The Gemini man is truly a unique individual. In fact, his characteristics encompass things that may actually make it very difficult for you to get him to show that he misses you.
Fear not – we have some pretty solid tips and tricks for you to use to instill the feeling of longing in your Gemini partner. But first, if you want to learn how to make a Gemini man miss you, you need to learn a little bit about the Gemini man and all his glorious details.
About Gemini Men
If you want to tap into the most emotional, vulnerable part of any man, you need to know what makes him tick. You can’t make someone miss you if you don’t know what they love the most of what makes them feel the deepest. It’s at this point that we need to take a closer look at a Gemini man and learn all about him.
As we all know, the Gemini sign is represented by the twins. Accordingly, this sign is known for cases of dual personalities and confusing characteristics that sometimes clash. Gemini can often possess dualities within their souls, meaning light and dark.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that your Gemini boyfriend necessarily has a “dark side” or an “evil twin.” It simply means they likely have a great appreciation and connection with both sides – light and dark – that we all as human beings possess in some capacity.
For starters, Gemini men are incredibly intelligent. Their brilliance is such that they can capture the attention of a room with a few witty remarks and unsolicited knowledge. They are also winning conversationalists. While some intelligent men can come across as nerdy or anti-social, the Gemini man has the coveted ability to charm others with their words and wisdom all at once.
They don’t need to sit and write a book to get people to understand their witty mind – their words captivate their audiences all the same.
Gemini men are also constantly coming up with new ideas. They keep everyone on their toes with their extreme thoughtfulness. A Gemini man is continuously thinking through his opinions and ideas, so his attitude and feelings on all kinds of subjects are always changing and progressing.
A Gemini man would love nothing more than to be able to be in two places at once. As someone who gets bored very easily, he can quickly come in and out of your life. He comes across as the type who is never fully committed to one thing, as his attention is usually partially elsewhere.
Other significant personality traits of the Gemini man include a love of exercise and sports, an extreme interest in learning, and generosity. Gemini men love their family and friends, and while they are mainly sociable creatures, they do enjoy a good night of alone time here and there.
The Gemini is a mutable sign, and he’s highly adaptable to a wide range of situations. He loves a good conversation and is curious about anything and everything.
Love and Sex
A Gemini man in love can be both thrilling and confusing. Unlike more grounded signs, this man will always keep you guessing. He is constantly on the move, and his intellect keeps him switching from one thing to the next. You may think you have him all figured out, but suddenly he does just one more thing to keep you on your toes.
While your Gemini man will love to have you by his side and on his arm throughout his various activities and endeavors, there may also be several nights when you’re wondering where he is. This social butterfly can’t be tied down – even when he is in love.
Of course, love is a bit of a fluid subject when it comes to the Gemini man. Just because he’s linked up with you doesn’t mean he’s ready for monotony. In fact, there’s a good chance that while he’s chatting you up over text, he’s also engaged in conversation with one or two others.
None of this is meant to do anyone any harm; a Gemini man just likes to keep things fun and interesting. He likes to date multiple people at once, and it can sometimes lead to almost a double-life situation.
When it comes to sex, Gemini men are initially the most turned on by another brilliant mind that can match his quick wit and intellect. If you can learn the art of the fast-paced, engaging conversation, you’ll have him drooling over you in the bedroom.
Like his quick mind, Gemini men are likely to get bored quickly in their sex lives. He will be eager to learn and try new things with a partner. So eager, in fact, that he might be prone to skipping over the actual enjoyment of the task and already reading about the next position. In order to have a truly fulfilling sex life, a Gemini man needs a partner who will real him in and get him to focus on the intimacy happening in the now.
It’s also important to know that sex is the wrong time to get emotional on a Gemini man. While some couples like to showcase their feelings for each other during sex, the Gemini man prefers a heavy focus on the physical act. This is especially true if you are newly dating or just fooling around. Any kind of “relationship talk” with a Gemini man is difficult in the first place, but during intimate moments, you will completely lose him.
Career and Finances
A Gemini’s personality is greatly reflected in his professional life. Just like he’s always moving in his social circles and relationships, Gemini men are always in action in the business world. These types of men often find great success across technology and communications. They work extremely well in start-up companies and can be found chatting up just about anyone at networking events.
Gemini men find the most success when they’re able to link up with other professionals who can match their brilliance. They enjoy high-profile professional connections and are driven by others who possess the same levels of engagement, productivity, and goals.
Because of his love of intellect coupled with his ability to talk to anyone about anything, a Gemini man will flourish in meetings and boardrooms. In fact, you shouldn’t be surprised if he’s the one at the front of the room controlling the conversation. He would much rather be leading the masses or working one-on-one with his colleagues than sitting alone in his cubicle.
