Individuals born between the dates of October 23 and November 21 have the pleasure of falling under the passionate Scorpio. With the element water and representative sign of the scorpion, these assertive people have so much emotion and strong characteristics backing them up.
Ruled by both Pluto and Mars, the stars and the planets have a lot to say about Scorpios. If you are a Scorpio, we highly suggest you read on to learn more about the good, the bad, and what you should do about your many various personality traits.
The Scorpio: Passion, Bravery, and a lot of Stubbornness
Some may say that the title of this section says it all for the Scorpio. However, we believe in giving a much more in-depth, accurate character analysis to all Zodiac signs alike. The Scorpio may get a rough reputation, but there is a lot more that goes into them then meets the eye.
Positive Features
It’s no secret that Scorpios are known to be passionate beings. While many may believe their passion leads down a dark road, Scorpios are actually very balanced in this aspect, maintaining maturity and being very careful to control this passion.
Scorpios are also very brave. Sure, they will face trials and failures like everyone else, but they are not afraid to take trouble head on and try again if they have to. They are highly focused and can make up their mind in an instant; they will rarely stray from their path.
Intuitive and ambitious, Scorpios are motivated by power, position, and money. They frequently reach their goals and can get there through excellent decision making and unmatchable timing. In fact, they are sometimes so intuitive that people feel like they can read minds.
Highly faithful, Scorpios are great, trustworthy friends who keep their promises. Integrity means a lot to Scorpios, and they will show theirs through their friendships.
A few more positive traits associated with Scorpios are:
- Leadership
- Determination
- Resourceful
- Brave
- Trustworthy
- Mystery
- Fierce
The Negative Side
As we mentioned earlier, Scorpios are very passionate. While this is a good trait to have, too much passion in the wrong areas often leads to feelings of jealousy and resentment in Scorpios. As a Scorpio, you can be extremely possessive. Your jealousy affects your relationships in a negative way. A little jealousy is healthy, but yours tends to overpower.
Scorpios are very sensitive signs. They love hard and throw themselves into everything they do 110%, so when they are treated badly in return, they are easily and deeply hurt. This hurt most often turns into resentment, and a Scorpio loves nothing more than to get even.
Because of their fear of getting hurt, Scorpios find it hard to trust others and keep many secrets. It is hard for them to let people into their life, so it takes a lot of effort to get them to open up and share.
This over-ambitious sign loves getting what it wants. You are domineering in nature and can be very manipulative. You have no problem using your wits and whiles to get your way, and you will use other people to get there.
A Scorpio’s negative traits can be summed up in these characteristics:
- Distrusting
- Secretive
- Violent
- Manipulative
- Assertive
- Sensitive
- Jealousy
- Harsh
About the Scorpio Constellation
The Scorpio constellation is known for having a distinctive shape and bright stars. In Latin, the name Scorpio literally translate to the “creature with the burning sting,” also known as the Scorpion. This constellation lies high in the sky close to the middle of the Milky Way.
- In ancient days, the Greeks considered the Libra constellation to be the claws of the scorpion
- There are many bright stars in the Scorpio constellation, including Antares, Graffias, and Sargas
- Scorpio and Orion are intertwined a lot throughout Greek mythology
A Scorpio in Love
The passion that a Scorpio possesses touches every area of their life, especially their love life. They maintain an aura of mystery in their love life, which often prevents them from forming deep connections. Their allure is very attractive to the opposite sex, and they are naturally charming.
As a Scorpio, it is likely that you will experience love at a young age and move on to have many relationships. You like intense relationships, but secretly desire stability and unconditional love.
Scorpios are also known to be the most sensual sign in the Zodiac family. Their passion drives their intimacy, and a physical relationship with this sign can be super intense and almost magical.
Unfortunately, this intense passion leads to immense feelings of possessiveness and jealousy in a relationship. As a Scorpio, you want your partner all to yourself and feel betrayed when the jealousy hits. You are highly sensitive emotionally, but you tend to hide them. You would rather stew in your jealousy than talk about your feelings. Your lack of trust leads to a lack of communication.
If you find the right partner, your relationships can be positively intense and filled with passionate romanticism.
The Most Compatible Sign: A Happy Ending
Cancers are highly understanding and emotionally intelligent signs. A Cancer is an excellent fit for a romantic relationship with a Scorpio because they understand their need to express their deepest passions, whether through sex or otherwise.
Both Cancers and Scorpios feel the need to express their emotions through intimacy, especially when they fall in love. The amount of trust between the two signs is superb. Trust is one of the most important things for a Scorpio in love, and a Cancer is very capable of giving that to them. Cancers are genuinely looking for a partner to share their life with, so once they’re in a relationship, they have no reason to betray their significant other.
Additionally, a Cancer’s compassionate nature helps to relieve the Scorpios natural tendency to keep secrets. With a Cancer, a Scorpio is more likely to see that there is no need to do so.
