Dating a Capricorn woman is a different experience. These women are some of the most hardworking and serious of all of the zodiac signs. If you want to have a successful relationship with a Capricorn, it is really important to understand them.
Women Born with the Capricorn Star Sign
Women born between December 22nd and January 19th have the Capricorn star sign. The goat represents this sign, and it is an earth sign. Earth signs are generally very grounded and the Capricorn is no different.
They do not have time for flights of fancy. Everything they do is well thought out and reasonable. That does not mean they can’t be highly successful in life. They just prefer to get there through hard work rather than schemes or shortcuts.
Traits of Capricorn Women
The traits of Capricorns are very specific. They are some of the most serious of all of the zodiac signs. So, dating women born under this sign is much different than dating other women.
Purposeful
Everything that a Capricorn woman does is thought through. She does everything she does for a reason. There are very few times when she will let loose and she rarely does anything without a plan. If she does not have a plan, she feels irresponsible.
Motivated
Your Capricorn lover does not lack motivation. She is one of the more strict signs when it comes to staying on task and pushing herself. No matter what is necessary for her to reach a goal she will accomplish it.
Loving
When a Capricorn woman finally lets you get close, she is very loving. She will tell you how she feels about you in beautiful ways. You can also expect her to do kind things for you. She likes to take care of those around her especially her family and the few close friends she has.
Creative
Creativity is a hidden quality of most Capricorns. They are so serious that many people do not realize they have a creative side. However, they do. If you are in a relationship with a Capricorn woman, she will show you this, and it is a side of her that few people get to see. Her creativity is mostly in these areas:
- Writing
- Drawing
- Computer programming
- Digital design
- Cooking
Even when she is being creative there is a serious side to what she does. You probably will not find her painting abstract art or anything that does not have guidelines. When she cooks, she likes to follow a recipe.
However, she is very good at crafting her words. You can expect her to write beautiful poetry or even songs for you.
Arrogant
Capricorns are arrogant at times. In their eyes, the way they do things is the best. They are not as fashionable or glamorous as some other signs in the zodiac. However, she feels her way is the best. She does not follow other people and rarely lets anyone tell her what to do when it comes to fashion.
If you do not like her, she has no problem telling you to fit the road. In ways, she does not need a relationship, and she is certainly not going to change just to make a partner happy.
Serious
Your Capricorn lover is a serious woman. She does not have time for much in terms of extracurricular activities. She needs to get her work done, take care of her personal life, work out, and tackle her to-do list before she has fun.
Sensitive
Your Capricorn partner is just as sensitive as she is serious. She will easily get her feelings hurt. Even if you do not mean to offend her, there is a good possibility that at some point you will. That is just because she takes a lot of things personally.
Unforgiving
It can take a lot to push a Capricorn to the point where you need their forgiveness. However, when you get to that point, do not expect them to give it. They hold string grudges, and they will not quickly let you forget what you did wrong. It is not because they tell you about it all the time, but they will destroy anyone who crosses them.
Frugal
Capricorns are extremely frugal when they need to be. You will never catch your Capricorn lover overspending and putting themselves in a difficult financial situation. That does not mean that they will not splurge on things at times. However, they will not go into debt to buy something.
Classy
A Capricorn woman is classy. She does not need to fit in with everyone else. So, she doesn’t feel the pressure of society to act a certain way. Instead, she does all things with class. From the way she dresses to the way she treats people, she handles herself with grace.
What Capricorn Women Are Like in a Relationship
It might be difficult to capture the heart of a Capricorn woman. Even if she likes someone, she takes things very slow. The reason is she is always thinking of the long term and rarely rushes into anything.
When it comes to love, if she commits, she probably wants to be with you for a long time. She seldom falls in love with a stranger or someone she recently met. It takes her a while to develop feelings for people. She wants to know that if she enters into a relationship that there is a future in it.
Dating a Capricorn
When you are in a relationship with a Capricorn woman, you need to know that they are very strict with themselves and others. They would rather get their work done and do what they have to do to have security in life rather than partying. If you like to go out frequently, a Capricorn might not be the best match for you, unless you do some serious compromising.
She is also a homebody, so she will want you to stay home with her and watch movies. Capricorns also enjoy spending time by themselves too, though. So, if you enjoy being in social settings, she might take the opportunity to do some reading or organize her library.
