There’s “hush-hush” signs and pretty straight up signals that a girl has a crush on you and oodles in between. And the more expert insight you have in your brain the better.
*Are you actively searching for hits she really does like you?
*Does she keep touching your hair or shoulder, what does that mean?
FACT – Today there are just too many technology avenues of connection that totally confuse both men and women when you are trying to find out whether someone is interested in you or not.
Did you know that according to AskMen experts, 1 in 5 couples meet via a dating app?
That is seriously scary to me, probably because I am old!
Too bad our world is past the natural intrinsic attraction because it takes too much time and effort. We want faster and better, and that just complicates things.
It can all be very confusing but here are a few solid signals telling you a girl just might like you…Lucky you!
How To Know If A Girl Has A Crush On You
Signal #1 – She enjoys talking to you!
If a girl makes herself available and is engaged with whatever you are saying or doing, you’ve got a good solid signal she has all eyes on you.
Think about it for a minute. If she didn’t like you, she would be nowhere to be found.
Signal #2 – She’s the first to crack a smile or laugh at what comes out of your mouth
If she’s actually belly laughing instead of giggling, that’s even better. And if you are both laughing together, that’s just bonus.
When a girl makes a point of making sure you know she thinks you are funny, whether you are or not, that’s just magical.
Signal #3 – She’s shy of your eyes
What this means is that she gets a little sheepish when you are staring directly at her. Kinda cute, don’t you think?
This isn’t about a lack of confidence. It’s about caring about what you think and not yet comfortable with your gaze. Give it a little time and who knows where it will lead.
Signal #4 – This girl makes a point of noticing you
This one comes in all different shapes and sizes but when a girl makes sure you know she is wary of your presence, that’s an excellent sign she wants to know you better.
Signal #5 – Licking her lips just happens
This one is for you to ponder. When a girl is licking her lips, it’s gotta be all good, right?
Signal #6 – Your smile lights her up
This should be one of the first rock solid indicators you see shouting out to you and the world that she really likes you. It needs to be one of those real smiles that make her eyes crinkle – Magical.
Signal #7 – Flirting with other chics is a no-no
This is a tough one to read but if you notice her demeanor changing when you are around other potential candidates, that’s a good sign. She might leave, slink off into a corner, or act busy with her friends.
Regardless, if you can tell she doesn’t like you around other girls, the ball is in your court.
Signal #8 – This girl loves the hugs
It doesn’t matter whether this is a gentle hug, half hug, or a full-on bear hug. When she loves hugging you, she is definitely into you. End of story.
Signal #9 – She loves the touchy-feely stuff
If she is making a clear point of touching your clothing; your shoulder, back or whatever, this is a clear-cut signal she really does like you.
Signal #10 – This girls friends are on the bandwagon
Girls are very different than boys in this instance. When a girl has a crush on a guy, her friends are the first to know. The good news for you is they will give you hints she likes you.
Perhaps they will giggle when you walk by. Or they might start causally asking you questions. No worries. This is all good.
For Bonus – If you are in the good books with her friends, you are golden in the crush department.
Signal #11 – Searching far and wide to find you
That sounds a little more dramatic that it really is. However, if she lingers around to see you after everyone else has left or she randomly shows up where she knows you will be, that’s an absolute indicator this girl has a crush on you.
Signal #12 – This girl is looking to like what you like
This one may sound a little weird but it’s for all the right reasons. Perhaps she wants to go to a concert with you to listen to the bands you love? Maybe she is suddenly interested in learning about your hockey passion?
When a girl is willing to step outside of her comfort zone to learn what you love and what has meaning to you, then you are on the right track thinking she has a major crush on you.
Signal #13 – The cheeks light up around you
This is something she really has no control over. But if she is blushing sheepishly when you are around, there’s no doubt she has a crush on you.
One step further…If she loses her words around you or fidgets with nervousness, this girl is totally into you.
This should be flattering to you…Just saying.
Signal #14 – The twirly hair card gets played
This is a simplistic unconscious sign that a girl really likes you. If she is twirling her hair in her fingers, it means she is thinking about you playing with her hair.
If she is smiling when she does it, you are one lucky guy.
Signal #15 – Infrequent bumping is present
If she suddenly seems to bumping into you left, right and center, that’s an excellent signal that she has a crush on you. If she didn’t want anything to do with you, then she would make herself scarce – just trust me once again on this one.
Signal #16 – She loves showing off her curves
If a girl is dressing nicely and trying to get your attention, it definitely means she has a keen interest in you. To what degree is up to you.
Understand, most women are very self-conscious of their bodies and when they are willing to put them on display for you, it really does mean something. Please treat it with respect.
Signal #17 – Her arms aren’t crossed
If you talk with body language, experts note you will learn that if a girls arms are crossed, she is closed to any sort of connection. So if her arms are relaxed by her side, she is telling you that she wants to get closer to you.
