I know a lot of men don’t believe that good women are out there, but we are! We are here, screaming at you to notice us, and hoping that we will attract some good men into our lives. What do we mean by good women? We mean women who are patient, understanding, supportive, smart, down to earth, and loyal.
Following are 9 things that good women want good men to know. I’m betting that some of these things will be a surprise to you, and many of them might help you understand how to get that good woman that you want.
1. Some Of Us Are Suspicious Of Good Guys
All those bad boys that we dated were not bad in the beginning! Some of them seemed like good guys who were going to treat us right and be there for us and love us until the end. We were actually surprised when they turned out to be complete assholes!
And some of the bad boys that we dated were guys we wanted to change. I know that it’s wrong, but that’s the way it is! We thought we could be the one woman who was so good and so amazing to them that they would drop their bad boy ways and convert into a good guy that we would spend our lives with. But, they didn’t, and we learned that the hard way.
Now, we are hesitant to get into relationships with seemingly good guys. We think that if they act good, it must be too good to be true, and eventually their cheating and dishonest side will come out and they will leave us alone at night as we wonder where they are and who they are with… and, well, that anxiety can keep us from dating a good guy.
2. We Wish You Knew Your Potential
How many good men have slipped through the cracks because they were scared of approaching a good woman? How many good men have stood on the sidelines as some jerk had the balls to approach me and get my number?
Many of us remember good guys from school and work that never even bothered to ask us out, let alone talk to us, and we wish they would have because we had secret crushes on them. Why didn’t we approach them? Because even though we could kind of see some interest from them, they made themselves so unavailable to us that we felt uncomfortable even approaching them.
It seems like a lot of good men have given up on getting a good woman. They see her, but they don’t believe in themselves enough to approach her and engage her. They let the jerk get in front, be louder, make more moves, and eventually get the date, which causes them to lose out in the end.
