Are you wondering how women think about men in and out of bed? Following are some common questions with some surprising answers.
1. Do women like sex as much as men?
We have been led to believe that men enjoy sex at any time of the day with any woman, while women need commitment and connection to enjoy sex. But the truth is that a woman’s sexual desire is just as strong as a man’s.
So, why are some women more willing to wash their hair than have sex? The truth is that in some relationships, sex can become unappealing to a woman, which makes it appear as though they don’t like sex as much as their man does.
For example, when a woman is in a relationship with a man who downright sucks in bed, then it makes sense that she is not going to be thrilled about sex. Furthermore, every bad experience she has with her man, will make sex even less appealing, which means that sex will become more of a chore than a pleasure.
That doesn’t mean that she doesn’t like sex or have a strong sexual desire; it just means that she doesn’t like bad sex, and she would rather do something else with that time.
The amount of sex she has with you has nothing to do with how much she likes sex. In fact, experts say that the frequency of sexual intercourse has nothing to do with the desire for sex.
In short, women like sex as much as men. They are turned on by sexual images, thoughts, and gestures. But, if they are not being pleasured properly, they may avoid having sex to avoid a disappointing experience.
2. Do women like a man who is always confident?
Many men have been told that confidence is the key to winning over a woman. And that is absolutely true. However, many women have broken up with a man who exudes total confidence, so what is really going on?
The truth is that there is a fine line between true confidence and fake confidence, and women are able to spot the difference. For instance, men who are naturally confident do not need to boast about every achievement they have in life. Moreover, they are not confident about every single thing in their life (because that goes against human nature), but they push through their fears anywase.
A man who appears as though he has confidence in every situation, comes across as fake (because that goes against human nature). A man who is fake appears untrustworthy, and trust is needed for a woman to have a happy and healthy relationship.
In short, women know that you are not always confident in life. They are attracted to a man who has the confidence to push past their comfort zone and go for what they want, but they are not attracted to a man who pretends to be confident for the sake of looking good in other people’s eyes.
3. Do women want a manly man?
It all depends on what kind of woman they are. Let me explain.
All humans have feminine and masculine traits. A female can exhibit masculine traits and a male can exhibit feminine traits. Usually a woman will exhibit more feminine traits than masculine traits while a man will exhibit more masculine traits than feminine traits.
Some women have very strong feminine traits. For example, they are very sensual, affectionate, patient, loving, gentle, and giving. Since everything in nature is balanced between feminine and masculine traits, including relationships, a feminine woman will feel most comfortable with a man who exhibits more masculine traits than feminine traits.
Masculine traits include passion, confidence, authenticity, stability, integrity, and logic. When we think of a manly man, we think of these traits. Therefore, yes – if a woman exhibits a lot of feminine traits, she will naturally be more attracted to a manly man.
This doesn’t mean that all women want a manly man. Some women exhibit more masculine traits and will find more happiness with a man who exhibits more feminine traits. Therefore, it all depends on the female.
In short, most women in this day and age have allowed many of their natural masculine traits to come out. This means that a manly may step on the toes of a strong and independent woman, and his strong masculine characteristics may not be attractive to her. However, most women will still be better suited to a man who has more masculine traits than feminine traits.
4. Is bigger really better in bed?
Movies make it look like a having a big penis is desirable by women, but in reality most women prefer an average sized penis to a huge one.
A huge penis can hurt during sex. Painful sex can not only remove all pleasure during sex for a woman, but it can also cause her to dread your next sexual encounter with her. Moreover, oral sex can become much more difficult for women when they have to deal with a huge penis.
A huge penis does not equal more pleasure for a woman. In fact, most women do not orgasm from sex alone, which means that your oral and manual abilities in bed are much more important than your size of penis.
In short, while women notice the size of your penis, they are not wishing that you were bigger. When it comes to pleasure, they are assessing your abilities in bed more than your size of penis.
5. What kind of body do women really prefer?
Do women prefer a skinny, muscular, or flabby guy? The answer may surprise you at first, but when you know how women think about their weight (and how much they tend to obsess about it), the answer is really quite simple.
While most men think that women prefer a muscular and fit guy, the truth is that most women prefer a guy who has a little bit of extra meat on him. Why? For a few reasons.
First, women often struggle with their weight. They gain weight easier than men and that extra weight seems to show more than it does for men. A man who is in perfect shape can cause a woman to become stressed out as she tries to live up to his appearance, and even more stressed out when she can’t live up to his appearance.
Second, most women want a man who is bigger than them because it makes them feel more feminine. This applies both in and out of the bedroom. Men are, after all, usually bigger than woman. For the average woman, a skinny guy or perfectly shaped guy will always look smaller in comparison.
In short, women want to feel desirable to their man, and if they are larger than their man, they don’t feel as feminine and sexy. This is why the majority of women are more comfortable with a man with a little bit of extra fat. This is not a hard and fast rule though. There are some women who prefer a skinny, muscular, or flabby guy, regardless of their own build.
