A long time ago, I met a guy who was on drugs at a party (I was drunk) and I thought to myself “This is the perfect guy for me!” We dated, and it turns out that he wasn’t so perfect. He used me for money, stole my possessions, and lied to me at every turn. Well guess what guys – women on drugs will do the same thing to you.
I know it sounds ridiculous, but when you are in the moment and partying and having a good time, a woman that is having fun thanks to her drugs may look extremely attractive. She may come off as fun, independent, and someone who knows how to have a good time…but the truth is that her life is shitty and if you end up attracting her into your life, you are going to encounter more problems than you need.
Why You Should Avoid Dating Women On Drugs
As a drug-free woman, I know that drugs are just a means to ‘try’ to be happy…they try to fill some need or desire that isn’t being met.
Life cannot be truly lived unless you are drug free. You cannot be totally aware and present of what is going on, and you cannot work towards your future with a clear and untouched mind.
A woman on drugs will:
Have a lot of ups and downs during withdrawals. Why would you put yourself in the position of having to deal with those withdrawals? A woman who does not do drugs will have mood swings, but she won’t go through psychotic episodes when she doesn’t have her meth nearby or any money to buy cocaine.
Spend your money. If you think you are not going to give her money, think again. If she is with you then she will manipulate you into giving her money. All drug addicts are amazing manipulators and can easily get what they want by displaying the right behavior.
Deal with depression. I have never met one person on drugs who does not suffer from depression of some sort. Drugs help to cope and deal with the stressors in life, which removes a person’s natural ability to cope and deal with stressors, so when stress comes around without the drugs, it affects them hardcore! They have no coping skills besides taking drugs! And if they are not depressed yet, they will be when they realize that they are leading a shitty life addicted to drugs and have to deal with the emotions of trying to get out of that life.
Put the drugs first. If you want a woman in your life that will always be there for you, don’t get together with a drug addict. The drugs come first, not you…not even herself. The need to get another hit is all that matters to a drug addict, and you will end up feeling resentful, angry, and hurt along the way.
All of those things do not sound like a great relationship to me. A woman that will make you happy will be a happy woman naturally, without drugs. So next time you are partying and you see the ‘life of the party’, remember that at home she is probably an angry, sad, and one-tracked mind woman who will make you miserable along the way.