Are you in the ‘friend zone’ and want to get out of it? I’m not going to say that everyone can turn their friend into a girlfriend, because I believe that there will be some women that will not be attracted to some men, and vice-versa. However, I do think that most people can get out of that zone and become more than friends.
My husband and I started out as just friends. But, eventually I saw that he was a guy that I should date, thanks to the appearance of some attractive traits, and once I allowed my mind to open up to that possibility of dating, we quickly got into a relationship and have been together ever since.
Get Her To Consider You As More Than A Friend
The first step is to open her mind to the possibility that you could be more than friends. If it is not even on her radar, then trying to kiss her or be romantic or anything else is going to go over very badly.
You have to plant the idea that you could be more than friends into her mind.
You can do this by enlisting the help of your other friends – mainly your mutual female friends. Have them talk about your sexy and attractive qualities will open up your friend’s eyes to a different side of you. The more she hears that you are sexy and date-material, the more she will start to consider it, especially if it is coming from other women.
Display The Top Characteristics Of An Attractive Man
Every woman wants different things when it comes to looks, specific goals, and life path. But, every woman looks for the following traits in a man.
Chances are if you are in the friend zone, you already have this, so you are probably good. But be careful, if you are too goofy, then you will end up in the friend zone. Most women don’t want a goofy guy; instead, they want a witty man who uses humor to his advantage.
If you don’t have a good sense of humor, get one. It is the best thing you can do to pick up a woman or make a woman love you. Making her laugh helps her to feel good, and when she feels good because of you, she feels good about you.
Positive Outlook On Life
If you are a pessimist, you can easily be someone’s friend. I have lots of pessimistic friends. It’s fun to complain to them and buddy up when they need someone to mope around with. It’s also fun to realize that your life is much better than theirs, and hold them in your life for that reason. But nobody wants a pessimistic person in their life 7 days a week for the rest of their life. That would be depressing!
When women look for a partner for life, they look for someone who makes them feel good, is excited about their future, and shows a future full of fun and excitement. If your outlook on life stinks, it’s time to find out what life really has to offer you and work towards changing your mind-set.
Do you sit on the couch all day playing video games? If yes, then you are a perfect friend, but a horrible lover.
A woman wants a man who is going places in his life. A man who goes out and gets what he wants in life is incredibly sexy! Any friend of yours will start to see you differently when you play a very active role in your future happiness.
Assuming you are interested in a feminine female, you are never going to move out of the friend zone until you display a masculine energy. NEVER! I talk about this more here, so make sure you read it and understand it!