Before you can attract a Pisces woman, you have to learn what she likes. Like other women, Pisces women have specific needs and wants. Anyone looking to woo one has to understand the qualities that make up a Pisces.
The Pisces woman was born between February 20 and March 20. She belongs to the water sign, which means she values emotions. She also values creativity and imagination. Because of her love of fantasy, she often gets lost in her daydreams.
Along with being dreamy and emotional, they are sensitive. Therefore, Pisces women appreciate confidence in other people. Let’s take a look at tips on how to attract a Pisces woman.
What Pisces Women Are Like
Of the 12 zodiac signs, Pisces women are the most romantic. They are also known to be the most giving, as many lose themselves as they care for others. Once she starts to take care of you, you might find yourself quickly falling in love with her.
Because Pisces women are so emotional, they often fall for the wrong person. And, she does not realize it. Her love stories become tragic as she usually ends up getting hurt.
If she quickly falls in love with you, then you might not be the right person. Treat her well, and she will reciprocate. But, know that her loving nature can be hypnotic, and she might be wrong for you, too.
Pisces are connected to Neptune, which makes them quick to escape from reality. To do this, Pisces might have issues with drugs and alcohol. If you take her out to bars, you might have to watch what she drinks, and she can quickly consume more than she should. You might also get caught up in unhealthy behaviors as you work to please her.
As a flowing daughter of the sea, she struggles with following a schedule. She will not care if she is late or if you are late, as time is rather meaningless to her. But, if being on time is important to you, then you might not be the right person for her. The Pisces woman will test your way of life.
How to Show Confidence
If you are attempting to woo a Pisces woman, you must show confidence. With their dreamy and emotional personality traits, they need a confident partner for balance. Pisces women have challenges making decisions, so she will rely on you to confidently choose date-night locations.
When you show your confidence, be sure that you do it with kindness. As an emotional woman, she can tell when you are insulting her – even if the insults are subtle. Your confidence should give her strength, so use your words to encourage her creativity and other qualities. You won’t change her, but she will appreciate you.
You can show confidence by taking the opportunity to talk to her. She will not approach you first. So if you want to get to know her, you have to contact her. She might be daydreaming or caught up in her thoughts, so she might seem distracted or preoccupied. Don’t let her facial expression deter you from approaching her and starting up a conversation.
The best way to get her out of her thoughts is to make her laugh. Telling jokes that do not offend anyone shows her that you are confident. She will appreciate your effort and creativity as you make her laugh.
How to Be Creative Around Her
Pisces women appreciate creativity and imagination. If you do not have those traits, she will notice. So, if you want to have a relationship with her, you will need to grow your creative ability.
Give Her Creative Gifts
You can show your creativity by giving her thoughtful gifts, uniquely artistic, one-of-a-kind treasures. You might not have a creative bone in your body, but you should recognize it when you see it.
The perfect gifts are whimsical, original, and inspired. Visit a local craft show or boutique and buy items that look handmade. Pisces women love glass, mosaics, wind chimes, and other flowing, colorful objects.
If you know that she loves to make art, you can buy her gifts she can use. Visit your local craft store and buy her a set of high-quality markers or watercolor paints. Or buy a journal with a beautiful cover so that she can record her experiences for posterity. She will appreciate that you recognize and respect her love of sensitive, artistic objects.
Listen to Her Dreams
Pisces women have active internal lives, and they like to talk about their dreams and imaginative ideas. She also wants to talk to people about their inner lives. Share your dreams and listen to hers.
After you listen to her dreams, take some time to find poetry or inspired quotes that show you heard her. She will forever appreciate that you took the time to listen and think about her.
Plan Creative Dates
If you are not into shopping for artistic gifts or digging around for inspired poetry, you can be creative in the dates you plan. Instead of taking her to a sports bar (because she probably doesn’t like sports), you should plan dates that she will like. When you plan a date, pick something with a creative element to it. Some examples include:
- Listening to a poetry reading
- Attending a symphony concert
- Going to a canvas-and-wine party
- Taking a cooking class
- Laughing a comedy club
- Having your own photoshoot
- Visiting local wineries and sampling the goods
- Sharing a couple’s massage
How to Attend to Her Dream Life
Since Pisces women are polite and caring, they appreciate partners who are gentle and courteous. One way you can show your manners is to pay attention to her dream life, as her imagination is what makes her unique. Pisces women often want to see their dreams become a reality, so you can help her do that.
