At the core, we all want the same things: happiness, love, and a fun life, but men and women are different in many ways and there is no denying it. The sooner we figure this out, the sooner we can relate to each other in a way that works and understand why the other person is doing something that we would never do.
How are women different from you? Let’s take a look at just a few of the most interesting ways.
Women Are Hardwired To Hate A Lack Of Response
Women are intuitive beings. The thought is that we were born that way to be able to predict what our babies need when they are not able to let us know.
I know that I am very intuitive and so are many of my friends, and I think that any taken man would agree that a woman ‘just knows’ when something is not right with someone she loves.
But, apparently that intuitive state is not a great thing for women, because when men do not respond during an argument, women get so upset that they can’t read their man’s mind that they release chemicals that are almost on the same series as a seizure! [Source: Human Brain Gender Differences]
What does this mean for you? When you are in a conflict with a woman, give her some sort of response to keep her sane. Seriously, don’t make her go through the pain of releasing all these hormones and feeling mentally AND physically horrible. If you respond in ANY way you will be benefiting her in some way, and she will feel a lot less angry with you.
Women Like It When You Notice Them And Comment At The Right Time
Have you ever saw a woman get upset because you were not saying something that she wanted to hear? If you aren’t sure let me tell you that you have.
Women want you to compliment them and make them feel good without having to tell you to do so. And when they do have to tell you, everything you say after that is meaningless because it didn’t come from you…it came from them telling you to them what they want to hear.
I know that can be confusing, but the point is that women want you to notice them and comment about what you notice without any prompting from them. That is the bottom line. It makes them feel loved, cherished, and special, and every time you do it you score huge points with them, so make sure you always remember this difference between men and women.
Also as an extra tidbit If you have to think about anything that a woman asks you, then she will wonder why. For example, if she asks you if she looks fat, and you pause for more than a second, she will automatically feel as though you want to say ‘yes’. Therefore, respond quickly for best results.
Women Have A Harder Time Having An Orgasm
In fact, 1 out of every 10 women has not had an orgasm – at all! What you need to know is that penetration is usually not enough to give a woman an orgasm and because the movies make it look like it is, many women are confused as to why they cannot just have an orgasm through sex and are unwilling to be ‘abnormal’ and look for alternative ways to have an orgasm.
If you can help a woman have an orgasm, you will earn major points in the bedroom. Therefore, take the following points to heart.
1. Encourage a woman you date to masturbate with a vibrator. They know their body better than anyone, and when they hit a spot or an angle that feels good, they may be able to ride it all the way to an orgasm. A long and simple vibrator is all the need to do the trick…and clitoris stimulation is usually enough to do the job.
2. Encourage a woman you date to help you find that spot by guiding you or telling you outright. Let her know that you want to please her, and she will be more willing to help you out.
A woman has to know what a potential orgasm feels like before she can guide you, so make sure you push the masturbation thing, or at least bring toys into the bedroom.
Women And Men Are Different
These are just a few of the differences between men and women, but they are important ones. Remember, the more you recognize the small differences between us, the easier time you will have succeeding with women and relating to them.
Just because some men act like they will never understand women doesn’t mean it is impossible. We can all understand each other with a little communication and insight, so learn all you can for ultimate success.
