I know I need all the help I can get when it comes to relationships. And knowing tips and tricks and clear cut signs my ex wants me back is only going to help me find the right guy for me.
But relationships are anything but easy and often the strongest unions come from the get together and breakup process.
Is your ex sending you mixed messages?
Do they say they are over you but you know deep down in your heart they aren’t?
If you were honest with yourself do you still really love them?
These are fair questions that may be rolling through your brain as I type. Good news is you are about to learn a few simple but effective signs your ex really does want you back; if you want them.
Let’s get started.
Signs That Your Ex Wants You Back
According to some relationship experts:
If You Are In A “Friends” Situation…
You’re Ex Is Constantly Contacting You
Without encouraging him or her, if your ex is calling, texting or sending you private messages at least 2-3 times a week this is a sure signal they are still into you.
Simply Keeps On Telling You About His Life
If they are writing or telling you about their life like you are still together that’s a loud and clear signal they are still thinking about you and want you in their life regardless.
It’s Obvious Your Ex Still Wants To Know What You Are Up To
If your ex wants to know how work is, who you are seeing and what you are up to in general, that’s a ginormous signal they still want you in their life.
Playing The Jealous Card
The experts say if your ex is stuffing the internet world with their party nights and they are pretending to be happy without you, then you need to understand they are just trying to get you mad, make you jealous.
You deserve more.
They Are Calling You Specifically To Complain About Work
Are you kidding me? Okay, so they aren’t sleeping with you anymore but when they are yapping about work, OMG?
Could this be because they need you and trust your judgement? Think about it for a minute, pretty please.
Wanting To Meet You For A Drink
This is a tough one because it doesn’t obviously mean you’re getting back together. They could be lonely or just assume you want to get back with them. In hindsight that’s playing the “desperate” card.
Only go for a drink if you “really” want to.
You’re Simply Always Bumping Into Him – Or Her…
Okay. If you just happen to be bumping into your ex in the weirdest places…It’s likely