A Virgo is all about perfection. It’s a sign that will aim for excellence in everything they do. A Virgo will always have impeccable appearances, body, careers, and relationships. They are engaging, put together. While this makes a Virgo one of the most desirable signs of the zodiac, they’re also one of the more complicated signs to deal with in love.
Virgo has a deep sense of duty and a desire to think everything through, with an innate need for perfection. While this means that they’ll make a great partner, their demand can often spill over into their partners, making them critical. While their perfectionism can make life with a Virgo great, it can also make things complicated.
Traits of a Virgo Woman
Since Virgo’s desire excellence, this sign is always put together, charming and engaging. The symbol of the Virgo is the Virgin for a reason. A Virgo woman will have to do everything correctly and abide by the rules. She will care more about logic and her head than emotions and her heart. While she will be hardworking and up for a challenge, she may not be excited about falling in love.
Virgo is an earth sign, so if focused on career and practical matters. Having her life set up just right will be the main focus of this woman. Once they decide they’re in love with someone, they desire stability and loyalty from their partner and care more about quality versus quantity.
Since their head rules a Virgo, it may be hard to tell when she’s in love. She can be ambiguous and distant, while at the same time being caring and thoughtful. She will desire a partner who is just as exciting and put together as she is. She may be anxious and aloof when she’s falling in love because she’s afraid of matters of the heart.
Virgos are conservative, making their love subtle. Their mind and emotions run beneath the surface, and they care more about actions than words. While you can expect your Virgo to be committed and love you solidly, don’t expect grand gestures or much verbal adoration. Her perfectionism will extend to making sure that you are satisfied and well cared for lover.
7 Ways You Know Your Virgo Loves You
- She’ll Take it Slow
- She’ll Notice Everything About You
- She’ll Want to Know the Real You
- She’ll make Time for You
- She’ll Be Vulnerable
- She’ll Worry About You
- She’ll Need Some Space
She’ll Take it Slow
Virgos are a sign that leads with the head, and they will need to use those brains when it comes to love. Expect her to take her time making up her mind, applying dedication and thoughtfulness to the practicalities of love. She will need to slowly gather all the information to decide if a relationship with you can be sustainable and long term.
It is not a sign that moves fast or makes decisions quickly. Even once a Virgo is attracted to someone, she’ll be cautious and slightly stand-offish. She will, however, pay deep attention to your conversations and time together, thinking deeply about all aspects of how the two of you interact. She needs to take the time to be sure about you before she’ll open her heart.
She’ll Notice Everything About You
When a Virgo woman is attracted to you, she’ll care about all of the specifics. Virgo has a keen eye for detail, and their brains naturally pick out all of the small things. She loves having an orderly life, so her mind naturally wants to have a bunch of little things to chew on.
If she’s attracted to you, don’t be surprised if this woman notices things about you that others don’t. She’ll see everything, from how you take your coffee order to any weird little habit you might have. She may even notice things about you that you haven’t also noticed about yourself. By seeing the details, this woman can make an excellent partner because she knows just how to care for you.
She’ll Want to Know the Real You
Mercury rules Virgo, so attraction for her will begin with the mind, not the physical. She values intellect and truth and doesn’t want to take the time for surface-level conversations. If she’s attracted to you, she’ll be making plenty of time to talk to you one-on-one.
When a Virgo loves you, she will desire long conversations, will laugh at your jokes, and care about your passions and desires. She has a sharp wit and is so observant of others, which makes her a pleasure to talk to. There will be no small talk with the sign, and if she’s attracted to you, she’ll be telling you about humorous stories and wanting to know your deepest thoughts.
She’ll Make Time for You
A Virgo woman desires excellence, so she’ll have a busy and full life. She is usually indispensable at her job, will often volunteer and be a part of social organizations. She will have friendships and an active social calendar. Her schedule will be packed, organized, and sometimes inflexible.
However, when a Virgo is attracted to you, she’ll have no problem carving out time for you in her busy life. Although it may be hard for her to be spontaneous, she will show that she likes you by setting aside time for you. It may be only 30 minutes for lunch in between engagements, but you can tell she likes you if she’ll squeeze you in, turn off her phone, and only pay attention to you during that time.
She’ll Be Vulnerable
Since Virgos desires perfection, they have a hard time letting people in or showing them some of the less-than-perfect parts of themselves. They are usually professional and no-nonsense with others, never being very soft. They tend to be guarded and rarely open up.