Success is key, so if a Gemini man feels like he’s in a good rhythm and is making good money, then he’s a happy guy.
Making a Gemini Man Miss You
It’s not enough to not just be around when it comes to making a Gemini man miss you. As we have already learned, a Gemini man is a unique force to be reckoned with. He becomes bored quickly and is a hard one to tie down to a committed relationship, so you may have to work extra hard to get that emotional longing that you’re looking for.
Try using these guidelines to get the Gemini man in your life to call you up, wondering when he gets to see you again.
An overly eager partner is the complete opposite of what a Gemini man is looking for. If you want to capture his attention, you have to remain a subtle yet constant presence in his life. This means sending him an intriguing text once a day, but no more than that unless he initiates it.
So, if you want to make your Gemini man miss you, stay busy! There’s a difference between leaving him alone and actually living your own life. It’s not enough to sit at home while he’s out on his adventures. Plan some adventures of your own without him, and make sure he knows what you’re up to.
As a social person, it’s likely that your Gemini man has social media accounts, so make sure you post pictures of your daily activities, so he knows that you’re out there enjoying life in an independent way. You can also send him a quick picture as your one text for the day. He’ll love that you’re loving life on your own, and seeing how fun and adventurous you are will be an automatic attraction.
Stay busy, keep the mystery, and keep him mildly aware of your activities, and we guarantee he’ll be asking you to do something with him soon.
Missing someone requires a deep emotional connection, which is hard to achieve with a Gemini. For this reason, you may want to switch your strategy from getting him to miss you, to getting him to simply think about you.
A great way to accomplish this with a Gemini man is through gifts.
Gemini men appreciate thoughtful girls. They love things like books and catalogs that feature the latest technology, interesting discoveries, and detailed theories. They also love anything related to something that they’re into at that moment.
Try to send your Gemini man a gift that he can hold onto. Perhaps he’s into traveling and geography right now. If you send him a detailed world map or a beautifully designed globe, he can keep it in his apartment and will think of you every time he looks at it.
Sending a gift that he can hold onto can help form a bond where a deep emotional connection is lacking, causing your man to think of you more and more, and therefore desire to be in your presence.
Time and Space
The old standby to make someone miss you is to give them some time and space. No one can miss you if you’re sitting right next to them or always talking to them. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, so you have to take some steps back if you want anyone to miss you at all.
However, this can be a tricky slope when it comes to Gemini men. Because they get bored quickly and tend to fill their time easily with various people and activities, too much time and space might cause them to wander off and find interest in someone else. You have to find just the right amount of time and space to suit your man and situation.
A good way to address this is by waiting to return his calls or texts longer than you might actually want to. He might text you while your phone is in your hand, but he doesn’t need to know that. Rather than responding right away, wait an hour or two. This creates an air of mystery, which will be intriguing to a Gemini man. He won’t be jealous or imagine situations where you’re with another man, but it will make him wonder – and he loves to wonder.
Just as he is likely to keep you on your toes, try to do the same for him. Maybe even try not responding to his call one day, only to call him up to do something spontaneous a couple of days later. Pop in and out of his life, but remain constant enough that he doesn’t get the wrong idea. You’re interested in him, but he’ll never know when you’ll be around.
What NOT to Do
While there are clear and concise techniques you can use to make a Gemini man miss you, there are also things that you should definitely not try. Certain tricks can quickly backfire on a Gemini man, so be sure to avoid these specific ones.
Make Him Jealous
As far as jealousy goes, you can count the Gemini man out of this category. Some men can be extremely jealous to the point of mistrust, while others find a bit of jealousy in a relationship fairly healthy and normal. After all, jealousy comes with the fear of losing someone, so it’s pretty normal to feel a twinge of jealousy when someone threatens to take away your loved one’s attention.
However, the Gemini man is not a jealous one – at all. These kinds of men typically do not feel jealous ever. Jealousy typically lends itself to commitment and permanence – two things that Gemini men are not known for.
Gemini men usually have little to no expectations when it comes to their love interests. They enjoy freedom, social situations, and unconventional dating lives, and jealousy just doesn’t fit into any of those molds.
So, if you’re looking to gain some extra attention from a Gemini man, trying to purposefully make him jealous is not likely to work. Even if you have tied him into a committed relationship, he’s more likely to end it and move on than show you how much he misses you when you try to make him jealous.
Just like going out of your way to make a Gemini jealous is useless, ignoring him will also be a fruitless endeavor. These types of men are always on the move, as we have seen, so ignoring him will simply make him bored. He won’t beg for your attention; he’ll simply find something or someone else to pique his interest.