If you have only been out on a few dates with a woman, and you are not officially dating, then Valentine’s Day can be awkward. You are kind of living in an in-between zone where you are not just friends but you are not lovers yet either.
Still, making a date for Valentine’s Day can be a nice way to show a woman that you care, like her, and want to get to know her more.
After all, you could go out with any woman you want on that day – or go out with your buddies to a bar and try to pick up all the single, lonely women who might be easy to get.
By choosing to be with her, she will get the hint that you are serious about getting to know her better.
But where should you go when you don’t want to be too focused on the love aspect (candlelit dinner at an expensive restaurant) or pushy? Following are a few Valentine’s Day date ideas that won’t freak her out or disappoint her.
A Movie Will Always Be A Good Idea
After the first date is over, a movie is always a good idea for a date. It gives you a chance to enjoy something new together and then talk about it.
But, this year Fifty Shades of Grey is set to release the day before Valentine’s Day.
Don’t see that movie with her unless you think that the sexual tension will NOT ruin things between the two of you. No matter how the movie turns out, cheesy or good, there will be sexual tension between you before, during, and after if you see it.
How can you tell if it will ruin things?
- If she is saving sex for marriage
- If she has barely dated anyone
- If she is extremely shy
- If she doesn’t like you in her space
…then this movie will probably influence how she feels about you in a negative way.
On the other hand, if you think sex is just around the corner with her, then this movie could help speed things along.
Ask her what she thinks of seeing this movie first, gauge her interest, and then plan the movie accordingly.
Coffee Shop Date – Perfect For Second Or Third Date On Valentine’s Day
Restaurants will be full of lovers.
Bars will be full of single people who want to forget their single or who want to celebrate they are single.
But coffee shops will full of people who are just living their life like they do every single day.
Going to a coffee shop on Valentine’s Day is a way to sit back in a relaxing environment that probably won’t be that busy, and get to know each other better.
It’s perfect for a couple who have not been dating for a while, but still want to be together on Valentine’s Day.
Should You Stay At Home This Valentine’s Day?
If you know each other and trust each other on some level, then staying in is a perfect idea for Valentine’s Day when you haven’t been dating for too long.
At home you don’t have to go out and feel awkward as you try to navigate what a date should look like on Valentine’s Day. Instead, you can relax, have dinner, watch a movie, and then…well, whatever you want.
If you are planning to stay at home, then cook a Valentine’s Day dinner for her. This will be a great way to show her that you care and want to impress her, and it is kind of a romantic thing to do.
The Point Is This: Do Something This Valentine’s Day
Whatever you choose, make sure you do something.
Even if it would be your second date, make an effort to ask her out for Valentine’s Day. You don’t have to make it about being a couple. You can just make it about getting to know her better.
The offer will show her that you want to spend a day dedicated to love with her. And even if she’s busy that night, she will still find the gesture awesome.
