There’s “hush-hush” signs and pretty straight up signals that a girl has a crush on you and oodles in between. And the more expert insight you have in your brain the better.
*Are you actively searching for hits she really does like you?
*Does she keep touching your hair or shoulder, what does that mean?
FACT – Today there are just too many technology avenues of connection that totally confuse both men and women when you are trying to find out whether someone is interested in you or not.
Did you know that according toexperts, 1 in 5 couples meet via a dating app?
That is seriously scary to me, probably because I am old!
Too bad our world is past the natural intrinsic attraction because it takes too much time and effort. We want faster and better, and that just complicates things.
It can all be very confusing but here are a few solid signals telling you a girl just might like you…Lucky you!
How To Know If A Girl Has A Crush On You
Signal #1 – She enjoys talking to you!
If a girl makes herself available and is engaged with whatever you are saying or doing, you’ve got a good solid signal she has all eyes on you.
Think about it for a minute. If she didn’t like you, she would be nowhere to be found.
Signal #2 – She’s the first to crack a smile or laugh at what comes out of your mouth
If she’s actually belly laughing instead of giggling, that’s even better. And if you are both laughing together, that’s just bonus.
When a girl makes a point of making sure you know she thinks you are funny, whether you are or not, that’s just magical.
Signal #3 – She’s shy of your eyes
What this means is that she gets a little sheepish when you are staring directly at her. Kinda cute, don’t you think?
This isn’t about a lack of confidence. It’s about caring about what you think and not yet comfortable with your gaze. Give it a little time and who knows where it will lead.
Signal #4 – This girl makes a point of noticing you
This one comes in all different shapes and sizes but when a girl makes sure you know she is wary of your presence, that’s an excellent sign she wants to know you better.
Signal #5 – Licking her lips just happens
This one is for you to ponder. When a girl is licking her lips, it’s gotta be all good, right?
Signal #6 – Your smile lights her up
This should be one of the first rock solid indicators you see shouting out to you and the world that she really likes you. It needs to be one of those real smiles that make her eyes crinkle – Magical.
Signal #7 – Flirting with other chics is a no-no
This is a tough one to read but if you notice her demeanor changing when you are around other potential candidates, that’s a good sign. She might leave, slink off into a corner, or act busy with her friends.
Regardless, if you can tell she doesn’t like you around other girls, the ball is in your court.
Signal #8 – This girl loves the hugs
It doesn’t matter whether this is a gentle hug, half hug, or a full-on bear hug. When she loves hugging you, she is definitely into you. End of story.
Signal #9 – She loves the touchy-feely stuff
If she is making a clear point of touching your clothing; your shoulder, back or whatever, this is a clear-cut signal she really does like you.
Signal #10 – This girls friends are on the bandwagon
Girls are very different than boys in this instance. When a girl has a crush on a guy, her friends are the first to know. The good news for you is they will give you hints she likes you.
Perhaps they will giggle when you walk by. Or they might start causally asking you questions. No worries. This is all good.
For Bonus – If you are in the good books with her friends, you are golden in the crush department.
Signal #11 – Searching far and wide to find you
That sounds a little more dramatic that it really is. However, if she lingers around to see you after everyone else has left or she randomly shows up where she knows you will be, that’s an absolute indicator this girl has a crush on you.
Signal #12 – This girl is looking to like what you like
This one may sound a little weird but it’s for all the right reasons. Perhaps she wants to go to a concert with you to listen to the bands you love? Maybe she is suddenly interested in learning about your hockey passion?
When a girl is willing to step outside of her comfort zone to learn what you love and what has meaning to you, then you are on the right track thinking she has a major crush on you.
Signal #13 – The cheeks light up around you
This is something she really has no control over. But if she is blushing sheepishly when you are around, there’s no doubt she has a crush on you.
One step further…If she loses her words around you or fidgets with nervousness, this girl is totally into you.
This should be flattering to you…Just saying.
Signal #14 – The twirly hair card gets played
This is a simplistic unconscious sign that a girl really likes you. If she is twirling her hair in her fingers, it means she is thinking about you playing with her hair.
