Here’s the thing: If you are saying, “I can’t get a girl to like me!” then girls (or one particular girl) is not attracted to you. You are not physically or mentally attracting them to you, and that is costing you the girl.
If you keep doing the same thing over and over, then you are going to keep getting the same results. You can’t expect a girl to magically like you for no reason, or without some change within you.
Now, you may not want to change, and that’s okay! Look for another girl who likes you the way you are. I’m a big advocate for being yourself, and I truly believe that there is someone for everyone. (I know it’s cheesy, but it’s true!)
But if you want to get the girl who doesn’t seem to like you, or girls who don’t notice you right now, then changes in your attitude or presentation have to be made.
Changing Your Attitude: Becoming Confident And Manly
Are you shy? Many girls are not attracted to the shy guys who are afraid to speak up and go after what they want. If that sounds like you, then it’s time to gain some confidence and let go of fear.
When you are meek, you are weak. No woman wants to date a weak man who she has to take care of, stand up for, or constantly support.
And if she does, she will end up being dominant in the relationship, which could eventually cause you to break up anywase. Women can only deal with a submissive and quiet guy for so long.
I hate to be stereotypical, but most women need a man with masculine traits in their life.
Not all, but most.
Stepping out of your comfort zone will help you appear stronger and more challenging to women. It will help you get a girlfriend, but it will also help you get a happier and more fulfilling life.
Check out the following video that talks about changing in relation to getting girls. Even though he uses different words than I would use, he makes it clear that you have to change in order to really get a woman’s attention and get a girlfriend who likes you!
Changing Your Presentation: How You Dress, Act, and React Matters
If you have confidence, then it is the way present yourself that is keeping you from getting a girl to like you. Presentation breaks down into different categories.
The clothes really do make the man. If you are dressed like a slob, it can be hard for a woman to get physically and mentally attracted to you. Slobs are someone that girls want to jump into bed with, and if there is no sexual chemistry there, then there is no attraction and no girlfriend – period.
Are you a jerk? There is such a thing as too much confidence. If you are egotistical, and only think about yourself and your needs when you approach women, then it will be very hard for you to get the girl. Only women with low self-esteem will accept a jerk into their life. And trust me, you don’t want a girl with low self-esteem.
Women will test you to see if you are the man for them. Your reactions to women signify a lot to them. For instance, if a girl rejects you in a nice way, she may be waiting to see if you are going to try again…which will show her just how interested you are in her. If you throw your hands up in the air and walk away, then your reaction will have told her everything she wants to know about you – and her attraction towards you will dwindle.
Learn From Guys Who Already Know
There are some guys that are clueless about getting women, and there are some that result to cheap and hurtful games. Those guys suck, and if you can’t get a girl now, then listening to them will really hurt your chances!
That’s why I started this blog; I wanted to give an honest opinion from a woman’s point of view to help men understand and succeed with women. And, that’s why I don’t recommend any of those guys.
But, the guy in the video above, Jason Capital, is a guy you should listen to. He can teach you how to be more confident, show off an attitude that women love, and react in a way that gets a woman’s attention – even if she wasn’t interested in you before. With his help, you will not be saying, “I can’t get a girl!” Instead, you will be saying, “I can’t a girl to leave me alone!”