High conflict with an ex-husband spills over negatively onto women’s relationships with their … [Read more...] about Fighting with an Ex-Husband Harms Mother-Child Relationships
Drafting a New Relationship Blueprint
Last weekend, I went on a road trip with The Consultant. I was nervous, as we hadn’t been sexually … [Read more...] about Drafting a New Relationship Blueprint
Failure to Land: Factors That Influence a Husband’s Failure to Finish in the Bedroom
Q: What causes a man to not be able to “finish” in the bedroom? Is this because of an emotional … [Read more...] about Failure to Land: Factors That Influence a Husband’s Failure to Finish in the Bedroom
Too Fast Too Soon?
Q: I just got dumped by my girlfriend a couple weeks ago. It was a short relationship (3 months) … [Read more...] about Too Fast Too Soon?
“Insanimus Guano,” Stalking, and How to Deal with Unstable Ex-partners
My friend Jessica just broke up with her boyfriend of 6 months. Why? Her boyfriend’s ex-wife went … [Read more...] about “Insanimus Guano,” Stalking, and How to Deal with Unstable Ex-partners
A Dating Downer: Ascension Deficit Disorder
Things have been heating up with The Consultant. Ever since deciding to give him a real chance I … [Read more...] about A Dating Downer: Ascension Deficit Disorder
Friendship Fallout: The Post-Divorce Apocalypse
Having been divorced more than once, I have noticed a sad and unfortunate by-product: Losing … [Read more...] about Friendship Fallout: The Post-Divorce Apocalypse
Why Does “It’s Not You, It’s Me” Feel Like “It Really Is Me?”
A reader recently submitted the following question: Q: Why does a break up feel like the person is … [Read more...] about Why Does “It’s Not You, It’s Me” Feel Like “It Really Is Me?”
Premature Sextaculation
Although I have had a few dates with The Consultant, I don’t want to get too serious too quickly. In … [Read more...] about Premature Sextaculation
Lying About Physical Attractiveness
I attended an interesting talk yesterday by Dr. Edward Lemay and his colleagues about how people use … [Read more...] about Lying About Physical Attractiveness
Can What He Does Tell Me About Who He Is?
A reader recently sent in a comment about the men she was meeting online. She noted that, compared … [Read more...] about Can What He Does Tell Me About Who He Is?
I Kissed a Boy…and my Boyfriend Didn’t Like It!
My boyfriend and I of a very long time broke up two days ago, and I'm at a total loss of where to go … [Read more...] about I Kissed a Boy…and my Boyfriend Didn’t Like It!
The Consultant Returns: Are We Birds of a Feather?
The Consultant was back in town this week and invited me for dinner and a show. The last time I saw … [Read more...] about The Consultant Returns: Are We Birds of a Feather?
The More the Merrier?
Although I had a fantastic date with The Consultant a few weeks ago, he travels a lot for work and I … [Read more...] about The More the Merrier?
Check Your Baggage at the Gate
I’ve got some baggage. I don’t know anyone at my age and “experience” who doesn’t. Multiple … [Read more...] about Check Your Baggage at the Gate
You are the Perfect Drug
I recently read your article Oxytocin: The Hormone that Binds. This bonding molecule and its … [Read more...] about You are the Perfect Drug
Judging a Book by its Smell
After having three dates with a gentleman recently, I decided to stop seeing him. At the risk of … [Read more...] about Judging a Book by its Smell
Get in the Flow of Your Relationship
Ever get so involved or absorbed in doing something that you completely lose track of time? Perhaps … [Read more...] about Get in the Flow of Your Relationship
Talk is Cheap, and He Was Too
A guy recently asked me to split the dinner check with him. It was our first date. I immediately … [Read more...] about Talk is Cheap, and He Was Too
Can We Overcome the Damage I Caused to Our Relationship?
A reader recently posed a question to us, which has been rephrased and shortened to protect the … [Read more...] about Can We Overcome the Damage I Caused to Our Relationship?