If your self-image is lacking, or if you wonder what women think of when they look at you in regards to your looks, then you will want to read this.
What Men and Women Find Attractive…Are You Average?
Skip to 1:50 for what women want physically according to one survey.
The truth is that women are not as judgmental as guys are when it comes to looks and appearance. Lucky for men…but it’s true. There are many other things that women find attractive in men, and while looks may be taken into consideration, it does not define whether a woman will be attracted to a man or not.
Before I explain why, let me say that I have seen many larger and seemingly unattractive men with women that obviously find them sexy and attractive. It’s one of those things that jealous guys exclaim “How did he get her?!” – The truth is he has more confidence than some ‘good looking’ guys do, and he probably has much more to offer her then they do as well.
A healthy self-image comes with knowing that looks don’t define who you are. They only make up your outward appearance. It comes with knowing that you present yourself as a good person and someone who is intelligent and has a lot to offer any woman.
Your appearance should have no control over your life and how you treat other people, yet many people let their looks rule this part of their life which is why many ‘good looking’ guys are jerks and many ‘not so traditional looking’ guys are too nice.
There is really only one kind of guy that will win over any girl and the traits come from the inside not the outside.
What Traits Do You Need To Have To Attract Women?
Being an honest, happy, and self-confident person is what women will see when they look at you, and if your appearance doesn’t match Brad Pitts, then these traits will outweigh that fact and keep a woman around.
One thing to remember is that even though women see past looks most of the time, they do not see past poor hygiene – so make sure you take care of that.
If you are a slob who stinks the whole room up when you walk in then you will send the majority, if not all, women running the other direction.
You have to show that you try to care for yourself in the way of health and hygiene to be attractive. You just have to. It shows you are confidence in yourself.
Any guy who has a good self-image is going to take care of himself outwardly as well and try to portray the best image he can.
So to sum it all up – what women see when they look at men is the whole package.
- They look for what men have to offer them in the way of pleasing them and making them happy.
- They see what men have to offer everyone around them, including themselves.
- They look for self-confidence, or lack thereof, and they determine whether a certain man will bring them down or lift them up.
They also do see him physically and whether he is skinny, fat, tall, short, or any other physical attribute, but the whole package is what he is putting out there, and that whole package is what ultimately wins the affection of a woman or scares her away – not just his appearance.