Dating a Capricorn woman is great as long as you two are on good terms. If you are good to her, she will treat you well. However, you need to watch out if you hurt her. She is not the type to stay in a relationship with someone who does not treat her well. Furthermore, she will make it her mission to get even.
Things You Should Do When Dating a Capricorn Woman
When you are dating a Capricorn woman, there are some things you should do to keep her happy. If you oblige her, she will make a great life partner.
Be Respectful to Her
You should always treat your Capricorn lady with respect. She takes insults and name-calling seriously even if you do not mean it. A simple joke can hurt her feelings, especially if it is at the beginning of your relationship and she has not had an opportunity to learn you yet.
Do Not Lead Her On
In a relationship with a Capricorn, never lead them on. If you want to date her, be willing to be in it for the long haul. Before she commits to a relationship she is already interested in having a long term future with you. Otherwise, she would not be in the relationship.
Capricorns have a difficult time in love sometimes. They often fall in love with people who are close to them. Long-term friends or colleagues are more common love interests for a Capricorn to fall for than someone they just meet.
That is partly because it takes them a long time to open up. They also do not fall in love easily. It is only after they get to know someone that they develop feelings. However, once they are at that point, they are completely head over heels even if the other person does not feel the same way.
If you lead her on, she will be convinced that you two are meant to be together. Then, you better watch out because she will do whatever she has to, to win you over.
Give Her Thoughtful Gifts
Capricorns like nice things, but they also appreciate homemade gifts. If you want to show her how special she is to you, give her something thoughtful. Here are a few ideas of gifts that will help you sweep her off her feet:
- A love letter telling her how much you love her
- A homemade card
- A photo of you
- A photo album of things you have done together
- A plant
- A cookbook
Anything that she can keep for a long time is a good gift for your Capricorn lover. If you give her flowers or something impractical, she might get annoyed.
Support Her Goals
Goals are crucial to the happiness of your Capricorn partner. She needs to accomplish things to feel good about herself. So, it is important to be supportive of her and never stand in her way. If you attempt to distract her, she will either become stressed or she will cut you out of her life so she can focus without distractions.
Building a happy life with her will greatly depend on your ability to be a supportive partner. If you encourage her she will go places in life and she will be more than happy to bring you along.
Have Dates at Home with Her
If you want to spend time with your Capricorn lover, it is vital to plan at-home dates. She is most comfortable in her home or an intimate setting, so if you want her to open up to you, the best way to do that is by planning dates where you two can talk and spend time together without interruptions.
Talk to Her Often
Your Capricorn woman is a great listener. Once you get to know her, she will spend hours talking to you. She gets carried away on the phone and she enjoys hearing your stories and sharing stories with you.
Help Her Loosen Up
You have to help your Capricorn lover be less uptight. She needs a significant other in her life that helps her forget about her long list of things she needs to do from time to time. If you can get her to loosen up occasionally, you will learn a whole new side of her that very few people ever get to see.
She does not open up to many people. However, when she does there is a lot more to her than meets the eye. When you first start dating her, she might seem distant or cold. However, after you allow her to warm up to you, she will become much kinder, loving, and share her inner thoughts and feelings on life with you.
Work Around Her Schedule
Your Capricorn woman has a very busy schedule. She is always doing something important, whether it is working, cleaning her house, doing things for her family, or helping a friend. She fills her days with crucial tasks. So, if you want to spend time with her, you have to work around her schedule.
If you do not make time to see her when she is available, you will never see her. She is not the type of woman to let her responsibilities go to have a good time. If that means she does not have time for a relationship, she is okay with that.
Tell Her How You Feel About Her
It is very important to let your Capricorn lover know how you feel about her. She does not need to receive constant reassurance. However, she does appreciate it when you tell her that she is special to you and that you care about her. She likes it, even more, when you put these words on paper.
It can be difficult for her to express the way she feels at times. So, telling her by writing it out helps her to get the message without feeling like she is on the spot to respond right away.
Final Thoughts on Dating a Capricorn Woman
Dating a Capricorn woman is very rewarding if you both respect each other. She is a great life partner. She will put you before anything else, as long as you treat her well.