Those born on November 9 fall solidly under the sign of Scorpio, which represents the mystery, passion, and occasionally the piercing backlash you can receive if you cross this person. Scorpios are a fascinating sign of the Zodiac, as they are often thought of as the bad boys when male or mysterious and alluring females.
Scorpios like their privacy and can be quite protective over their family and partners. While they might have a fiery temper, Scorpios are a water sign and feel just a deeply as their fellow water signs. These emotional individuals keep their feelings inside more often, however. Only when you push them too far, or they finally trust you, will you get a Scorpio to open up their darkest secrets—if they ever reveal all of them.
The Influence of Mars and Pluto
As a Scorpio, you are influenced by the ruling planetary bodies of both Mars and Pluto. This intriguing duo makes this sign driven, feisty, passionate, private, and often drawn toward the dark or taboo things in life.
Mars is a powerful pull on the Scorpio. This celestial body represents your ambition, bold attitudes, a warrior spirit, and a high libido. When it’s at its worst, Mars means aggression and anger. When you get in touch with your positive side, the red planet is all about determined ambition, bravery, and standing up for what you believe in.
Mars also makes Scorpios one of the signs that can have some of the highest libidos. If this is not kept in check, Scorpios can stray from their partners. However, all it takes is a sense of self-awareness and self-control along with a little spice in your relationship to keep yourself monogamous. A Scorpio can be inventive in coming up with ways to keep the heat going in their relationships.
Pluto also can pull you toward hush-hush sexual practices, as Pluto represent secrecy, the occult, and the darker sides of life. This play of Pluto in your sign can range from an interest in oddity shops all the way to the morbid.
If you have a penchant for the peculiar or the metaphysical, or have an extremely active sex life, this could be thanks to Pluto. You might be drawn a bit more towards hedonistic activities because of this influence.
The Charming and Magnetic November 9 Scorpio
Your dose of mysterious Pluto, your driven Mars influence, and your adaptable and intuitive water element make you a charismatic creature, Scorpio. Your secrecy makes you appealing, your ambition makes you admirable, and many Scorpios are able to pick up on the feelings of others.
If you are a particularly intuitive Scorpio, you’ll be able to sense the vibes of others and be more attentive to their needs, feelings, and desires. This is a trait to hone as much as you can. Being around energy vampires is something to be aware of, as you don’t want others draining you if you sense negative energy too much.
Yet if you can quickly pick up on the emotions of others, you set yourself up to be a highly seductive person. People want to be with those who make them feel good, and when you sense what an individual needs, you are much more likely to provide them with a compliment if they need it, a little space if they want that, or a listening ear.
Being able to sense the desires of others is an attribute all Scorpios should practice and polish. Being able to read a room better than the average person will help you go far in several areas of life. So, be grateful you have this brilliant quality in you.
Passion in a November 9 Scorpio
You are one sensual and passionate sign as a November 9 Scorpio. Many born on this date have exceptionally high sex drives and love the idea of love. Women may find they have a habit of buying lingerie or sexy shoes, even if they don’t need them at their current moment in life.
Men with this birthday can be a bit of a playboy in their younger years—and frankly well into later adult life if they don’t make a point to mature out of that. This is definitely not to say that all Scorpios are cheaters. When they find a love they care about deeply, they are incredibly protective lovers.
This passion also spills over into other areas of a Scorpio’s life. With work, these can be some seriously goal-oriented individuals. If you’ve held onto a dream since a young age or found a pursuit later and then dove in with everything you had, this is a very Scorpio quality.
The Scorpio and Mystery
As mentioned, Pluto rules over your mysterious side. Most Scorpios will not give up their darkest secrets for anything. Part of this is a desire to control their intense emotions, while part of it is a sense of entitlement over their own thoughts.
It is quite Scorpio-like to think that there are places within your mind that are yours and yours alone. This boundary is fair, as long as you’re not hiding things from loved ones that could be hurtful or even damaging to the relationship.
We all have our secrets, but a Scorpio will often say they’ve told you everything if you’re in a serious relationship, even if there are still one or two skeletons in that closet, they will keep to themselves forever.
When a Scorpio learns to channel this sense of privacy into keeping assumptions, judgments, or unnecessary criticisms to themselves it can be one of their best qualities. We are in an age of everyone having a right to their opinion and translating that into shouting out these thoughts even when unsolicited.
The most elegant Scorpio will learn tact and that there is something to be said for knowing when to keep some opinions to yourself. Everyone is on their own journey and allowing them to take their path without always sharing your thoughts on it is far classier than always telling everyone “how it is” (or more accurately, how you think it is).
Weakness in a November 9 Scorpio
We all have our struggles, Scorpio, but it’s through overcoming these negative traits that we sometimes learn the most. Scorpios can be highly sensitive individuals, and particularly touchy about being told when they lack in any area.
This itself is a hurdle a Scorpio must overcome, as growth can only happen when we correct our bothersome and even hurtful actions. Being self-aware and learning to admit when you’re in the wrong is generally a weakness for a Scorpio. Dropping the defensiveness and learning how to move forward and apologize is imperative to this sign.
The sensitive water sign of Scorpio mixed with their secrecy can also manifest in passive-aggressive behavior. This quiet aggression can be as subtle as a hardly noticeable yet hostile comment, all the way to full-on vindictive and manipulative actions.