Talk about an awesome signal.
Signal #18 – She will halt conversing with her friends to talk with you
This is absolutely amazing. When a girl shuts off her girl talk to give her undivided attention to you whenever you appear, that’s just fantastic.
Need I say more?
Signal #19 – This girl isn’t afraid to tell you that you are looking amazing
When a girl makes a point of letting you know when she notices you have put effort into your look, that’s a great sign.
No doubt she has a crush on you if this is the case.
Signal #20 – Her single status is crystal clear
She might come right out of the gates and tell you that she is single or better yet, she might ask your status.
Take this as a positive sign.
Signal #21 – She is all set to hang out with you
This is a tough step for some girls. But if a girl suggests that you hang out or opens the door to that, then you’ve got a winner.
What you do with this is up to you.
Signal #22 – Open door policy
When a girl lets her guard down and opens up to you, there’s no doubt she is totally hot for you. Sometimes girls will throw their hat to the wind and hope the right man catches it.
Think about that for a minute and make a good decision.
Signal #23 – The future talk pops up
If this girl is talking about anything in the future, it’s another sweet signal she has a crush on you.
Read between the lines and figure this one out. You’re a big boy.
Signal #24 – Her phones goes missing when she is with you
Ha! I know that’s a little extreme. However, when a girl ignores her phone when you are around, that means oodles.
There is zero doubt that she wants some undivided attention from you. End of story once again.
Signal #25 – She is making the effort to make room for you
Perhaps you think this is basic but if a girl is making space for you in any shape or form, you sure as hell better see this as a signal she is into you.
Is she leaning in toward you?
Is this girl trying to get closer and closer to you when you are together?
Experts tell us straight up, if any women is inviting you into her space she likes you.
Signal #26 – This girl isn’t afraid to use the word “we”
This is just a ginormous step. If a girl is willing to use the word “we”, you are on the right track. There is zero doubt she has a crush on you.
Fact – It does take time for a girl to get comfy with another man. And if she is unconsciously using the term “we”,you can take that as a solidified signal she wants you bad.
Truth be told…If she is talking about “we” then she certainly is into you. Talk about your lucky day!
Signal #27 – Little miss fidget
When a girl is fidgeting, it means she seriously does have an interest in you.
Truth – If she didn’t care what you thought she wouldn’t react in any way, shape or form.
Another one to think about for a minute. Maybe you need to ask her to fidget for you just to see what she will do?
Signal #28 – Body position matters
When a girl is showing you with her body that she is into you, then you need to take it as it is! If a girl has a crush on you, a sincere one, and she’s not to0 nervous, she will show you with her body language she wants a little more.
Some boys have a hard time with this one so I’m going to clear things up for you.
If this girls is pushing away from you or has her arms and legs crossed, sadly she has no interest in you…Sorry.
However, if she is leaning in toward you, wants your shoulder to lean on, or is openly touching any part of you, well, you’ve struck gold.
If this is the case there is zero doubt this girl has a crush on you.
NOTE:The only thing that can make these scenarios false is if the girl in front of you has her beer goggles on…I just want you to be aware.
Final Words
When it comes to figuring out whether or not a girl has a crush on you it takes a heck of a lot of knowledge and personal experience to figure it out.
Use these tips and tricks, follow your gut, and you will do just fine!
Wish you the best of luck and let me know how you do!
Louis says
She does all this when we are together
Felix says
what if shes nice and mean, when joke around she laughs. Im to well im scared to make a move,
Luxury valdez says
Well idk if she has a crush on me because when i joke around she’s being mean like smacking my shoulders hurting me…and when our friends talked about girlfriend and boyfriend she always look at me and winks i do t understand that much but when I’m with someone, she mades me jealous too…so yeah, she hugs helds hands with someone it made me jealous so i saw my friend post on Instagram that there back hugging eachother and made me feel jealous can u guys help me?
Dude says
She is playing with your feelings hardcore. You need to drop her immediately, I know it is hard but trust me. She’s playing games and there’s a very good chance you’ll only get hurt in the end.
Bianca says
Im reading this as a girl so that i know if im doing these things in front of my crush and guess what
I am doing most of these and he hasn’t gotten a clue well maybe a little clue. But my friends strat shipping our names and we both start to blush a lot so im mean i guess he has some sort of clue
Im rant right ok im done byeee
YOLO!! says
Omg same!!
Hey says
I have a crush on him for 4 years! I have been doing all these stuffs. But afraid to tell him that I have a crush on him…… i need helllllp
derrick says
come am there for u will u mind
Aubrey says
Me too!!!