However, when a Virgo woman is attracted to someone, she’ll start to become softer, smiling, and being more forthcoming about things she thinks and feels. She’ll become more relaxed, feminine, and casual. What a Virgo desires are a deep and meaningful connection with someone, so if she likes you, she’ll start telling you what’s in her heart.
She’ll Worry About You
Since a Virgo’s primary focus is to lead a perfect life, she’ll start to extend those desires to you once she likes you. She’ll begin to care about whether you are getting enough sleep, eating right, or working too hard. She’ll feel nervous if she sees you not taking care of yourself or doing something that could harm you.
When a Virgo is in love, she’ll make her partner feel loved and cared for. She’ll use her detail-oriented brain to adore and spoil her partner, knowing what they need at any given moment. She’ll demonstrate her affection by fussing over her love, often nagging and letting you know things she’s worried about for you. She may not say that she loves you very often, but you can tell she does by her attention.
She’ll Need Some Space
Since a Virgo is all about the head, not the heart, they may be surprised when they start having romantic feelings for someone. Since she’s so used to having things well ordered, her feelings will mess with her sense of control. She may start feeling overwhelmed by her emotions and will need to run away for a little while.
When she starts having feelings, she’ll also be turning her perfectionism on herself, becoming inwardly critical of everything about herself. She might become self-conscious and withdraw, causing you to wonder if you’ve done something wrong. So if she wants distance for no reason, or says that she needs time to think, don’t take it too personally.
5 Things To Do When You Date a Virgo Woman
- Be Traditional
- Don’t Criticize
- Communicate
- Be Ready to Commit
- Support Her
Be Traditional
Virgos need to take their time and go slow, so make sure you approach her in a calm and temperate way. Be romantic instead of sexy; call her things like “beautiful,” instead of “hot.” Be kind and gentle in your communication, and don’t be overly chauvinistic or forceful. She will want to be submissive in her relationship but will need to take time to build that trust.
Make sure that you’re having lots of conversations with her, focusing on intellect rather than sexuality. Take to her about things she’s interested in, and if you want to connect with her, read up on those topics. She’ll want to know that you can keep up with her mind, and add value to her intellect. Focus on communication first, and a deep relationship will follow.
Don’t Criticize
Virgos are a highly critical sign, and this extends to everything in their lives. As a partner of a Virgo, you may experience daily criticism as they desire excellence from you. Ironically, even though they may be blunt and sometimes hurtful in judging you, they are susceptible when it comes to taking critiques from others.
A Virgo will be more critical of herself than anyone else will ever be of her. Her perfectionism may make her feel insecure about herself and cause her to be sensitive to you, telling her things you don’t like about her. Even if her judgment of you has hurt your feelings, try not to take it personally, and try not to do it in return. Let her know that you love her and encourage her whenever possible.
Communicate
It can’t be stressed enough; a Virgo needs communication above all else. The best way to make her feel loved to have direct and open contact. She hates to guess or feel out of control, so if you’re having an issue, just tell her. Once she knows the problem, she loves to tackle it head-on and problem-solve. If you own your side of any problem, she’ll happily work through it with you.
Make sure you’re spending lots of time with her talking about things that she finds necessary. By caring about her passions, dreams, and ideas, she’ll feel more connected to you and better able to open up. The more you talk to her about things that inspire her, the better your relationship will be.
Be Ready to Commit
Once a Virgo decides they’re in love, they want to commit for life. They desire to feel secure and stable and have a home life that is meaningful and nourishing. It may take her a long time to get to the point where she knows she loves you, but once she does, she’ll never stray.
If you aren’t able to commit to a long term relationship, this sign may not be for you. The only way this sign can feel available to their partner is if they know that they’re safe in loving fully. It may not be a relationship full of passion, but if you commit a Virgo will care for you for life.
Support Her
Virgos are meticulous, and their homes will embody their desire to have everything in its place. Nothing will feel cluttered or messy, and their eye for detail will extend to design and art. She will have a natural tendency to do everything. She will cook, clean, take care of you, and fix everything. However, in her perfectionism, she will bite off more than she can chew and can become overwhelmed.
Supporting your partner in helping make the home a beautiful space will help her be able to relax and enjoy her life. She shouldn’t have to do everything herself, and she may become more critical and distant if she has to do it all. Her taking care of your home is a way she expresses love, so show love in return by helping support her.
Enjoy Your Virgo
While a relationship with a Virgo may not be very spontaneous or passionate, but her desire for a life of excellence will help create a beautiful experience for both of you. If you understand what your Virgo needs, this type of woman is capable of creating a stable and wonderful relationship for both of you.