There are two definitions to seduction. First, it means to attract someone powerfully. Second, it means to persuade someone to have sex. Both sound pretty good, so let’s talk seduction tips for guys that will attract women and get them into your bed.
How To Seduce A Woman To You
If you want to make her crave seeing you again, you have to leave a powerful and positive impression of you with her.
First, you need to entice her mind by being manly. Sorry, but you can’t be a wimp when you approach her, talk to her, or interact with her. You have to be a masculine man that she is looking for.
Almost all women want a masculine man who can sweep them off their feet. Therefore, display manly characteristics: take control, be self-assured, act rationally, and don’t even hint at desperation.
Second, you have to entice her body by making physical contact. One small touch can send shivers up her spine and make her crave more touch from you.
You can touch her anywhere on her body in a natural gesture, except for her breasts or her private parts – unless you want to be labeled as a pervert.
– You can put your hand on the small of her back to guide her.
– You can lightly touch her arm to get her attention and focus during a conversation.
– You can wipe something off her face or neck.
It really doesn’t matter where you touch her, because the initial touch will get her attention.
Third, you have to get her laughing. Laughter encourages the body to release endorphins, and when that happens a sense of excitement is around the corner. If you can cause a woman to feel euphoric, then she will relate that sense of pleasure with you.
Lastly, let her know, without a doubt, that you think she is hot. You don’t need to say something to do this. You can simply let her catch you checking her out.
When a woman knows that you are checking her out, she will feel sexually attractive. She feels more feminine and attractive, and you are the one she associates with her positive feelings.
Even better, her mind will be focused on your sexual interest in her, and that will cause her to picture you and her in a sexual way. Talk about seduction!
In order to really take it up a notch, use your body language to express your feelings about her. For instance, let her catch you looking her slowly down and up, and when you make eye contact with her, smile suggestively to let her know that you like what you see and your thoughts are taking a turn to the dirty side. She will melt inside when you make that eye contact and send that message.
When you do the above things, she will very attracted to you. She will feel amazing around you, both mentally and psychically, and she will be craving her next interaction with you. In short, she will be seduced by you.
How To Seduce A Woman Into Your Bed
Once you get her alone, and you want to seduce her into your bed, the above seduction tips still work. They still create a powerful sense of attraction towards you. Also, they were what seduced her to you in the first place, so make sure you continue to be masculine, initiate touch, make her laugh, and check her out.
But, in order to seduce her into your bed, you have to get her mind turned on and her juices flowing to the point that she just can’t say no. To do that, try using the following seduction tips for guys.
1. Set The Mood
It may not be your natural instinct to create a romantic mood, but it will come in handy when trying to seduce a woman into bed. Think of the movies where a guy lights some candles, turns on romantic music, and dims the lights. All of these things turn a woman’s mind towards sensuality, which will help turn her on.
2. Get Her Sense Of Smell Involved
She will enjoy the soft music and lighting, and she will shiver at your touch, but engaging her sense of smell will help get her in the mood. In fact, experts say that when it comes to sex, the most important sensory organ may be our sense of smell.
The sense of smell is linked to the part of the brain that deal with feelings and emotions. This means that an erotic smell can create erotic feelings and emotions in a woman.
What is an erotic smell? That depends on what the woman finds erotic. But, certain fragrances, such as roses, subtle cologne, and even the smell of wine and a good meal, can cause a woman to get into a sexual frame of mind.
3. Slow Down The Energy In The Room
When we are around someone, we tend to connect to their anxiety or, alternatively, their relaxed state. It is like we line up with their vibration and feel the energy they are giving off.
Sensual sex is slow, not fast. Therefore, by moving your body slowly, and talking slower than normal, you are tuning her mind and body towards a slower rhythm, which will remind her of being sensual and sexual.
The trick is to slow it down a little, not a lot. If you move too slowly, you can come across as creepy.
You can linger for a second when you touch her arm or hand. You can linger for a second when you look at her. You can slow dance with her and set a sensual rhythm in the room. Use your imagination and keep the mood slow and sensual.
4. Be Suggestive
You must be suggestive with a woman. This is the best way to get her mind thinking about sex and keep her mind continuously turned on.
You can do this by drawing her attention to various parts of your body. For instance, you can lick your lips when you know she is watching to get her thinking about kissing you. Or, you can touch your chest suggestively as you talk to her to turn her focus towards what your chest looks like under your clothes. Or, you can slowly move your hand around your glass to get her thinking about what your hands could do to her.
5. Get Closer
Lastly, you need to get close to her in order to kiss her and initiate sex. Therefore, plan out the seating arrangements carefully. Or, if you want, make slow dancing the last act you plan to do before moving into the bedroom.
Allow some time for your bodies to be close together as you sit or dance, in order to build up that sexual tension, and then go for it! Her mind and body should be completely ready for sex at this point, and the chances of her resisting are going to be very low.