Is your new girlfriend still talking to her ex-boyfriend? How do you feel about that? Will your relationship suffer because of it? Should you end it? That is what we are going to discuss in this article.
When You Don’t Need To Worry
Is she upfront about talking to her ex-boyfriend? If she’s open and honest about the situation, then that is a good thing! It means she has nothing to hide – or at least doesn’t feel like she has something to hide.
In this situation, it is important to keep your cool. If you go crazy jealous on her or demand that she stops talking to her ex, then you are going to cause problems in the relationship. And if your relationship is new, you can’t afford to put holes (like jealousy, anger, and mistrust) in the foundation of your new relationship.
If she’s open and honest about the friendship with her ex-boyfriend, then don’t worry unless she gives you a reason to worry.
If you can’t stop worrying about her talking to her ex-boyfriend, then you should end the relationship. While it is normal to feel jealous a bit of the time – after all they did date – it is not normal to always be upset, check her messages, stalk her, or mistrust what she is saying to you. That’s not healthy for you or her and it is going to lead to a very unhealthy and unhappy relationship.
When Should You Be Worried?
Not every woman talking to her ex-boyfriend is going to be doing it innocently. There are a few times that you should be worried or upset with the situation.
- When she won’t text him in front of you
- When she erases her texts from him
- When she locks her phone or her computer
- When she sends sexual texts or messages to him (That is not okay and a sign that they are hooking up or will hook up!)
- When she talks to him before she talks to you about important stuff
- When she talks to him about stuff that she won’t talk to you about
- When she talks to him all day every day
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