. Call it cruel you like. That’s nothing compared to their spite if you were the one who cheated. You will be slapped with restraining order denied visitation rights to your kids. And if you are married for more than 10 years, she still gets 50% of your pension and everything you own.
Yet despite. Don’t even take revenge, it’s not worth it. Listen to men who have been there before. Most of the people who helped me are actually strangers giving me the unadulterated truth about the worst that’s gonna happen if I don’t clear my head when I found out. These are Police Officers, real estate agents, good women lawyers, priests, Divorced guys, re-married guys, and faithful wives of friends.
You will find your true soul mate and true love. My mother did and never married again when my Dad died. My brother was lucky with a faithful wife. I have good friends who recovered. You will miss your calling if you keep on holding to cheaters or cheating yourself. I wasn’t that lucky but am working on it.
Watch out for those signs. Trust your instincts. Your 6th sense is a gift. Animals have it too to protect them from bad things. And if You find out it’s true.., be happy you found out soon rather late or never. You don’t want to be that guy who jumped the Tobin Bridge who’s wife cheated after more than 30 years of marriage. Always remember, it’s her loss not yours. You might hurt for a while but you will be the better person. And besides, you don’t want to walk a dog being humped by different dogs. You know something smells funky when it happens.
Joy says
U could not have typed this up any better this is the best Godly Wisdom for a cheating deceptive Eve. Eve died but that spirit is living on inside of so many dominant, controlling provocative females. Eve was wise enough to separate from her husband in the garden to go and obey satan the snake. After Adam warned her about that tree don’t eat from that one. So these women who are not repented and surrendered they are so easily drawn away from that husband and satan looks for that same garden of Eden opportunity to deceive that woman and if she is not deeply compassionately, in love with that husband satan will deceive her to eat from that tree. The tree she know she ought not be eating from. It’s called the knowledge of good and evil tree and the fruit she will bite into will not be a apple it will be ADULTERY!!!!!
Clarice says
I’d be interested to see you site your sources for all of these so-called “studies” that you based your article on? Go ahead…I’ll wait.
captain says
hi my wife is looking at me like i know nothing and even if i do something she is keeps finding some problems.. and always checking my phone even i don’t do any cheating she is checking the phone and without any reason she is coming to fight and when she is pissd she is using filthy words and not even giving me a respect always comparing other people in there family and advising (with argument words) so is that a sign that shez cheating?
mpiina says
sure she is
Captain A-hole says
It’s a sign you both should try couples therapy. Clearly there are issues on both sides to be dealt with. If you continue on this path of pointing fingers and resenting each other you might as well find a divorce lawyer now and cut your losses.
Zaphod R. Breeblebrox says
Good article.
There is a real danger point in your relationship after you have a kid. The guy is used to being the center of attention and affection, and suddenly baby shows up and completely takes his place. A lot of guys turn into simpering, pathetic attention-seeking temper-tantrum cry babies at that point, and the woman has no time for it. She needs help with the kid, and discovers she has TWO babies to deal with. Her opinion of the guy behaving selfishly drops to zero, especially when the guy acts like she is not as desirable as she was before the baby. This is a vulnerable time and there are guys out there who will gladly take advantage of it by complimenting her on her abilities and her looks. She looks great to them!
If you are feeling neglected after the baby comes, it is because you are not doing your share of taking care of it. Buck up a**hole. Do your part. She made a baby for you.
Joy says
Amen!!!!?🤗
harry maxwell says
need cheating proof?
T says
If the truth be told this is all true!
Mike Camp says
i think she is
Isabela says
Very long article but much informative. I read every para, much appriatiated.
Neck Beard Central says
To the author, have you been cheated on much? Maybe it’s you and not your partner then, judging from the condescending tone and pointed jabs, if you talk down to your partner in the same manner no wonder. You can’t predict who will cheat. You can’t predict what behaviors precipitate unfaithfulness. What you can do, instead of writing biased opinionated articles, is go to therapy and figure out your issues and how to help your relationship flourish instead of demeaning and pointing fingers. This would leave anyone desperate for a way out.
To the men reading this article and thinking its spot on, perhaps you need to re-evaluate your relationship and your views of women, their physical and emotional health, and how you approach them. It takes two to tango, engage your partner, talk to them, get therapy, do something positive and be accountable for yourself and your role in your relationship. It take effort. If you are both not willing to put that effort in, you shouldn’t form a relationship to begin with.