Madi says
I am also reading this as a girl and I don’t really know if I am doing most of these things….. what if someone wants to know if someone has a crush on them, they read this and think someone doesn’t do thsee things but they do like them. I like someone and I don’t really do much if these things, I’m a little different and we are all different we all dont do the same things when we like someone. So Idk
aurora says
same hear
Olivia says
You Should make the move! Most girls don’t like to confess, so if she is doing all these and you are for sure she likes you…Tell Her!
Jace Larcher says
Thanks a lot! This really helps!
Michael says
That sad moment when you look back over your life and realize that no girl has ever displayed even one of these signs to you.
David says
i know right or you just dont know it
Kai says
Yup, I have never seen any of these signs anywhere in my life haha. I am pretty sure I won’t see them in this lifetime too XD
Mijokdevi1 says
😂 😂
Boniface says
She keeps on touching my arms
i have no crush! says
good sing that she is into to you! a girl would not touch you until she likes you. so it is your choice to refuse or accept her crush. i sad that i have no girlfriend bro! 🙁
Nagesh says
I need help, i used to live in country where she liv but i moced to america and i have crush on her and she and i vidoe call and talk regularly but idj if she like me, we video call too but not thay much but ya pls help bro i don’t want to lose her 😭😭😭😖😟😩
Nagesh says
*moved,*idk
jr says
well i can´t understand what your saying right now bruh
Aubrey says
That’s sad ;(
if you talk to her soon you should tell her how you feel she might feel the same way about you but just not want to make the first move. I have had a boyfriend (I am a girl) that live in a different state (but not country that’s a little harder) we rarely saw each other but we were able to make it work for quite a few years before we both found someone else and moved on.
Wolf says
#3 lol my crush didn’t do that when I was looking at her 😂. Instead she said ‘what are you looking at?’ And I said ‘the door’ and she said ‘no, the correct answer was : your beautiful face!’
MERIC'TED says
Because you didn’t show enough confidence, you should read the how to get with younger women/college girls article that speaks about having confidence executing these moves and what to do if what you said happens.
Sadaq says
I don’t have a girl. I’m only 12 boyyyyy
Kaleb says
Same and to say about the body language or positions we had a basketball game we had to watch at school and my friend that’s a boy was sitting to my left and my crush was sitting to my right and all throughout the game she was basically in my opinion showing off her curves and me and my friend would whisper about the game or her and she would usely try to find a way to make me look at her so you tell me If she likes me
Gavin says
Did you have to read this? lol
Louis says
I am a 16 and I’ve tried to look for ever sign possible but every time I am wrong so NEVER fall in love in highschool unless it’s someone 5 years older than you
Prince says
I have got a problem with my female friend she like coming to my house wearing a Gown every time.what does it mean
Kate says
Does she always like to dress up or only when she visits you?
Ferrell says
Ok, so I started a job a year ago and I transferred to a new location same gig just new people, this lady is around the same age as me 30 and she started off one day when we engaged in conversation at work about relationships, she mentioned that she was lonely and wished she had someone to do things with like hiking and things …..then every other day she always comes in with a big smile when she sees me , the other thing I notice is when I clock off she almost wispers I wish you didn’t have to go ever time and I end up staying 2 hours talking to her about my college classes and flight school and alot about her college classes , now to me those are all signs but I hear every once in a while from her co-worker friend when they are talking her friend asks so what about the boy friend or whatever he is? …it has me on the fence …. like ok she says she’s lonely didn’t date at all last year… I myself haven’t dated for 3 years because I am scared of another relationship and I am a bit rusty on the dating game scene. What do you get from this?
Kate says
I think she likes you. I’m not sure if she has a boyfriend or not but if she’s telling you she’s lonely, then it seems like she doesn’t have a serious relationship with anyone.
