Most women would love the company of a classy, determined, and hard-working Taurus man.However, Taurus men are a tough sell if you’re a fun-loving Leo or Sagittarius, but Pisces and Cancer women may find Taurus more compatible. Scorpios and Aquarius may be too stubborn and set in their ways to have a serious relationship with the equally stubborn Taurus.
Before you set your sights on a Taurus man, you should know about his basic traits. Taurus men are best described as:
If you want to attract a Taurus man, follow these tips, and you’ll secure a date with him. Never try to be something you’re not to attract any man, of any zodiac sign, though. Regardless of your natural personality, most women can attract a Taurus man, but making a few minor changes.
Taurus men appreciate honesty and don’t like women who play games. Playing hard to get may work with some signs, but not with Taurus. Be forthright and honest. Let him know if you want to date him. Tell him if you like him without being too clingy or desperate.
Some women try to be what they think a potential boyfriend likes. Most guys can see through a woman who is “trying too hard,” and it’s a real turn-off regardless of a guy’s astrological sign. Your Taurus crush values a woman who’s true to herself and knows how to use her talents and charm to get what she wants.
A Taurus guy likes a woman who’s confident, but not overbearing. Work on yourself first and project your personality to the world. You’ll pique the interest of your Taurus crush and be well on your way to a first date.
Be Feminine, But Not Girly
Taurus guys like their women to be feminine, well-spoken, and somewhat quiet. These men prefer women with long hair. A Taurus guy will want to be your protector and sweep you off your feet. You should know how to cook and enjoy decorating your home and keeping it neat.
Dress in feminine colors like pink, light green, and light blue. Wear dresses and skirts, or flowing pants. Figure-hugging clothes will attract a Taurus man, but keep the skin-tight mini-skirts and platform boots at home. Your crush likes attractive, feminine women, not garishly dressed ones demanding attention.
Don’t show too much skin. A bare shoulder is fine, but avoiding showing too much cleavage in public. Save your sexiest wardrobe for when you’re alone with your guy. Even if you don’t wear dresses or pastel colors, you can still attract a Taurus man by wearing your hair in a bun or playing up your eyes and lips with subtle colors.
Taurus the Bull is an earth sign. These men are very physical and like luxury and material things. While they like a stylish, well-dressed woman, they don’t like ostentatious jewelry or clothes. Avoid wearing designer clothes just to show that you’re well-off or trendy.
Have a Clean, Well-Organized Home
Taurus men like a tidy and clean home. Your place doesn’t need to be fancy or decorated with expensive artwork to appeal to him, but it does need to be well-organized and free of dust and clutter. Keep your apartment clean just in case he comes over for dinner or to spend the night. If you don’t have time to tidy up, hire a cleaning service.
Have a Private Date Night
A night out on the town may seem like fun, especially when you’re getting to know a guy and don’t want to act too desperate or move too fast by inviting him to your home. Taurus men like to stay in a comfy place with a date or good friend(s) and aren’t really keen on big events or large crowds.
Make dinner at home and cook a favorite meal together. Your guy will feel more comfortable, and you’ll get to know each other better. You won’t need to deal with waiters, hosts, paying the bill, or getting the wrong order. You can relax and have fun.
Ask Him Out
Taurus men are plain-spoken, straightforward, and focused on their jobs or careers. However, they’re reserved when it comes to their feelings. A Taurus guy probably won’t ask you out or make the first move.
These guys aren’t shy, per se – they’re very proud and afraid of being rejected. If he seems aloof and intimidating, he’s probably just uncertain of how to handle his emotions. Make the first move, as long as you’re not too brusque or loud about it.
Ask him out for coffee, lunch, or a casual dinner. Save the fancy restaurants and all-night events for further along in your relationship.
Listen to Him
Listen to your Taurus crush when he talks. Guys with this sign don’t talk much, so it’s important to listen intently and comment on what they say when they do talk. When you first met him, have patience if he doesn’t say much. His silence doesn’t mean he dislikes you. Being taciturn is just his nature.
This masculine guy is reserved, and he likes women who are classy and somewhat quiet. If you’re a loud party girl, he won’t stick around for long. Seduce him by being subtle and don’t let him know how much you like him until you’ve hung out with him for a while. Keep your feelings under wrap until you know each other well.
Spend time to earn his interest and trust. Make him feel comfortable and invest quality time in getting to know him. Some Taurus men have a hard time choosing the right woman, and this is multiplied if he has had bad relationships.
You may want to reveal more about yourself when you first date a Taurus man, but resist that urge and talk about subjects that will; help you get to know him better. Listen to what he says, and occasionally reveal your feelings and your experiences. When he sees you are interested in him and what he has to say, he’ll open up and ask you more about yourself.
