These two zodiacs make for an exciting relationship. On one side you have the extremist Aquarius; friendly, generous and a bit crazy. Then you have the practical Virgo; smart, meticulous and analytical.
Aquarius and Virgo share next to nothing and their approaches to life are entirely different. Virgo sees Aquarius as reckless and dangerous. That is the exact type of person Virgo would not want to have a relationship with. The Virgo zodiac is scared of people who drag them into dangerous situations, and that is likely to happen with the unpredictable Aquarius.
Aquarius looks at Virgo and sees someone who is scared of life and afraid to live it. Aquarius zodiacs go by the mantra, “live and let live.” These signs take life as it comes, and they are not afraid to do anything.
Virgo also requires a high amount of attention and nurturing, but they will not get that from the emotionally detached Aquarius. These people do not let anyone control their emotions and the way they feel. Aquarius will dump you and move on in a heartbeat.
How to Win Over an Aquarius
These signs are light-hearted and easy going. They do not take life too seriously so if you want to win their heart, you need to behave in the same manner. Acting this way is almost impossible for Virgo who is highly sensitive and very serious in their approach towards life. Virgo will not be able to change Aquarius, so this sign needs to relax and open up to a new way of living.
The Aquarius sign bores quickly, and they have no desire to live a regular life. These zodiacs want to do amazing things and live a life full of unique experiences, travel and exciting activities. Aquarius wants an entirely different life than Virgo.
The Virgo sign appreciates the average life and does not want to step too far from their comfort zone. Virgo believes in being practical and not thinking outside the box. Aquarius thinks that type of attitude is boring and bland.
Aquarius zodiacs are fiercely independent emotionally and financially. By the time you meet these people, they likely have a stable financial house built, and they do not worry about money even at a young age.
Having this type of stability allows them to pursue their dreams and live life on their terms. Virgo is attracted to this type of financial security because one of Virgos biggest goals is to live a stable life free from money concerns.
Unfortunately, the independent nature of Aquarius is not the best thing for Virgo. Virgo needs someone who will support them emotionally and be their strong rock when things get tough. Aquarius will never stick around someone who drags them down too much.
If Virgo lets their emotions get the best of them and they become clingy, Aquarius will run away as fast as they can.
How to Win Over a Virgo
Virgo’s have a keen knack for details, and they like everything to be perfect. They pay attention to the way you look, walk and talk so if you are dating a Virgo be ready to get analyzed. It is essential for you to look good and put on the charm if you want to win the heart of Virgo.
These signs are known to be highly practical and down to earth. They do not get their head in the clouds, and their goals and objectives are always realistic. This difference in opinion towards life is the primary conflict between Virgo and Aquarius.
Virgo thinks their counterpart is too dreamy and lives in a fantasy world. Virgo does not believe in things that are not tangible, and Aquarius is here talking about all of these crazy goals and dreams, Virgo won’t listen.
Another area where this relationship will crumble is with responsibilities. Virgos pride themselves on being on time, reliable and trustworthy. Aquarius doesn’t usually care what happens, and they are not the most responsible for signs. Virgo absolutely cannot stand this behavior and thinks Aquarius is childish and immature.
Aquarius wants to live their life, and they do not care about responsibilities as much.
Since Virgo is so over critical, it is likely that a relationship between these two zodiacs will not last long. Early on in the dating stage, Virgo will realize that it was a mistake and pull away from the relationship.
If Aquarius wants to win the heart of Virgo the sign is going to need to gather their thoughts and emotions and try to be more responsible, grounded, and supportive of Virgo. Virgo wants a partner who is prepared to stick around and does not want to play with their feelings.
Aquarius and Virgo Compatibility: Intimacy
Sex does not come easily to these two. If they are getting intimate with each other, it is likely to be early on in the relationship because these two signs do not make it very long. Virgo craves a deep emotional connection and wants to feel truly loved and embraced. Aquarius loves the one-night stand and is completely emotionally detached from Virgo.
Virgo takes everything seriously, and this also goes for sex. Virgo does not quickly jump into things and needs a little push to get started. By this point, Aquarius has their clothes, and they are ready to get right down to business. The dynamic between these two signs does not work, and it does not make sense.
Aquarius is turned off by people who think into everything and cannot just enjoy life for what it is. Virgo is turned off by shallow minded people who think life is a joke.
Aquarius and Virgo Compatibility: Trust
Both of these signs are worthy of trust because they both believe in being honest and true to their partners. Virgo is trustworthy because of their rational behavior, and Aquarius believes in treating people with respect, so they are likely to treat each other properly even though their outlooks on life vary so much.
Even with a trust, these two are likely to drift apart as their relationship ages. They do not share enough in common, and their lifestyles are so different that they may trust and respect each other enough to break off the relationship and remain friends.
Aquarius and Virgo Compatibility: Communication
When you combine earth and air sign you get what you would think; one person who keeps two feet firmly on the ground and another whose head remains in the clouds. Their dynamic makes for some interesting conversations, but they do not always share the same perspective.
Aquarius talks of big dreams and aspirations while Virgo is talking about paying the bills, going to the post office and whether or not the kids have school tomorrow.
They are both on different wavelengths in their life, and Aquarius sees Virgo as uninspired and unenthused about life. Virgo sees Aquarius as unrealistic and a little wacky. After a while, the two can begin to resent their partner’s behavior and start to say hurtful things.
Aquarius also lacks the emotional compassion to deal with Virgo sometimes. Aquarius can be blunt and straightforward, and this will always hurt Virgo’s feelings and lead to conflict. For these two zodiacs to survive, they need to try harder to understand their partner and relate to them better.
Aquarius and Virgo Having Fun
It is evident that these two signs share different interests in activities and what they think is fun, but there are some areas where the two relate. Aquarius being an air sign means they are interested in art and Virgo shares that interest.
The two are likely to have a good time visiting museums, art galleries, theatres and seeing films. The problem comes when Virgo starts to get predictable again.
Aquarius may want to venture outside the local area to a different museum or theatre to see something different while Virgo wants to stay back and do the same old thing they have done before. Their personalities clash over and over again in this area.
Virgo gets nervous about trying new things, and this sign likes to stay right within their comfort zone. The scared attitude constantly aggravates Aquarius, and this leads to some heated arguments where Aquarius says hurtful things.
Once you offend a Virgo, it is difficult to get them back. The sign is incredibly sensitive and sometimes spiteful, Virgo will always remember when you hurt them, and the zodiac will try to get back at you.
Summary
These two signs represent everything that the opposite sign dislikes in a partner. Virgo is nervous, overly realistic, critical and obsessed while Aquarius is detached, dreamy, blunt and irresponsible. There is very little cohesiveness between these zodiacs, and unfortunately, it will almost always result in the two breaking it off early on.
The only saving grace is if both can find a rational middle ground, but that is unlikely. If Aquarius and Virgo can learn to satisfy their partner’s needs and be a little less of an extremist the two have the intellect and work ethic to make a significant impact on the world.