The connection between a Scorpio and a Cancer has the potential to be so strong that they can often understand each other without using words. They have excellent communication with great depth and the ability to talk about anything. The two help each other through their weaknesses.
The Least Compatible Sign: Disaster
Communication, intimacy, trust, emotions, and values all suffer at the hands of a Scorpio-Libra relationship. A physical relationship between the two has the potential to be exciting, but it is more often than not very challenging. While a sexual relationship between them seems natural at first, they are quickly separated by the superficiality of the Libra and the emotional side of the Scorpio.
Scorpios cannot trust Libras. Libras loved to be loved by the world. They count on others to validate their attractiveness, which drives a Scorpio mad with jealousy. The attention-seeking side of the Libra feeds into the Scorpio’s possessiveness, forcing them to obsess over everything they do. Their love cannot and will not thrive in a constant atmosphere such as this.
While their communication isn’t a total failure, and there is just the right amount of depth to allow for rational understanding, that’s about as deep as it can get for these two. Libras have a hard time understanding the aggressive side of a Scorpio, while Scorpios loathe the dishonesty that is evident in a Libra’s personality.
Emotions are intense between these two. A Scorpio needs someone who is physical, sensual, and also practical. A Libra is capable of meeting these needs to a certain extent, but it will never be to the level a Scorpio desires.
Libras need an active partner that will light up their life, and a Scorpio can sometimes be too damaged to accomplish this.
It’s very possible that a spark exists between these two complicated flames, but once it is lit, it is more likely to burn down a city than bring them a happily ever after.
November 13 Zodiac Birthday: What Makes You Unique?
In addition to the general traits attributed to Scorpios, those born on November 13 have unique characteristics specific to their birthday.
People born on this day love to be the center of attention. They thrive on being the one in the room that everyone is listening to, especially when speaking about their beliefs. If you were born on November 13, you are very socially aware and have above average emotional intelligence.
You are great with words and speaking to people, and in the same way are very convincing with your body language as well. Your personality is so engaging and twisted that people are fascinated by you. You often use this to your advantage, as having that much of someone’s attention makes it easier for you to manipulate them.
You prefer to work with those who take the topic at hand as serious as you do. You can’t tolerate commonness and a lack of focus.
Though your outward personality exudes confidence, on the inside, you are continually overthinking and worrying. These thoughts are mostly irrational and never come to fruition, but you continue to worry anyway. You can be particularly skeptical and untrusting, as many Scorpios are, but for no reason. You are stubborn and bull-headed with the ability to crush those who disappoint you.
A Glimpse at the Year Ahead
This year, you will find your opportunities have expanded, and your confidence is heightened. With these improvements, you are more aware of moral issues and have a clear vision of long-term goals. You are highly optimistic, and your popularity will be better than ever.
You will find that your problems will be easier to solve this year. You will have a broader perspective that will keep you from frustration or becoming overly emotional.
On the other hand, Pluto transits sextile your Sun this year. This may mean that was used to satisfy you may not anymore. You do not wish to make any compromises in the important areas of your life, and you are more determined than you’ve been in the past.
This year is a great time to get rid of bad habits. You will get your life back on track, and others will start to recognize your intensive leadership abilities.
Your love life and finances have a good outlook for this year. You are feeling more generous, and therefore good will come back to you. You have a high chance of falling in love this year, and if you are already in a relationship, you will find that it will grow significantly.
November 13 Fun Facts
Now that we have discussed the serious matters, it may interest you to know some fun things about your Zodiac sign and birthday. Read on to find some interesting facts to add to your fountain of Scorpio knowledge.
Lucky Color
The lucky color for Scorpios is, not surprisingly, deep red. This dark, seductive color suggests depth and mystery—two things that Scorpios often portray. You are notably sophisticated and methodical. Your presence is, in fact, mysterious, but it is also calming.
You are keen on using this color to attract all the right attention. It boosts your confidence and catches the eyes of other, especially when worn as clothing.
Other colors associated with Scorpios are purple, scarlet, and carmine.
Scorpio Flower
The Chrysanthemum is known as the lucky flower for those born on November 13. These flowers often represent warmth and relaxation and are used as a gift and in decoration.
People like to use the Chrysanthemum to clear bad energies as well. When used in decorations around the home, the flower can bring a sense of calm to those around it.
Scorpios are also associated with Poppies and Lavenders.
Birthstone
Topaz is the birthstone for those born in the month of November—and also for Scorpios in general. The beautiful gem represents friendship, consistency, and altruism. It is often used in jewelry of all kinds.
Topaz also has been known to reveal new ways of interaction with the outside world. Those who wear it have seen an enhancement in their natural characteristics.
Another stone associated with the Scorpio is the Garnet.
