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Playing Games To Get Women? How’s It Working For You?

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The other day a guy left a long comment on this blog on how to get a woman playing games. He was trying to help another guy understand what he needed to do to win a woman over. It consisted of a ton of stupid little games. Don’t call until this day. When she answers the phone say this. If she doesn’t text back, then do this. Don’t tell her what you are doing. Stop with the games already!

Playing Games With Women? What's Your Next Move?

What I found funny was that this guy said, ‘Guys, don’t play girl’s games.’ (Which I agree with by the way.) And then he went on to list out a whole bunch of games of his own. In other words, don’t play girl’s games but do play games with girls?

Why not just stop playing games in general? Cut out the games you play. Then learn when someone you like is playing games with you and don’t partake in those either.

Why Trick People Into Liking You?

Why do so many men have step-by-step instructions on how to get a woman? Why do they feel like they need to trick women into liking them, and then play with their minds until they are so fucked up that they don’t actually know how they feel?

What kind of guy does this? A guy who figures that he’s not worthy or capable of getting a woman simply by being himself, so he has to come up with these tricks and techniques to follow.

And yes, I think that women who play games are losers too. They obviously are not confident in themselves enough to just be themselves and find a guy who likes them for them.

The fact is that there are plenty of men AND women playing games out there. One gender is not worse than the other.

Furthermore, not EVERY man or every woman is playing games. We can’t label ALL of one sex in this way because, realistically, that’s just not the case.

Playing Games Is Not For People Who Want A Happy Relationship

The bottom line is that games are stupid. They lead to anger, confusion, and shitty relationships – if they even get you to a relationship.

Games are not for men or women who want a real relationship.

  • They are for men and women who can’t accept someone else for who they are.
  • They are for men and women who want to create something not real – based on what they think they should be creating.
  • They are for men and women who have an extremely bitter point of view on the opposite sex (or other people in general) and don’t deem other people worthy of being straight with.
  • They are for men and women with low self-confidence who can’t just believe that they are good enough for someone just the way they are.
  • They are for men and women who have been taught ridiculous things about the opposite sex and are unable to see the truth beyond those lessons.

For me, being real is much more rewarding than playing games.

But, hey, if you want to buy into the games that guys want you to play, go for it. I guarantee that you won’t attract a good woman or a good relationship to you.

And if you want to fall for a girl who is playing games, then that’s your choice. Just know that happy and healthy relationships are not built on games.

Think about it. If your friend played games with you, how great do you think your friendship would be? It wouldn’t be great! It would be sad. You would feel more disrespected than supported or valued.

That’s how it is with any relationship. Games are about manipulating a relationship, and they will always leave one person feeling confused or bad, which doesn’t make for a great relationship.

And, if the woman you are playing games with has a brain, she won’t stand for it.  (And I hope you will do the same with any woman who is playing games with you.) That just means that you could lose a woman who will love you and make you happy.

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