So you’ve found a guy you think is hot, charming, and funny. It turns out he’s just a Sagittarius!
Things are progressing in the relationship between you two, and you think you’ll get to experience what he’s like in bed soon. Here’s what to expect from a Sagittarius man.
In normal life, an Aquarius will try anything at least once, whether it’s a food, drink, or another type of experience. The same is true in bed.
A Sagittarius man will probably keep things normal the first few times you have intimate encounters with him — heavy petting leading to oral leading to missionary sex. However, he’ll quickly want to add some spice and different flavors to bed, such as using toys or trying different positions.
He’ll probably have some kinks that he’ll want to share with you as well. Sagittarius is known for their honesty, so he’s not going to beat around the bush with what he wants. He’ll be open and upfront and ask if you’ll want to partake too. Just be sure you’re as frank with him as well, as you don’t want to be on different wavelengths when it comes to sex.
You probably learned this while dating him, but Sagittarius men love directness when it comes to flirting, asking him out, and, of course, sex. Don’t be vague about what you want or fail to get all your thoughts and feelings out. He may grow impatient and frustrated.
He Has a High Sex Drive
Sagittarius men tend to be extroverts. They want constant stimulation in their life, which is why you can find them out and about on most weekends — often going to clubs or parties, finding a cool concert or hanging out with friends.
That need for stimulation also translates to his sex life as well. He’ll want to have a quickie when you come home and perhaps once more before bed. It’s not like he’s always in the mood, but if you’re ready, he’ll be ready.
Having a partner with a different libido could be a challenge for a Sagittarius man but not a complete deal-breaker. It will take some getting used to so that both partners can figure out what works best for each other. He’d prefer to find a partner that can keep up with him, though.
He Likes Surprises
If you feel like things are getting stale in the bedroom, a Sagittarius man will enjoy a surprise. Perhaps you bought a new sex toy that you think he’d like, or you strip down to some sexy lingerie before bed. He likes it when a routine is disrupted — it makes what comes next feel new, fresh, and stimulating.
Here are some things you can do to surprise your Sagittarius man:
- Try having sex in a new location. While this article is about Sagittarius men in bed, you don’t have to have sex in bed only. Try out other places in the house, such as on a table or in the shower. Take it to your car, or perhaps in a public area (safely and legally), if you can swing it.Sex outside the bedroom offers new challenges to overcome together. And if there is the element of potentially getting caught, that adds extra spice to the sexual romp.
- Use blindfolds. Blindfolds enhance the sensations of sex. By taking his sight away, he’s forced to focus on what his body feels, hears, and tastes. Not only that, but it adds little surprises throughout sex as well since he’s not exactly sure what’s going on.He can’t exactly tell what body part is touching him. In a pause during sex, he can’t see what’s happening to know what will happen next. Adding a blindfold forces him to pay attention to everything happening in his body and elsewhere, creating an augmented sexual experience.
- Use a bell. Set a timer for 30 minutes. Once the timer’s ticking, you can only touch each other in places that wouldn’t be covered by a bathing suit. This means you can’t get to the good stuff, but instead have to get creative while still getting physical. Once the timer rings, you two should be revved up enough to progress things further.
- Keep your clothes on. It might seem a little weird or uncomfortable to keep your clothes on during sex. You’re supposed to get naked, after all. But there’s something about keeping your clothes on that adds urgency to the situation, like you two were so hot and bothered that you couldn’t even wait to keep your clothes on.So instead of stripping, try only unzipping or pushing your underwear to the side. That way, you can still access the good stuff while staying clothed.
- Try role-playing. We hope you’ve been studying the Stanislavsky method because acting is a great way to add some spice to the bedroom. You’re not you, but you still are.
It gives you an excuse to act differently than you normally would with your partner and embody different power positions or scenarios that are super hot, like teacher and student, coach and athlete, strangers who met at a bar, and more.Role-playing can feel silly and awkward at first, but it can be great fun once you get into it. If you’re shy and feel weird acting, give it a couple goes before giving up on role-playing all together.
Appeal to His Dominant Side
A lesser-known trait about Sagittarius men is that they secretly love attention and having the focus on them. What better way to give him all your attention than to let him hold the reigns during sex.
Sagittarians are also kind and caring people, so it’s unlikely that he’ll go overboard with all the power. But letting him hold more power than he usually does in the bedroom will make him feel strong and in control — something that men tend to enjoy in the bedroom. Just be sure to communicate boundaries with him before starting it up.
He Won’t Want Mushy Pillow Talk After
Sagittarius men are charming, witty, and clever. They attract lots of friends, but they don’t easily share their emotions with people unless they really trust someone.
