As a Scorpio born on November 7, you are magnetic, sensual, emotional, and seductive. People consider you to be soulful and you crave for deep bonds and insightful conversations.
Whether good or bad, you tell it as it is and you have no tolerance for icebreakers and frivolities.
To some people, you have a relaxed and calm exterior while others know you to be mysterious. Indeed, you appear to be dark and distant sometimes.
As a native of Scorpio, you desire real and deep relationships that have passion and truth as their foundation. You have dramatic, intense relationships and often grow jealous and suspicious because of your truth-seeking nature.
Not only are you secretive, but you are also intuitive, and it may require seeing past the wall you put up for others to understand you.
It takes plenty of time for you to lay open to people, but you can be extremely loyal when you gain their dependence. And if anyone does anything to betray you, it can be nearly impossible to win back your trust.
Many of your actions may feel like a mystery, even to yourself. From character quirks and pet peeves to the way you function in relationships, no one, not even you can understand better the real reasons for your actions.
When you learn to know yourself better, it will help you to behave well in your place of work and also make some critical career choice. It will also facilitate healthy romantic friendships and relationships.
You need to understand that self-awareness affects all parts of life with identification and clarity. You will change your life completely when you learn to look inward.
Understanding Yourself Better
The first step to take is to instill the habit of writing down your desires.
Write down what you want if you want to make good luck happen. Except you know and understand the things you want to achieve, it may be hard for you to create success.
You are the type of person who is curious and progressive with a pioneering, adventurous spirit. You have value for an opportunity to discover and learn something new. You can also experiment with your proficiencies in demanding challenges.
Things you don’t understand better or want to learn about are little. You have boundless curiosity, and when you figure out how something works or what makes an individual tick, you have deep satisfaction.
Also, your strong drive and ambition make you thrive in changes and variations, and your nightmare is when routine, mundane tasks tie you down.
Even when the potential for remarkable success to explore the outermost parameters of human knowledge is great for you, the biggest threat to your potential is your lack of focus.
Your inquisitive spirit is your greatest strength in some ways and is also your greatest weakness because your constant needs to learn, struggle, and challenge can stop you from setting achievable goals for yourself.
The first part of your life may not be chaotic because you may achieve great success if you set personal goals for yourself and pursue them actively.
You may have a rewarding and fulfilling life in the second part of your life. By then, you will be able to build on the incredible experience and knowledge you have acquired in your youth and will serve as a launching pad to work towards realizing your goals.
And your goals will be of great benefit not only to you and people that work and live with you but to the broader world.
Jealous: One Negative Emotion
As a Scorpio, are you jealous?
Has it happened to you that people draw back from you when you mentioned that you are a Scorpio?
Well, you may be suffering from this negative emotion, and the answer may not be clear-cut or apparent to you.
Among the twelve signs of the zodiac, you are one individual that people fear most and also someone that most fascinates people.
You have a magnetic strength about you that appears to draw people into you, chew them up for a feast and spit them out before they know what is happening!
Also, you tend to evolve spiritually and even in the face of massive danger; you are capable of tremendous achievements.
Scorpio Levels
The most feared sign of the zodiac is probably your sign, Scorpio. This dread is because of the infamous stinger of the Scorpio. A handful of people, however, recognize that the loving dove is the ultimate symbol of a Scorpio.
Unlike the rest of the signs in the zodiac, Scorpio is the only sign that has three animal totems. As you journey through life, one can deduce this as three levels of your sign which are as follows.
Level 1
This level is a deadly stinger in scorpion, the least evolved and primary totem and also the symbol of your sign. Others refer to it as a lizard.
If you belong to this level, you have low self-control and self-awareness. The most vengeful and dangerous Scorpio belongs to this totem. The sway of this vengeance pushes them to go to any length to destroy anyone, even if it means at their cost.
Level 2
This level has the eagle as its totem, and if you belong here, you have self-awareness of your powers. You must learn to grow enough self-awareness which intellect instead of emotions and instinct rules before you can choose to use these traits as you desire.
If you belong to this level, it is normal for you to attempt achieving great heights in your endeavors and careers.
However, even if you are part of this level, you have your stinger too, and the manner of defeating your enemy is different from that of the other level.
Here, you are not self-destructive. Your action is typical of a usual eagle that swoops down on its prey, conquers it, and then flies back in the air, not looking for the destruction of the victim.
