Did your ex-girlfriend cheat on you? Are you thinking about getting revenge on her in one way or another?
I was on a forum today and they were discussing whether or not a website devoted to posting pictures of a cheating ex, and then bashing them to go along with that picture, would be something that members were interested in. I’m not sure why the person was asking it – maybe they are thinking about creating an ex-bashing website, but, before you head over to that website to bash your ex-girlfriend, please read this post from beginning to end. Then make your decision.
Does The Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Deserve That Kind Of Hate?
Yes, she did something horrible to you and cheated on you. That was not even close to a decent act.
But, was she a horrible person who deserves to be hated by everyone that sees her?
Did you have some good times together?
Did she make you happy – ever?
Did she help you out, support you, love you, or do anything else positive for you?
If you stop and think about the good things that happened in your relationship, and who she was at the core of it all, you may realize that she doesn’t deserve to burn on a stick for all eternity.
Cheating on you was a really bad thing, but you can move on knowing that you were not meant to be with her and let her do what she wants while you do what you want.
Done.
She Was Horrible And Deserves What She Gets!
So, maybe you thought about it and she wasn’t a nice person at all.
Maybe she used you, treated your poorly, abused you, and then to top it all off she cheated on you.
She doesn’t deserve a reward for that, that’s for sure. But do you have to be the one to pay her back?
Here’s the thing I have learned and seen over and over again in friends, family, and people who I talk to through my work: Holding onto hate makes you miserable.
She cheated on you! She made you feel like shit and she hurt you. She’s already made you feel bad in some way, shape, or form. So, why would you want to give her any more control over your emotions?
By holding onto the hate, and being angry, sad, or any other negative emotion, you are giving her even more control over your life.
Yeah, But Posting How Horrible She Is Will Make Me Feel Better And Then I’ll Move On
Think that outing a cheating ex-girlfriend to the world will make you feel better? Try it. I dare you!
It may make you feel good as you talk about what a miserable woman she was and how no guy should touch her with a 10-foot pole.
You may even get a kick out of other guys putting her down and making fun of her picture or whatever else you disclosed.
But, eventually, that feeling of satisfaction will die out. In fact, once you find someone else, the chances are good your feelings for her – good or bad – will not be anywhere near as intense and she will become ancient history for you.
You will move on with your life while she is left there to be bashed over and over again. Is that something you really want to do to another human being?
Misery Attracts Misery
Chances are that the public post will come back to haunt you in the future.
Maybe your future girlfriend will find out what you did and break up with you for fear that you will do that to her. Or, maybe her father will find the post and it will affect his life and relationship with her. (Do you want to hurt the people around her or just her?)
Maybe her or her friends will find the post and plot their revenge on YOU. Soon you will be back in her miserable world and she will be controlling how you feel again.
Then, instead of moving on with your life in a happy and positive way, you will be stuck battling it out with a woman who is really not worth your time to battle with!
She will affect your relationships, stress level, and possibly even health. The abusive circle will continue until one of you let it go.
Is the satisfaction of telling other people about your cheating ex-girlfriend really worth all that?
Let Go Of Revenge On A Cheating Ex-Girlfriend
Why not let it go now and avoid the future pain? Why not make your future as fun and stress free as possible?
Sure, you may need some time to be angry and imagine getting revenge, but don’t act on it.
It is the best thing you can do for your happiness, health, and future.
Joseph says
Revenge Your Ex
Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like “Get Revenge On Your Ex”
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.
So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.
The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It’s much
better to show you are indifferent and don’t care.
According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, “The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.
I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia.” says Agee, “The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.
I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don’t look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering.” This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.
Other sites like “Get Over Her Now” give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.
Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:
Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.
Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.
Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your
confidence.
Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don’t let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.
Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don’t sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you’ve accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you’ve been putting off.
Don’t start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don’t drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don’t drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.
Don’t sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be
depressed.
Don’t binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.
Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!
Jim says
Well let me just say this does she deserve the punishment that I want to give her f*** yes from the beginning of our relationship she cheated on me she made me believe fully that she was a faithful loving woman and the whole time she had slept with her son’s father that I helped raise I done many things for her helped her through many hard times she did nothing for me after we split up I started realizing what kind of person she was so things that she done made me start searching the internet on a dating site I found pictures of her that were four years old nude and messages sent to several men that she hooked up with she got pregnant with our son right around the time that I found these pictures and I have reason to believe that my son is not mine I’ve tried several times since we split to have her take a DNA test she will not do it not just that she cheated on me with several black men and posted it on websites and rubbed it in my face after the fact that we still had already split up I can keep going and going and going and going but enough said f*** yes she deserves it and I’m doing everything in my power to f****** destroy her life so yeah all the websites that she was on having s*x with all these black men her family are pretty racist hillbilly f*** wait till they get a load at all these pictures and videos oh yeah and by the way she is a drug addict and a prostitute now and I have proof of all this I have pictures videos websites for she posted her ads so the world’s about to know who Melissa a Hensley really his from Dayton Ohio
Ralph Kones says
I feel you bro.. My soon to be ex has been lying from the get go too…And like yours ive recently discovered that shes a junkie to boot. Im gonna have her whole world destroyed along with her drug dealing friends too. They knew who I was they knew she was with me. They didnt care. Well Im gonna make thier time with her their biggest mistake. She came into my life and interferd with it. Not a single aspect has she not f**ed. So I’m gonna be sure to return the favor. Once done I’ll walk away quietly…VICTORIOUS !!