If she is smiling when she does it, you are one lucky guy.
Signal #15 – Infrequent bumping is present
If she suddenly seems to bumping into you left, right and center, that’s an excellent signal that she has a crush on you. If she didn’t want anything to do with you, then she would make herself scarce – just trust me once again on this one.
Signal #16 – She loves showing off her curves
If a girl is dressing nicely and trying to get your attention, it definitely means she has a keen interest in you. To what degree is up to you.
Understand, most women are very self-conscious of their bodies and when they are willing to put them on display for you, it really does mean something. Please treat it with respect.
Signal #17 – Her arms aren’t crossed
If you talk with body language, experts note you will learn that if a girls arms are crossed, she is closed to any sort of connection. So if her arms are relaxed by her side, she is telling you that she wants to get closer to you.
Talk about an awesome signal.
Signal #18 – She will halt conversing with her friends to talk with you
This is absolutely amazing. When a girl shuts off her girl talk to give her undivided attention to you whenever you appear, that’s just fantastic.
Need I say more?
Signal #19 – This girl isn’t afraid to tell you that you are looking amazing
When a girl makes a point of letting you know when she notices you have put effort into your look, that’s a great sign.
No doubt she has a crush on you if this is the case.
Signal #20 – Her single status is crystal clear
She might come right out of the gates and tell you that she is single or better yet, she might ask your status.
Take this as a positive sign.
Signal #21 – She is all set to hang out with you
This is a tough step for some girls. But if a girl suggests that you hang out or opens the door to that, then you’ve got a winner.
What you do with this is up to you.
Signal #22 – Open door policy
When a girl lets her guard down and opens up to you, there’s no doubt she is totally hot for you. Sometimes girls will throw their hat to the wind and hope the right man catches it.
Think about that for a minute and make a good decision.
Signal #23 – The future talk pops up
If this girl is talking about anything in the future, it’s another sweet signal she has a crush on you.
Read between the lines and figure this one out. You’re a big boy.
Signal #24 – Her phones goes missing when she is with you
Ha! I know that’s a little extreme. However, when a girl ignores her phone when you are around, that means oodles.
There is zero doubt that she wants some undivided attention from you. End of story once again.
Signal #25 – She is making the effort to make room for you
Perhaps you think this is basic but if a girl is making space for you in any shape or form, you sure as hell better see this as a signal she is into you.
Is she leaning in toward you?
Is this girl trying to get closer and closer to you when you are together?
Experts tell us straight up, if any women is inviting you into her space she likes you.
Signal #26 – This girl isn’t afraid to use the word “we”
This is just a ginormous step. If a girl is willing to use the word “we”, you are on the right track. There is zero doubt she has a crush on you.
Fact – It does take time for a girl to get comfy with another man. And if she is unconsciously using the term “we”,you can take that as a solidified signal she wants you bad.
Truth be told…If she is talking about “we” then she certainly is into you. Talk about your lucky day!
Signal #27 – Little miss fidget
When a girl is fidgeting, it means she seriously does have an interest in you.
Truth – If she didn’t care what you thought she wouldn’t react in any way, shape or form.
Another one to think about for a minute. Maybe you need to ask her to fidget for you just to see what she will do?
Signal #28 – Body position matters
When a girl is showing you with her body that she is into you, then you need to take it as it is! If a girl has a crush on you, a sincere one, and she’s not to0 nervous, she will show you with her body language she wants a little more.
Some boys have a hard time with this one so I’m going to clear things up for you.
If this girls is pushing away from you or has her arms and legs crossed, sadly she has no interest in you…Sorry.
However, if she is leaning in toward you, wants your shoulder to lean on, or is openly touching any part of you, well, you’ve struck gold.
If this is the case there is zero doubt this girl has a crush on you.
NOTE:The only thing that can make these scenarios false is if the girl in front of you has her beer goggles on…I just want you to be aware.
When it comes to figuring out whether or not a girl has a crush on you it takes a heck of a lot of knowledge and personal experience to figure it out.
Use these tips and tricks, follow your gut, and you will do just fine!
Wish you the best of luck and let me know how you do!