A polite partner listens when the other one is speaking. The Pisces woman will talk about her imaginative fantasies. Listening and responding to her with support rather than judgment shows her that you value her and her imagination. This is important to building a relationship with her.
If she likes you, she will share her deepest thoughts with you. You should show empathy because she will see through false reactions. As she reveals herself to you, she wants you to help her achieve the goals in those grand dreams. If you insult her dreams, she won’t be around for long. Someone else will treat her right, and you can watch that happen from the sidelines.
Along with listening with empathy, the next best thing you can do is share your deep dreams and feelings with her. She will take care of you and help you achieve your dreams, too.
As a dreamy person, she will leave reality frequently. Do not think of this as her escaping you; it is merely what she does. Let her indulge her needs and be there when she comes back to share her intimate experiences with you.
How to Provide Security to Her
The Pisces woman appreciates someone who gives her security, but she also needs to have space to be herself. She needs to know that you will not insult her emotional qualities and that you will recognize when she needs time to be creative and artistic. She has to be open to be comfortable, but she can’t do that when you mistreat her.
Pisces women often have low self-confidence, so your warmth and security warm her up and help her show her best self to you. You can help her gain confidence by being confident yourself. Flatter her, but only when you mean it. She can see through falsehoods better than anyone else, which is why she suffers from low self-confidence. She knows when people aren’t sincere.
While you are showing your confidence and boosting hers, you should not overdo it. Relationships matter to her, and she wants to be loved sincerely. Her watery nature can only be contained by someone who gets her and appreciates her occasional instability.
How to Be Passionate Around a Pisces Woman
When you are learning how to attract a Pisces woman, you have to mimic some of her qualities. She is romantic and passionate, and she expects the same from her lovers. However, when you are passionate, you cannot outdo her level of emotions. Her emotional level can get to the point of being unrealistic.
Remember that you are supposed to be stabilizing to her formless style. So, if your emotions go beyond hers, then you aren’t helping her rein in her levels. You can be patiently romantic and subtly passionate. She just needs to see that you can show emotions, but not to an extreme. She also needs to know that you can help her through difficult emotional times.
Unfortunately, you might not get much emotional support from her when you need it. But, she will recognize when you are struggling with something. You will be able to share your emotions with her, and she will take them on. So, eventually, your emotional struggles will become hers. This might be challenging for anyone to manage.
What Will Turn Off a Pisces Woman
As you try to attract her, you must know what will turn her away from you. She is who she is, and you will not be able to change her. The worst thing you can do is try to change her or control her. Remember that the Pisces sign is a pair of fish, showing that she is completely connected to water. And, water does what it wants; you cannot change it.
Don’t Try to Control Her
If you try to control her, she will react with fear and panic. She will stop sharing her feelings with you, and she will hold a grudge. Her memory is strong, so she will remember the hurtful things you say and do. If you hurt her, she will not be herself around you, and you will be hard-pressed to get her to change her mind and trust you again.
Don’t Insult Her Scheduling Mishaps
As a water sign, her sense of time and schedule is fluid. She might forget to show up for something, but she won’t do it to be mean or spiteful. She just doesn’t find time to be necessary. You cannot insult her or punish her for her shortcomings. It’s her way. You have to accept it if you want to be in a relationship with her.
Don’t Flirt With Her
The fluid nature of the Pisces woman means she tends to take life in a light-hearted way. If you try to be overly serious with her, she will run. While she is attracted to light-hearted behaviors, she doesn’t appreciate flirtiness. She wants you to woo her with romance, gifts, and kind words. She finds flirtiness to be unprincipled, not sexy or cute.
Don’t Give Her Practical Things
The Pisces woman loves to receive gifts, but only if the presents are thoughtful and creative. Practical gifts like socks or kitchen appliances might be great choices in your world, but to the Pisces woman, they are uninspired. She will think that you don’t know her if you give her gifts that you can give to anyone.
She wants you to see her uniqueness. She wants you to love her with a depth that you show to no one else. If you give her the things you could give to your mother or any other woman, she will not feel special. As a mystical and peaceful person, she needs you to see her for who she is. Giving her boring gifts means you see her as being dull and uninspired.
She will understand that you are not listening to her. This will turn her off. She will immediately stop opening up to you because you haven’t accepted what she has given to you. Her emotional nature gives her an intuitive strength, and your generic gifts show her intuition that you do not care about her.
