If you find a woman that you really like, there are some things you can do right from the start of the relationship to make your new relationship last. But, I find that many guys end up making some big mistakes that scare women away and keep themselves perpetually single. So, if you want to make your next relationship last (or the one you are just starting), keep these three things in mind.
1. Don’t Be Jealous
We all know the feeling of being jealous. It’s that feeling in the pit of your stomach that makes you miserable and sick and just an ugly person all around. Yes UGLY!
There’s being a little jealous. Meaning, you only get jealous occasionally. For example, when you see your partner checking someone else out or having a good time with someone else you can get a twinge of jealousy. Sometimes this can help you to appreciate your partner more than you did before you became jealous. This will happen from time to time, and it is completely normal.
However, there is another kind of jealousy that will ruin your relationship very quickly. It involves thinking about certain scenarios all the time (like your partner cheating), and trying to decide whether it’s true or not. This kind of jealousy can drive you to say stupid things and do stupid things that make you look insecure. People do not appreciate a partner who does this.
Then there’s extremely jealous. This is the kind of jealousy that goes overboard and it is really not healthy. This is the blinding jealousy that you just can’t seem to overcome and it consumes you every waking thought.
An extremely jealous person can get upset over anything and everything from a peanut to a person. But honestly, if this is you, all you are doing is making yourself feel bad. You are literally making yourself sick over something that doesn’t deserve your energy.
I was watching a Steve Wilkos show the other day and a couple, who had only been in a relationship for two months, was dealing with jealousy. He was so jealous that he wouldn’t let her be alone with the Steve Wilkos staff. Obviously, she was over it and she