People must be aware of you if you belong to this level because you can be exploitative and manipulative.
Level 3
This totem is those of Dove and Phoenix which stands for peace. If you belong to this level, you will show the real power of the Scorpio to the world because you will be aware of your mystical powers of healing.
If only people know that your real power as a Scorpio, and the ultimate way you exert your energy, is through spreading peace and healing, they will understand better and change their perception of you as a venomous creature.
But it is not easy to get to this level.
To achieve this power, you must pass through a complete transformation. This transformation has its representation in the phoenix which rises from its ashes after burning.
In the entire zodiac, your sign, Scorpio is the only sign famous for this power, and that is why the symbol of Phoenix stands for every transformation in your life.
Desirable Element
Without any doubt, you are the most exciting sign of all. As a Scorpio native, you are loyal, fun, and very charismatic despite the full range of charming personalities and emotions from other zodiac signs.
To begin with, you have such an intense passion. All relationships with you are the real deal. Having pointless affections is not in your nature, and it is natural for you to keep your friends close and your significant others closer.
You make anyone that close to you feel the most relevant person in your life. They will have not only your constant attention but also learn the value of even the smallest interactions.
Because any relationship you commit yourself into is no doubt a long-term, you put enough time and thought into each connection.
As an extremely determined person, your determination can be contagious. People need to know that you work so hard to earn it. You know your place, and you are a firm believer that you don’t deserve anything unless you achieve it.
You have strong determination, and your biggest concern is the fear of failure. It is one thing that drives you rather than allowing it to discourage you. Anyone that befriends you needs not to fear when such a person finds himself or herself motivated and dreaming bigger.
And you are a detective.
You can sniff out a fake or a liar from a mile away. You keep trustworthy and honest acquaintances around you. You are an undoubting and open person.
If there is something questionable in your relationship, however, you are most likely to confront your friends for answers. You have a listening ear, though only for the truth. And you will quickly cut anyone that lies to you out of your life.
The simple reason for cutting someone out of your life and never look back is because your loyalty is more significant than man’s best friend. Your fierce loyalty means that your friends will always have someone waiting in the corner.
Though your undying devotion lies with your friends, you have expectations from them as well as any relationship is a two-way street for you.
Mysteriousness is the best part of dating or being friends with you. For some of your friends, they may think they have you figured out on the outside, but there’s usually much more depth in you.
When they try to peel you back one layer at a time, it will amaze them to see how much you have to offer. You look to please and are typically almost always successful.
What it means to Love You
To love you is to understand that you don’t use words but actions to show a lot about you. It is to have the skill of reading you when you are uncomfortable since you won’t say it. It is to know that in an upsetting moment, your face changes.
To love you means knowing that you may decide not to express your emotions sometimes because you want to process it yourself and most times, you desire to do it alone.
As a Scorpio native, to love you is not to take things personally. Your partner must allow you to abandon ship when you want to be by yourself and for them to understand that you will soon come around.
To love you, your partner must regard your wishes when you want to have some space. Loving you is to understand your action as both an extrovert and sometimes, an introvert.
Your partner must stand with confidence on their own sometimes if they want to love you because it is not in your nature to react well to embraces. Also, your personality doesn’t like to feel like you are in a cage or being on a short leash.
You need your freedom to flourish.
To love you is to trust you and understand your feelings even if you struggle to express how much your partner means to you. It is to realize you can never be the lovey-dovey and affectionate individual but not expecting you to be.
As a Scorpio, to love you means your partner must be sincere with you since you will always be truthful with your partner even in painful moments. Loving you is to know that you will be trustworthy and looking forward to the same from your partner.
It is to understand if an individual is your enemy, such a person most likely did something very ruthless to you because it is not in your nature to blow things out of proportion for pleasure. Loving you is like trusting you even if you don’t tell your mate the entire story.
To love you mean appreciating your excellent opinion and keep away from the people who give you bad feelings, even if it is hard for you to defend why more of the time you are right about others.
To love you means that your partner must learn to accept the stress you put on yourself that may overflow into your relationship.
You can be hard on yourself and ruthless when you mess up. Your focus is to be excellent at all things, and when you fail, you end up beating up yourself.
Your mate may feel like you’re expecting similar efforts of perfection, but you don’t. You only appreciate them for being there when things go wrong.