Jacob says
Smart idea thanka for advice
Anonymous Gal says
Yeah, I’m a girl and I know for a fact that if I feel lonely as soon as a guy leaves, I seriously like him
Ron Moore says
I have this married women at work. She trained me well and we worked quite long working on same stuff sharing between two. Lately I observe she inquiry me little bit more about two other guys in team. I see they have much healthier conversations too. Some time I feel like she dress well when those guys at work. She declined to contribute fund for some cause to me and later she gave. and She slipped her tongue once said to other colleagues, i said yes only because other guy asked me- this is just to keep me feel bad or she really it into me and into other guy. Other guy moved his house near her house 15 min drive distance . When we 3 talk, she says our families should hangout one you move near and offers him that bring his wife home . Says we should hangout in summer. Says I cannot hangout as I am single with them. She says you go with other guys in team. She knows I really love her, she comes to me for any struggle at work and we talk through. I feels like she talks and show her as an American women to other guy who is non American too like me. She if from different country and the other guy and me from some other country. She didn’t had child though she is still in 35+ and they are couple for 10+ years. She and her husband are happy couples.. Does she trying to flirt or getting to other guy at work by any chance? I feel she/her husband has some child problem and she inclined at other guy.. when she talks to this guy I feel upset and I shown that sometimes. Once she was like volunteering to pay for his drink and I took a chance later few days when we planning for drink and asked her if she wants to invite him and pointed u eagerly wants to pay for him. She just said I m trying to be nice.. all that she trying to be nice, talking like American born women ( she grown up all the time in American though she born somewhere else). For the contribution, when she said to other girl like when he ask I just said okay and I will give. Other girl goes and says me out loud at that same time this is something you should care about. Later I told you ignored me in this context and I feel like ignored some other times as well- her answer is you thinking too much, stop thinking too much, etc. She knows I m there for here nd made it clear to her – she knows now I can die if she ever asks me. Please don’t say she is married and take off this conversation. Just wanna know whether she is just using me and she is into other guy and should I do anything to get her attention back? I am being nice to other guy- I mean we both nice to each other and he is superior at work. I am little young than her or other guy. They both are same age. Funny thing, once we 3 went for pizza and this girls goes and talks about one of conversation like this- my previous boss she came over and said one guy she started working newly keep escalating people, may be she doesn’t have enough sex 😎. And she goes back to a story and says one of other previous boss married ugly women just for properties and he was so nice to other girls for sex.. I didn’t expect this from her to talk this open and as I said she is trying to talk like American and show herself or she is into him? I noticed that day she covered her short tops showing clear vision of her chest was covered with scarf around neck. She does not do that when I m alone. Not sure anymore 🤔
Kate says
Seems like she doesn’t really care about you. She’s also married so I’m not sure what kind of relationship you would hope to have with her. You are better off finding someone who is single and actually wants to date you and spend time with you.
Syed says
Writer for the post may not be clear madam, let me ask this on behalf of him – He want her be most important friend at work and she was, but now that this guy moved near her place they seem becoming best friends. What should he do?
Kate says
If he sees any of the signs that she likes him, he could ask her out on a date.
Ron moore says
I did, she is not talking anymore
Yana says
There’s this girl that I have a crush on and every time we’ve hung out lately, it’s been at her place. She seems more free and open to be herself when it’s just her and I. She fidgets and I sometimes catch her looking at me from the corner of my eyes. Her and I have lately been trying to make more of an effort to lock eyes and hold it for a few seconds. Makes me feel happy, scared and nervous all at the same time. Sometimes when I ask her a personal question , she’ll show ask a question like “why do you ask” and then she would answer it but while answering the question she would put her hand underneath the bottom of her shirt and smile which allows me to steal a couple quick glances at her torso. Why do you think she does this? Also she sometimes seems nervous around me and can’t meet my eyes when we talk. It varies whenever we hangout. Someone please help me figure this out…
Bob says
Frikin long, but ijay
Dreggs says
I’ve known this girl for a good amount of time now. A few weeks ago I noticed she started staring at me. When I looked, she looked away. I’ve caught her doing this a number of times recently. Also, when I was doing something to a group of people, telling them all to get away (in a pretty silly fashion) she just burst out laughing halfway across the room after saying my name! Completely unnecessary! I realized I really liked her, so I started giving signs. She did some more things like this that she normally wouldn’t do (aside from some other signs when talking in a group), so I decided to get her on Snapchat. One night she sent an 11:11 snap with a heart, I instantly replied asking her if it was for me. She said it was just a STREAK with a heart. Yeah right. The next night I sent her an 11:11 snap with multiple hearts, the same night she sent a snap with the date on it and a bunch of hearts. Then I decided to, the next day, send a snap with “You cute :)” on it. She just replied with a snap of the side of her face.
I am really confused now…I see her again in a few days and I am not sure what to expect. I want to talk to her really seriously though.
Kate says
Try to talk to her to get a sense if she really likes you.
Bigush says
I like dis kinda infatuation, these are clear signs dat she fallen head over heels for you, real talk.
dk says
what if she cracks jokes and makes fun,
Kate says
Maybe, however, I don’t have enough information to conclude if she likes you or not.
jr says
hey kate help me out here my crush does most of the signs that you have said but idk if she is giving me a hint that she likes me or am not looking hard enough
STRANGER says
I didn’t experience such sign.So still waits 4 U
John says
She has been looking on me at class when i look at her back she immediately turns away. Is that a good sign?
Kate says
Yes, that’s a good sign if she secretly keeps looking at you.
george says
when you ask her to see you she gives you excuses but she is always talking about you when she is with her friends
Anonymous Gal says
She might be too nervous to hang out with you, so just wait until she gets more comfortable!
Jon says
So there’s this girl I train with at a gym…but a gym for enhancing performance for sports. We are both 19 and play soccer in college. She always wants to hang after training with me and just talk. When we do she will grab my arm and rub it sometimes. She’s always laughing and making eye contact. But she has told me and I’ve heard from others that she likes this other guy that we train with… so I’m lost. I feel l I’m ke she’s giving me all the signs, yet im hearing other stuff….any advice??