Take some time to reflect and be brutally honest with your Scorpio self. Think about the ways you might be displaying subtle yet spiteful behavior. Contemplate the possibility that you may be assuming things and becoming resentful or jealous without knowing the other person’s side of the story. When you can tone down this conduct, Scorpio, you will evolve into an even more lovable person with genuine integrity.
Scorpio the Go-Getter
As a November 9 Scorpio, you are on the move and seriously ambitious. You can be a bit ruthless if others get in the way of your dreams, so be cautious about your ethics. However, when you have your eye on something, there is little anyone can do to stop you.
Mars has a significant influence on this drive and determination, as does your emotive water sign. You can feel the joy of getting what you want when you imagine it, which is part of the reason you want it so badly. Hold fast to that optimistic sensation and keep working toward those goals. A Scorpio is a tough sign that can weather a lot of storms to get to the end result they desire.
The Best Jobs for a November 9 Scorpio
Being the curious and intelligent sign of Scorpio, you have numerous job possibilities that are well-suited for your life path. Anything that requires research or investigation is ideal for most Scorpios. You could be a perfect candidate for a research assistant, a private investigator, a professor, or a chemist.
Scorpios are also often quite capable in the areas of math and sciences. For this reason, you could make an excellent pharmacist, physician, environmental engineer, or medical assistant. Scorpios frequently do well if they work in labs.
The water element in your sign might leave you with a gifted creative streak. Imaginative Scorpios usually do best in graphic design, music, and acting. Acting can be ideal for these Scorpios as your intuitive side makes it easier to get in the mind of a character. Some famous Scorpios who share this talent are Julia Roberts, Matthew McConaughey, Ryan Gosling, Emma Stone, and Leonardo DiCaprio.
With Pluto’s influence, many Scorpios who are drawn to the taboo will do well owning their own curiosity shops, selling romantic gifts or lingerie, or working as psychics if they have a robust intuition. A homicide detective can be an intriguing yet ideal fit for some Scorpios who are able to handle crime scenes and use their curious mind to put together clues.
Which Signs Are Most Compatible with a November 9 Scorpio?
A Scorpio will usually match best with the signs of Pisces, Taurus, and Cancer. Sometimes two Scorpios can get along brilliantly, too. With another Scorpio, you will need to make an effort to be upfront with your feelings in a kind way. Otherwise, this duo can be vicious with each other. You also must be clear about what you want—monogamy or not—as Scorpios can have a jealous streak.
With a Pisces, a Scorpio will often find it more comfortable to share their feelings. The sign of Pisces is emotive and open, and this can be suitable for the more withdrawn Scorpio. This couple has the potential for a profound and meaningful relationship.
The Earth sign of Taurus might surprise some Scorpios as being a fantastic match. The Taurus is your opposite on the Zodiac wheel and will have many of the traits you lack. Likewise, you will be able to bring qualities to the table that a Taurus might wish for. This is generally a loyal, devoted, and trustworthy sign, which is ideal for a Scorpio.
Cancer is another delightful coupling for a Scorpio. Cancer Zodiacs are also a bit reserved, but also feel deeply like Scorpios. You will share many similarities with the sign of the crab. This sign is also intelligent and can carry a decent conversation with an intellectual Scorpio. Better yet, they are loving and loyal, something a Scorpio needs.
Details and Elements for Your November 9 Birthday Horoscope
As a November 9 Scorpio, your lucky numbers are 9, 11, 12, and 21. Many Scorpios are drawn to elements such as crystals and their benefits because of Pluto’s influence on your sign. If you are one of these Scorpios, it can be useful to surround yourself with your power colors and stones.
Deep red and purple are your colors as a Scorpio. Deep crimson can boost your confidence and ambition. While purple is connected to your mysterious side, mysticism, and a more calming hue that still contains the strength of red in its mix. These colors can be worn or decorated with when you need them.
Your November 9 Scorpio stones are malachite, black obsidian, turquoise, aquamarine, and purple amethyst. You may want to meditate with these crystals or wear them in jewelry. Malachite is helpful for loyalty and confidence. Obsidian connects to your mystique and secretive side. Turquoise and aquamarine are both calming and represent your water sign. While amethyst is influential for your intuition.
Horoscope for the November 9 Scorpio
You’re about to have several new opportunities in the next two years. This will bring in a lot of change and stir up your intense Scorpio emotions. When these transition periods occur, remember to take time for yourself and indulge in self-care when needed.
It will also be imperative that you remember to keep an eye on the root of your feelings. When your emotions run high, ask yourself why, and then keep going a few steps further to ask yourself why again to take it to the next level. If you don’t understand the root of your feelings, you will take it out on others who sometimes don’t deserve to be lashed out on. Keep this part of yourself in check.
Regarding your health, you need to focus on reducing your stress in this coming year. Exercise is vital, but make it among your priorities to eliminate tension wherever you can. Take walks, get massages, set a timer to meditate or journal—whatever you need to do to reduce that stress and anxiety.
With relationships, this next year or two will be especially crucial when it comes to balancing both taking responsibilities for your actions, while not being too hard on yourself. Learn to forgive yourself when you make mistakes. They happen to all of us, but you also need to help others forgive you by owning up to your part in things. Your relationships will flourish when you do this.
Delightful things are coming your way, Scorpio.
