Are you dating a Capricorn? If you are, it’s not surprising that you find yourself researching the personality traits of one of the most stubborn and yet deeply emotional beings on the planet. Capricorn men can be confusing creatures to love, work with, or befriend, but they’re also extremely loyal once they’ve identified you as a member of their tribe.
Capricorns are strong but secretive and guard their emotions carefully. If you’re lucky enough to win his heart, you’ll witness a true transformation as he opens up to you in ways you had never imagined.
Capricorns are Unique
The Capricorn sign applies to men born between December 22nd and January 19th. Capricorn is referred to as the “10th House of the Zodiac” which is where social status resides. This allows a Capricorn male to make decisions regarding career advancement that other men would not have such an easy time making. Capricorns are one of the few signs that exhibit this level of determination and tenacity.
The goat is associated with the Capricorn sign. As we all know, goats are stubborn and determined animals as well. They don’t tend to give up easily, and neither does a Capricorn man on a mission. Goats don’t usually exhibit what we would call anger towards other animals or humans.
Much like their goat counterpart, a Capricorn man is not typically moody or quick to annoy, but he can be somewhat pessimistic at times.
Capricorns are unique in that less than 2.5% of the male population are born under the sign. This makes it somewhat difficult to find a Capricorn man. However, if you’ve already found one and are wondering what to do with him, don’t dismay. The information below will guide you as you travel down this new road.
What Personality Traits Do Capricorn Men Exhibit?
Capricorn men can be complicated, but not altogether impossible to decipher. Below is a short list of some of the more unique personality traits typically associated with Capricorns. Noting these and considering how each trait may affect certain situations is the first step in piecing together the Capricorn puzzle.
Positive traits:
- Loyal to a fault
- Charming
- Friendly
- Patient
- Compassionate
- Independent
- Hard working
Negative traits:
- Can appear shy
- Distrusting
- Arrogant
- Stubborn
- Doesn’t like group situations
- Anxious at times
- May be accused of being cold
Because the Capricorn man is part of the 10th House of the Zodiac, he is blessed with the necessary drive and perseverance to achieve his goals. Attaining a higher social status is often one of those goals, even though he may appear shy and doesn’t like mingling with the crowd.
It may seem contradictory at first. However, closer examination reveals Capricorn males are more likely to be found socializing with co-workers and mentors at work-related functions than friends at a bar. This should make more sense when you consider how hard working and career-driven Capricorns are.
Think about where you met the man you’re dating. Was it at a bar or somewhere less social? Is he someone from your office or an employee from another company with which you do business often? Most Capricorns aren’t superficial and therefore are not looking for a party girl.
You’re more likely to get his attention if you exhibit intelligence, integrity, and restraint. Those characteristics are not often witnessed on the bar scene.
Is the Capricorn Man Capable of Falling in Love?
Given the traits outlined above, it wouldn’t be surprising if you’ve developed more questions than you had before you started reading this article. If you’re falling head over heels for this man (which is typical with Capricorn men), and he doesn’t seem to be responding in kind, you’re probably wondering:
“What am I doing wrong?”
“How do I get him to open up?”
“How do I capture his heart like he’s captured mine?”
Capricorn is an earth sign, producing very grounded individuals. They think logically, but also profoundly. Capricorn men are sometimes accused of being slow to love, but most would consider themselves more methodical rather than slow.
They take their time getting to know you and peeling away your layers to get to your core. Once there be warned, you will feel exposed, but know that the Capricorn male is loyal and compassionate. He understands your desire to protect yourself; he does the same with his own heart.
As your mate becomes familiar with your feelings and emotions, he will expose his inner core to you as well. In short, the answer to your question of how to get him to open up and allow you to capture his heart is to open up first. This tells him you are willing to trust him, and he will eventually return the favor.
Have patience, and you’ll persevere. Loving a Capricorn is a very rewarding experience most people don’t have the opportunity to explore given the rareness of this sign.
Are You Compatible with a Capricorn?
Another common concern when considering a relationship with a sometimes stubborn and often misunderstood Capricorn is compatibility. Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, and Pisces are considered compatible mates for Capricorn men. However, if your sign didn’t make that list, don’t worry. It just means you’ll need to work a bit harder to win his love.