Kate says
Perhaps, don’t get your hopes up. She might take you as a friend only if she has told you she likes this other guy.
Dante says
I never had that at all with anyone, but that’s cool. It’s good to know everyone has some great experience in the comment section.
Dylean craig pearson says
I cant seem to get a crush and im told i look like a Calvin klien model???????????????/
reagan says
me nothing yet any advice
Marvin says
Just wait and there will be one 🙂
Legomathwhiz says
My friend always takes my stuff like my phone and drum sticks. She always likes to mess with me. But she dose it to other people to. When we go to some class she sits next to me in some classes and she talks to me and messes with me. But she does the same thing to other people. But any time we go to a game, she likes to mess with me and talk with me. And one of my friends that used to date her said that we should date. I’m not sure if she is into me or not.
Kate says
It’s hard to tell if she’s doing the same things to other people too. Just keep talking to her and maybe you’ll get some more clues.
Jason says
These scenes are actually really accurate. Over time, you will see them from the girl who secretly has interest in you.
Another sign to add to this list is when they start using certain words you use often. It will happen. Just listen carefully.
Additionally, they may ask you what pictures out of three look best. They want your opinion on things.
There are many signs to interpret. The only way you will find out is to ask your crush out spontaneously. See how they resound to you. Be brave. We don’t wanna look back and remember all these wasted opportunities…
Think of this like your dream job. Better yourself. Be confident. Show you care. Be willing to be there for them. You will be well on your way to something great. Stay calm. Don’t overthink things.
Bigush Andreymy says
There’s this girl, she’s my college-mate,She has been trynna engage my mind and get my attention, day one, I was talkin’ to my buddy bein’ we alone, there after, she came with her company (three pals group) in dat area, she stepped in front of me bein lookin’ forward, she dressed up in red, after dat incident we stopped talkin’ me and my buddy, we left dat place without even sayin’ hi to her though my friend used to tell me dat, she is head over heels for me, but I told him,I can’t respond to her quickly I must collect clues on dis first off before rushin’ to her, so after gettin’ all clues on her to have infatuation with me ,I made up my mind to ask for conversation with her, I remember dat day was lecture time after gettin’ off, when I asked her for conversation, she made so many excuses for bein’,after bein’ told dat I didn’t wanna give up so easily,I asked for her phone number, she told me dat she is gonna find me on tomorrow, I took a hike believin’ dat she will do dat, next time she was so cold though she saw me, I saw her too, but I was suspicious of either she likes me or not, ‘cuz I didn’t wanna seem to be ass kisser or to be taken for granted, there after I didn’t wanna give a stuff ’bout her, though she still tends to get my attention currently, so I wanna know does she like me or not?
Jordon Goodin says
I have been talking to this girl for quite some time now and in school she would talk to me all the time during class and lunch. But recently my schedule changed and i no longer get to talk to her at lunch and during class. She came up to me today and hugged me and told me that she misses me. One of my friends told me that she talks about me all the time during lunch and during class, about how much she misses me. I want to ask her out since she’s also single but I don’t know if she really likes me or not. Can anyone help me?
Kate says
If she misses you and talks about you all the time then she most likely likes you. However, to be sure, you can tell her you miss her too and ask her if she would like to hang out with you sometime.
Rezyy says
Hello if you could help that would be great,
So I have been talking to this girl I’m 18 she is 22 I’m nearly 19. We hang out regularly. We sometimes hang out in her breaks at work and we just mess around in her car or my car. She laughs at every joke I say. She is always smiling when she is around me.
We both use Flirty emojis when we Snapchat/text like the water and smerk face when flirty sentences.
She came back from nz and said we should hang out. I said Saturday which was a week in advance from when she came back and she said that’s so far away. So I said Monday. But when she came back she wasn’t tired so we hanged out the same day. We went for a walk with her dog for 4 hours and talked and laughed heaps and walked close to each other. Gave each other piggy back rides and shoulder rides and she taught me how to do a hand stand by holding up my legs when I flew up from the ground. And I held her legs for her too.
Then the next day we went out for lunch but she didn’t look at me much had her arms crossed abit I guess it’s because it was cold out. But she really dressed up with a skirt and a nice top and did her hair all nice and beautiful.
I had to go do something after lunch but then after I finished my business we hanged out more and we went walking on a beach and into the water. I held her hand when we were stepping on the slippery rocks.
After that we went on to the grass area and she gave me a back massage and went all the way down my back and up to my shoulders. She put on my glasses and was smiling a lot the whole time. She had to go do something so we had to leave. But later I message her and said I need to give you a back massage next time and she said fuck yes! But I bet you will just tickle me the whole time. Because I tickle her when she has done something to me like beat me in a race or something like that.