So if you’re one to get all mushy and emotional after sex — talking about how much you love the person and how much you appreciate them — the Sagittarius man will get a little apprehensive. It’s not that he doesn’t feel the same way. Sagittarius men are quite emotional, in fact.
It’s just that talking about emotions makes them feel vulnerable, and they don’t want to feel vulnerable with someone unless the Sagittarius man has known this person for a while and trusts that person wholeheartedly.
If you’ve only recently dated the Sagittarius man and are hooking up with him, perhaps tone down the emotions and wait till you’ve been dating longer to open up.
He Loves Being Teased
Nothing turns on a Sagittarius man more than a partner who plays hard to get. This person flirts and shows him that they’re interested, but they know the power of their sexuality and know what happens when they withhold it. If a woman were to kiss a Sagittarius man passionately but then make him wait to go further, he’d go crazy.
This is especially true if you’ve been dating the Sagittarius man for a while and decide to start role-playing. If you two play coy strangers who are new to the city and just happened to be at the same bar as each other, play someone who’s flirty and interested but not “an easy lay.”
This person will tease him, touch him just right without getting too sexual too soon. Turn up the heat slowly and make him think that he’s not going to get what he wants until you turn back and show that he’s wrong. He’ll get what he wants — if he waits and behaves properly.
Know His Erogenous Zones
While you know what you need to focus on to satisfy a Sagittarius man, know that his erogenous zones are his inner thighs and hips. If you play with these parts of his body during foreplay, you’re sure to turn him on immensely.
Gently caress these parts of his body while making out with him, and you’ll drive him crazy. You’ll be able to feel how much he likes it. Don’t go straight to these parts of his body, though. Touch his hips and inner thighs intelligently, using touch as a way to progress where things go.
If you know when and where to touch a Sagittarius man, you’re sure to have a great night of sex with him.
Top Sagittarius Man Sexual Compatibility
Aries know what they want and know how to get it. A Sagittarius man will like that go-getter, take-no-crap attitude from their Aries partner, and it will fuel the passion he feels for that person in the bedroom.
He likes someone who can be a little aggressive with him too, and an Aries will happily oblige. Hair pulling, restrained wrists, and dirty talk are a few of Aries’ specialties.
Aries also tends to have a high libido, which will match Sagittarius. Aries also won’t shy away from adventurous sex as well, such as trying new locations and positions. They’re both so energetic and full of energy that they’ll find ways to keep each other entertained in the bedroom.
A Sagittarius man will like the give and take behind a sexual encounter with an Aries partner, and the passion between these two signs will make both of them wanting to come back for more.
Matching Sagittarius’ sexual vigor is Leo. Leo knows how to be charming and add some humor to any situation without making it awkward. Leo also knows how to take control of a situation and offer up commands when necessary. While a Sagittarius man likes feeling dominant sometimes, he’ll also enjoy giving up the reins and letting someone else be in control.
Both Leo and Sagittarius are kind-hearted and generous people, though they both have a soft-spot for attention. Both of these signs know when to give and take, so the sense of fair play between these two signs means no one will go to bed feeling unsatisfied.
Sagittarius and Leo are both fire signs, meaning they burn brightly and for a long time. The energy between them will be magnetic and enthralling. With the stamina between these two signs, it’s likely that they’ll keep each other entertained and never feel bored with one another.
Gemini is an air sign. Of all the air signs, though, Gemini resembles fire signs most closely. Gemini is a passionate lover and bursts full of creativity. They often bring creativity and open-mindedness to the bedroom, where they wow their partner with their skills.
Sagittarius and Gemini prefer sex that has no strings attached. They don’t want to worry that their partners will be getting emotions for them. Gemini and Sagittarius tend to have a hedonistic or athletic approach to sex — it’s something to do with their bodies that feels nice.
While they understand that sex is also used to deepen their bond with a partner, they don’t want to get bogged down with emotions quite yet. They have to really like the person before exchanging pillow talk or other forms of intimacy after sex.
To these two signs, sex is about physical pleasure. A Sagittarius and Gemini pairing will be happy that both partners are on the same page when it comes to sex. Passionate, energetic, and casual, these signs will make great sexual partners.
Every Sagittarius man is unique, but you can count on a few unifying traits thanks to his zodiac sign. If you use these tips the next time you go to bed with a Sagittarius man, you’re sure to drive him crazy and make him want more. These tips also act as a way to spice up an already existing sexual relationship with a sexual man. Go forth and have awesome sex.