I’m going to assume that you have the first date coming up, and you want to make a good impression with her. In fact, you probably want to win her over with your date idea and make her fall madly and deeply in love with you – or something like that. I want to take it beyond the first date, because you need to build a connection if you want to win a woman over, and that may take longer than one date. So, let’s talk about how to impress a woman on the first 5 dates.
Date 1: Keep It Casual With Coffee
The first date is about getting to know each other. Coffee is the perfect way to sit down, talk, and get to know each other better.
If you do something else that demands too much of your attention, you may miss out on the subtle clues that tell you whether or not she is a good match for you.
Coffee is also cheap. That means if your first date doesn’t go that well, you will at least feel good knowing that you didn’t spend an arm and a leg to impress a woman that is not impressed with you (or that you are not impressed with.) Don’t worry, you won’t look cheap. No woman should expect to be flown to Paris on the first date. She should expect a good time getting to know you and finding out if you are compatible.
You may want to should tell your date (before the first date) that you thought sitting down over coffee would be a nice way to get to know each other. That way she won’t dress up too much or avoid eating all day assuming she is going out for a nice supper.
Date 2: Do Something That Makes You And Her Laugh
You got the second date, so you have her interest. Now is the time to make her feel really good around you.
By making her laugh, you increase your chances of success with her drastically. The ability to make a woman laugh (or laugh with her) is one thing that all women are looking for in a man. Every woman is looking for a man who can make her feel good and brighten up her day.
Here’s the caveat: Unless you are a funny guy (and you have been told so, not just think so), consistent jokes that are meant to try to make her laugh can come across as trying too hard. That can be a turn off for women.
So, take her to a comedy show where someone else will make her laugh and you get to benefit from it. Or, take her to a funny movie that has you both laughing. Just make sur