She then asked if I was busy later that night as well and we catched up again and she came in a dressing grown with nothing else on but underwear and a bra and socks.
She messages me first most days on Snapchat or text with something to do with her day. I message her first sometimes.
When she was in nz she bought some underwear and showed me a bit of them in a Snapchat. And later I message her and say *we are gojng skinny dipping next week* I said “I’m sure I’ll see them when we go skinny dipping” and she replied “I’ll defo be wearing them at that time because you wouldn’t want to miss out 😏”
She also continues the conversation say it comes to a halt she will bring up another subject to keep the conversation going.
Now she has just recently ended a relationship with her boyfriend she has been with for 4 years. But it had been going down hill for 9 months and they hadn’t been doing anything in that time. But they are officially over now.
She touches me and I touch her when we laugh etc. we do naughty things together she always challenges me and try’s to be better than me.
She copy’s thing that I do like small things like how I drive right through roundabouts she does the same now after seeing me do it.
We have nick names for each other and we both make fun of things we say in a friendly Banter way.
Tonight I asked her if she was busy and she said she was going to have an early night she has work at 7am so that’s fair. But she normally asks me if I want to hang out with me.
She is kind of confusing me with mixed messages though. Tonight I said in a conversation over text “I really like spending time with you” and she replied “same here! Your so fun!!”
I’m really confused because we have Flirted sexually with each other for example I said “we have so much more to do 😏💦” and she replied “we have so much more to do in my car 😏💦”
Anyway any help would be appreciated I havnt kissed her yet but I have a little cold at the moment so after it goes away I’ll make a move but I hope she doesn’t lose interest in me?
Kate says
Seems like she is very into you. And since she broke up with her boyfriend, it’s the perfect time for you to make your move.
Stranger says
I still have trouble finding out whether the girl I have feelings for has the same feelings and I’ve stopped having those feelings after pining for her for 4 years so I moved on and there’s this girl I like but I haven’t made a move yet because every time I do, my heart gets shattered.
Keeg says
So this girl at my school is really good friends with my sister and she always like being around me and she always snapchats and FaceTimes me and also laughs a lot around me…What do you think it means
Mark says
The friendship with her sister is most likely so she can get to know you without asking you too many questions. The excessive communication most likely means she would like to talk to you more. The laughs are to make you think that she cares about you so that you will care about her
Fred says
Hello I’m Fred..I’m 21 and she is 20.My question is this:We used to be friends and our love for each other grew I could sense that attraction but I don’t know for her if she also thought that way but the signals she put out there simply means she also had a crush on me.To mention few:She would always initiate a conversation when we meet,she gets nervous in front of me,she couldn’t look me in the face when we meet which means she is kinda shy,etc.There was once a time she was like:”We should exchange class assignments among each other in order that we can get to talk to each other and make our friendship grow”.Because during those times our conversations were just short..Something like “hi” or “hello”.All these signs showed she had a crush on me but I’m a kinda guy who is shy and moreover I haven’t even dated before.Since then I have been planning to let her know I love her too but you know this shyness always comes to combat my intentions.As I’m talking to you know things haven’t been cool of late.She talks to other guys in a flirty way and it makes me jealous.When she is on her phone with the other guy,one thing I have realized is that she doesn’t even tend to me to say “hi” or “hello”.She behaves as if she hasn’t noticed I’m around.Even though we are crushing on eachother and we are not yet dating,as friends we usually greet eachother but this is the case she doesn’t even say “hi”.Meanwhile,initially she even starts the conversation.I want help.🤦♂️..I don’t know what’s happening??
Susan says
What if you guys pretend to flirt like it’s funny and I’m a girl and she’s a girl and recently you just jfk everything she does is amazing even if it’s a smile like I know I’m so in love because I’ve went out of my comfort zone for her and i will do anything to be with her and I’m so jsut confused coz Idk if when she hugs me or touched me or flirts with me it’s coz of the whole pretend thing or it’s real it’s jsut I feel it’s more deeper coz we so close she’s changed in front of me and we’ve slept in the same bed and she’s always touching me in a way whether it be our arms together just brushing part or her arm in mine or our hands intertwined I jsut feel lost rn
Carter says
If she feels comfortable sleeping in the same bed as you she clearly has interest in you but don’t eliminate the fact that it could be a little interest.
Sam Garcia says
This is so me when I’m with him and I’m not pretty sure if he already notice it HAHAHA
SOLOMON says
Thank you it sure did help
Raph says
Actually the one about the lost phone there’s another connection. So she can stay near you longer looking for it.
David says
What of if suddenly she starts to push you away from her one following morning without telling you the reason why.
Matty says
Hi, I met this girl at school she’s like an assistant teacher but I think she’s in sixth form ( around my age). ive got a crush on her I don’t know whether she likes me though. I have read ur website and she does flick her hair and fidget etc but I’ve only met her once. What’s ur advice?