A Taurus mate is usually a good match for a Capricorn. Taurus is known for seeking security in relationships, and Capricorn is good at providing it, resulting in a stable, dependable relationship. Both are earth signs, so they are well-grounded. This can sometimes result in a bit of boredom, but that’s nothing a little extra work won’t solve.
Both Virgo and Capricorn are considered goal-oriented and practical Zodiac signs. This means both parties will understand each other well and therefore require little effort to make the everyday parts of the relationship work.
However, one sticking point may be romance. Although Capricorn men can be surprisingly uninhibited in bed, neither sign is known for spicing things up without some coaching.
Scorpio, like Capricorn, is slow to trust and commit to a relationship. However, once both parties do choose to commit, they will benefit greatly from each other’s companionship.
Scorpios are known for their passion, which provides the kind of emotional security Capricorns need. In turn, the Capricorn male will be utterly devoted to his Scorpio partner, providing a feeling of love and safety.
A partnership between two Capricorns would be expected to last. With similar mindsets, both partners would likely develop a deep understanding of one another. They would be known for their drive and determination, and together they could accomplish a great deal in their relationship and life in general. Because of their devotion to work and other responsibilities, they may have to be prodded periodically to take time out for fun.
Although Pisces and Capricorn are very different people, they can complement each other well under the right circumstances. The Capricorn male would help ground his Pisces partner, who would, in turn, help him express his feelings. Of the other opposite signs, the most likely combination to work in this situation would be the Pisces/Capricorn match.
The Capricorn Male is a Workhorse
As noted above, Capricorn men are goal-driven and tend to get what they want when it comes to their career choices. Unfortunately, there can be drawbacks to that personality trait. One such drawback is feeling unfulfilled even after months or even years of hard work.
The euphoria associated with achieving that goal of making partner only lasts for so long before it wears off, leaving the Capricorn male wondering if it was all worth it.
This habit can be displayed in his relationships as well. A Capricorn may put in the time and effort to develop a relationship only to discover he is ultimately unhappy with the outcome. This revelation can be devastating for both people involved, especially if the relationship was long-lived. Capricorns are devoted, so he’ll usually stick it out. Only through hard work though will both partners be able to turn the tide and put the pieces back together again.
On the other hand, many Capricorn men suffer from extreme caution and may take much longer to achieve work-related (or relationship) goals because of this affliction. It’s not uncommon to see companies employ Capricorns in the top and upper-middle management ranges.
Those upper-middle managers are the ones who could not get past their need to be cautious with every aspect of their professional lives and instead settled for the middle ground.
An upper-middle man may do the same thing in his relationships, settling for a partner that is not his top match. However, it is rare for a Capricorn to end a relationship in which he has invested considerable time and resources. Instead, he will be content with that 80-90% match. Some think this sounds cold and aloof, but it is simply the way of the Capricorn male.
Capricorn Men Make Steadfast Parents
If you’re considering starting a family with a Capricorn, pay attention to the characteristics outlined above because they apply to his parental side as well. A Capricorn dad will know everything he needs to know about physically caring for his child, but that thoroughness may result in a stricter upbringing than you had planned.
Capricorns tend to follow the rules in their everyday lives and may, therefore, choose to adhere to tradition when it comes to raising children. This can be taxing on you and your children unless it is matched with an adequate emotional bond as well.
If your children are sensitive and desire emotional attention, they might have a difficult time connecting with their father. He may be the reliable parent who is always there but slightly disconnected.
If your mate can bond on a deeper level with your children as he likely has with you, he may instead become the voice of reason for your children when they are faced with adversity. However, for the Capricorn father to truly shine as an example of patience and calm for your family, he needs to be happy with his own life first.
Capricorns Will Persevere
Capricorn’s greatest strengths are his determination, compassion, patience, and perseverance. However, he can also be slow to trust, arrogant and stubborn. Most would agree that a Capricorn can best be described as persevering. He is always thinking ahead and planning his next move, whether it be in life or love.
He sets his sights high and doesn’t stop until he achieves his goals. He takes the time to befriend his mate first before moving into a romantic relationship, thus providing a more solid foundation to build upon. If your mate is a Capricorn, rest assured he will persevere as your rock and weather all the storms ahead in your lives with dignity and patience.
