Is it possible to be unnoticeable one time you see a woman and sexy as hell the next time? Absolutely! Following are 5 things you can do to make yourself sexier and get noticed by a woman who didn’t notice you for the stud you are the first time.
1. Throw On A Suit Jacket
Suits are sexy. I think almost all women will agree – men look hot in them.
Some people recommend to wear a suit jack no matter where you are. Whether you have jeans on or a nice pair of pants, a suit jacket can make you look more masculine and healthy. It can make you look slimmer instantly. And it can even make you look taller.
2. Avoid The Clean-Shaven Look
Every study I have ever seen about men’s attractiveness with or without facial hair has pointed to the fact that men with facial hair are more attractive. Stubble and a light beard seem to outrank a clean-shaven and a full beard on the sexy scale. So, if work allows it, maintain a light beard.
3. Improve Your Posture
I actually thought of this tip when I heard Ryan Magin talking about it. Standing up straight helps you look taller. And, it makes you look more confident and positive.
I can instantly tell when someone is feeling down about themselves or their life, because they are slouched over. Look around and you will see it too.
You will also see unhealthy people walking around with poor posture, and you instantly get the vibe that they are not up to par when you look at them.
What do you think women think of you when they see you slouched over?
The following video is by a physiotherapist, but it shows what good posture looks like. And, you can clearly see the difference posture makes in appearance too.
4. Don’t Smile…Initially
I think a nice smile can make a woman feel more comfortable, but when you are trying to attract a woman initially, apparently smiling less will help you more.
One study found that women were least attracted to men who were smiling and happy. They preferred men who looked moody, proud, and even ashamed.
Thinking about this, from a woman’s perspective, I can see how true this would be. There is something about a serious expression that is attractive.
- Maybe it’s the fact he looks secretive (and women want to know those secrets)
- Maybe it’s because he doesn’t look desperate (which is super attractive)
- Maybe it’s because he doesn’t look interested (why wouldn’t he be interested in me? I got to have him!)
5. Wear Colors That Bring Out Your Best Self
Some guys look good in purple, and some guys look uncomfortable or ridiculous in purple. In other words, not every color suits every man.
The colors you wear need to match your skin tone and personality. Colors that match you physically, make you look your best physically.
And colors that match your personality show women who you really are – fun, serious, passionate, etc. If you really want to go the extra mile with this, you can check out dressing your truth.
Also, color can help draw people’s attention towards you. In fact, certain colors, like red, makes you more noticeable and attractive to most women. Find out why here.
Lastly, do you know how to dress for your skin tone? If not, read this article.
So, if you meet a woman and she really isn’t that into you or doesn’t notice you, try the above 5 style improvements. You could just change her mind or grab her attention!