Matthew Sculthorpe says
Hi I’ve met this girl once at school , she has flicked hair fidigeted etc but I don’t know if she likes me because she works at the school as an assistant teacher but I think that she’s in the sixth form ( only year or two older than me). I don’t know if she has a relationship already or if she likes me advice?
Damien says
There is this girl that i like and im not sure if she likes me back.I think i saw her looking at me cause when i looked in her direction she lookd away.Is this a good sign?
Mark says
Yes. It shows that she would like to know you but is very shy. You’re best move would be to go up and talk to her.
Dave says
What kind of body markers should I expect from her
James says
Hi, I’ve read countless articles on if my crush likes me and got 11 out of 31 points here and gotten a couple or few stuff correct and done lots of quizzes and like 65 percent says she likes me a lot and am still a little confused. She became a good friend of mine after I was new to the school and the only person i knew was my sister. We had a few conversations over a few days and eventually she asked “do you have anyone to sit with” so I replied “well i have my sister but shes only around sometimes and said I should try making friends because shes leaving soon” She hasn’t done any of the touchy or flirty stuff yet but neither have I. She once said i was the “big brother of jokes” but hasn’t said anything about me being a friend or brother since. She’s helped me a lot even when i haven’t asked but doesn’t go over the top with helping. I keep getting mixed signals from her because she is my main friend at break since coming to this school and I can’t tell if she has an interest in me or she’s just being kind because I’m new and her friend. As of writing this I have known her for a week and a half. When she see’s me she always waves and says hi and when we share the same class and tells me to follow her when I’m with her and a bit nervous to follow. We walked around the school building for 15 minutes because the cafeteria was crowded and her friend was busy and had a good chat on general stuff like school but nothing really personal. I sit at the cafeteria and wait for her to order food then we sit alone while we wait for her friends or we go to her friends if its too crowded. I haven’t payed too much notice to her blushing or her pupils dilating but she always does a genuine smile. She fidgets with her fingers by tapping them on the table a lot when we are alone n talks to me like her friends but enjoys my company. Ever since the 2nd or 3rd day of school I’ve sat with her at first break and 2nd break I just sit at the same spot a meter away from some guys so I don’t look lonely but not sure if she thinks they are my friends or not. The first joke or 2 I told she laughed a ton and told her friends and the others she laughed or did a genuine smile. I don’t have her number or any social medias because I’m scared to ask and even if I do get it I don’t know what to say except asking for help in homework.
Joseph says
So I have been dating this girl for a while and she broke up with me. But here again she’s giving major signs… Do I take her Back? I mean She said when we broke up I was “Too Much to Handle”. Tips?
Mark says
If she truly loved you then she would deal with all of you. All of your perfections and imperfections. If she left you because you were “Too Much to Handle”. Then she really didn’t fully love you. This is all completely your call though.
Jayden says
I kinda like this girl at scouts most of the sighns u said r a match . But she is verry confusing she talks nonstop with me for a while then distencess herself from me does she like me r not
Mark says
This to me means that she is trying to make a connection with you but trying not to come out too strongly. This is sometimes the problems when you have a crush on someone. They start to back off every now and then to make sure they are not coming off too strong as to not scare you off. Long story short there s a 80% chance she likes you.
Karl says
So, Im 16 years old, there is this girl in my class that always smiles or laughs when we make eyecontact in class. We dont really talk that much, and she often laughs and talks to other boys, but i havent noticed what i mentioned over on other boys. I wonder if this can be a sign she might like me. Can anyone help me with this?
Mark says
Hello Karl I know that this ordeal has probably already happened and that you are probably not going to read this but I thought I would help you. It seems to me that her laughing when you make eye-contact signifies that she is shy and nervous to talk to you. This most likely means that she has a crush on you. So the best choice is to ask her out if you feel the feelings she may have for you are reciprocated by you. If I am correct please tell me this. Thank you for reading
Garrett says
I have someone who does it sometimes but not always but you said that if she invites you she has a crush on you and she invites me almost every day
Chole says
This may sound really weird, and it probably is. I’m a girl, and I’m reading this soo can send messages to the boy I like with this. I’m gonna do all this at school tomorrow, and of course, I’m gonna spread some it it out too.
Mark says
Hello. I am a 12 year old boy and there was this girl that i liked since i was in pre-k lately she has told me that back then she also had a crush on me. The problem is i don’t know if she still does. Her friends are always telling me she does and they often leave us alone for periods of time. Also whenever we meet she is always with friends. What do you think about this?
Mark says
Yes. It shows that she would like to know you but is very shy.
Nick says
Ok so I’m 16 and i want to know if this girl likes me. She kinda mixes the signs you talk about for example when I tell a joke she pretends to laugh as like another joke which makes us both laugh. Or how when you mention contact, she does touch me but she used to just touch
Me now she pinches or bumps into me. I fee as tho I’m getting mixed signals or it could just possibly be my mind playing tricks lol. Can I just have your opinion on the situation?