Don’t Be Vulnerable
Taurus men don’t like vulnerability. These men like their women to be subtle but strong and self-assured. Your Taurus guy needs someone to give him stability. He is also a very physical person, and you should touch him subtly when you talk to him. You can kiss him at the end of your first date. Don’t be afraid to make the first move with a Taurus – but be gentle and subtle.
Talk about the news, history, or philosophical subjects with him, not pop culture or celebrities. A Taurus guy appreciates a woman with a firm grasp on reality. Act elegant, but not arrogant, and have self-confidence and class.
Don’t Be Domineering
Don’t talk with another guy for too long when you’re out with a Taurus guy. A man born under the sign of the Bull gets jealous easily, even at some things that may seem relatively innocent to other people.
Your Taurus crush is always observing the behavior of others. Be aware of your guy’s feelings at all times, or he will wonder if you’re serious about him. A Taurus man wants a commitment – he’s not the kind of guy who’s interested in casual flings. If you really care for me, realize that he’s looking for a long-term relationship.
Always be sweet and ladylike, but not meek. Never be bossy or domineering. Taurus men don’t like to be around loud, shrill people. Your Taurus guy has other personality quirks, too. This stubborn guy isn’t spontaneous, and he can seem insensitive to other people’s problems.
A Taurus man doesn’t like change. He has a lifestyle that works for him, and he may seem boring to more spur-of-the-moment types. Any woman who likes staying at home instead of going out at night can attract a Taurus man. If you cook and like keeping a tidy home (in addition to being ambitious in your career), this man will be dedicated to you.
When a Taurus man commits to a woman, or even when he’s seriously dating her, he becomes completely faithful, and he’ll expect the same from her. Taurus men are old-fashioned and don’t believe in open relationships. If he thinks you’re cheating on him or even flirting, he’ll end the relationship or stop dating you.
If you’re playing the field when you first date a Taurus man but discover you really like him, stop dating other guys immediately or risk losing him. A Taurus man is territorial, and he will leave you the minute he thinks you’re paying too much attention to other men.
Love Pets and Animals
If you love animals, you’ll have a lot in common with a Taurus guy! Taurus men are partial to dogs, but some of them may have birds, cats, reptiles, or an aquarium full of tropical fish. Show your Taurus crush you like animals by inviting him to join you with his dog when you take your pet to the park.
Go out to the zoo on the weekend, or go horseback riding on an informal date. When he sees how much you like animals, and what a good pet parent you are, he’ll love being with you!
Show Your Earthy, Sensual Side
Taurus guys like gourmet food, fine clothes, attractively designed furniture, and smooth music. This man will respond to anything luxurious or classy. Your Taurus guy will love it when you wear nice-smelling perfume and dress in fabrics that are soft to the touch.
Surround him with items that appeal to his exceptional taste and love of luxury, and he’ll love you for it. Anything that appeals to his senses will draw him to you and make your relationship stronger. You don’t need to spend a lot of money to make him appreciate you. Cook him a five-course meal at his place, or give him a shoulder massage at the end of the night using a scented oil.
Never rush a Taurus man. Forcing him to make quick decisions or commit to a relationship will drive him away from you. Taurus men like to be certain they have the right woman before committing to anyone.
You’ll need to exercise patience when talking with this man, too. He can be stubborn about everyday problems, and larger issues as well. Learn all you can about dealing with stubborn people calmly and rationally. A Taurus guy’s stubborn demeanor won’t overtake his good qualities if you know how to handle him.
Be Reliable and Stable
Anyone who thrives on the drama in a relationship won’t last with a Taurus companion. A Taurus needs stability and assurance when dating a new person. Exude confidence and peace, and you’ll attract and keep a Taurus man.
You should always have a steady source of income if you’re dating a Taurus man, even if it’s only a small amount of money. Taurus men are protective and old-fashioned in many ways when it comes to women, but they like their women to make their own spending money.
If you work hard and are always trying to reach lofty goals, a Taurus man will respect you. A Taurus is career-oriented and respects other ambitious people. If you don’t have a regular job, but put all your effort into your art, music, or charity work, he’ll appreciate that, too.
Don’t lie to a Taurus man. Even little white lies bother him and will cause him to stop dating you.
Taurus guys value people who are truthful and straightforward. Be honest with him, even when it’s embarrassing or potentially hurtful. He will respect you more than if you hide things or lie to him.
What to Avoid if You Want to Attract a Taurus Man
Don’t make a Taurus guy jealous. People born under this sign won’t easily forgive indiscretions. A Taurus guy wants to know you only care for him.
A Taurus man likes to surround himself with people he knows well. Introduce your friends and family to him slowly. Don’t overwhelm him with new people.
When you first date a Taurus man, meet him for lunch or coffee. Don’t hang out with him too long on first dates, unless he suggests it. It’s important to build his trust a little at a time.