Carter says
So I’m 11 and the girl I’m talking about is 12 and she is showing all these signs and I have a crush on her as well. But the thing is it is nearing the end of 6th grade and I think that is way to early. When should I make a big move?
Yongie says
Am i the only girl here trying to see if i’m not obvious enough lol. Should i show more signs?
Russell Mukumba says
Am a 16 year old boy . There is this girl who i have liked ,I don’t see her often because she’s in boarding i see a during holidays . my cousin(girl) and her are like close friends so am also shy , so i told my cousin to tell her i like her , she was with her friends and then my cousin said that “i will try” i didn’t know what that means. We were coming back from church walking as a group so she was walking with my cousin and then i approached her started talking to her tho i was shy , she kept looking down , she was smiling , i didn’t tell her that i liked her . One of her friends made us join hands i felt happy and shy at that moment so i removed my hand , we both smiled i had bought her a (Notebook) Cause i didn’t want to go forward she accepted it and then she went home . I don’t know what this means please help me!!!
Russell Mukumba says
Am a 16 year old boy . There is this girl who i have liked ,I don’t see her often because she’s in boarding i see a during holidays . my cousin(girl) and her are like close friends so am also shy , so i told my cousin to tell her i like her , she was with her friends and then my cousin said that “i will try” i didn’t know what that means. We were coming back from church walking as a group so she was walking with my cousin and then i approached her started talking to her tho i was shy , she kept looking down , she was smiling , i didn’t tell her that i liked her . One of her friends made us join hands i felt happy and shy at that moment so i removed my hand , we both smiled i had bought her a (Notebook) Cause i didn’t want to go forward she accepted it and then she went home . I don’t know what this means please help me
jr says
did you look for signs or anything
Sarah says
So I have been friends with this girl since 2nd grade and it’s now 6th grade.
Where best friends!
She told me she’s a lesbian
And I don’t know I think I like her.
She cuddles me in bed and kisses me on the head.
I don’t know if this is friendship or liking someone?
steven says
Perhaps, don’t get your hopes up. She might take you as a friend only if she has told you she likes this other guy.
jr says
well my crush do most of the signs but she never gave me a hint that she liked me or maybe i should look more
jr says
so this girl at my school shes my crush an most of the times we stare at each other sometimes she cross her arms an legs she always face me when we are talking sometimes she compliment me but she put it in a sentence but i don´t know what to do or should i make the first move i need help i don´t want to mess things up
Fabian says
I like a girl and she has done most of these things but when I ask if she likes me and she says no but she blushed and her friends say she likes me and she gets embarrassed most of the time
Fabian says
Oh and also every time talking to her in my mom’s van she always tries to lean on my shoulder and gets shy to do it but she still does it and I don’t know why to do
Fabian says
I also am way to shy to tell her that I like her cause I’ve been liking her for 3 years but I never have the time to tell her
OldFish says
If you wondering if she’s interested instead of trying to read into any signs just outright ask her if she’d like to go out. Be honest, tell her you find her interesting, intriguing, ect. personally I’d stay away from complementing her looks until the first formal date as this can leave them with the impression you’re only after one thing. Watch how she reacts very carefully as this is when you should at least get an idea of whether she’s interested or not. This way your not playing the guessing game and any awkwardness that may happen will soon be forgotten or laughed at if things go well for ya.
If things don’t go well don’t close the door quite yet as sometimes girls get nervous just like us guys or caught off guard and reflectively toss up their defenses and will need to talk things over with their friends what their friends or just need some time to mull things over a bit.
Sr says
The girl i love always like to crack jokes on me and as me she feels safe when I’m with her I’m so afraid to express my love due to if she doesn’t have any feelings on me she will never talk to me again I’m afraid of it what i have to do now how to know her openion on me can anyone help me
Patrik says
I’m only in fifth grade but me and my friend Mayank like talking about which girls might have a crush on us.
Patrik says
And I so badly just want to kiss those girls I have a crush on
Jr says
Ok so I like this girl at my school I told her that I like her but she said oh my God you don’t she shows most of these signs so every time we see each other we say hi to each other and then she sometimes asks for a high five to get in my personal space she often make eye contact with me and when I look at her back and she realizes she looks away we talk often but since we moved groups we just see each other sometimes I want to ask her for her number and if but I’m a bit shy that she will reject me so I need help and she sometimes teases me and she twirls her hair when I’m around her and exposes her neck without realizing so I want to know if she likes me back and I should make a move I need help!
gay guy says
I have a crush at my school and mostly does that all the time around me anyway so i just go and do my stuff
DCMarvelFangurl05 says
Me too. I’m just trying to see if its REALLY that noticeable.