Is your love interest a Libra? Social, friendly, and fun, Libras are sweet talkers, and they’re also known to be major flirts. Unfortunately, his propensity to flirt with everyone can make it hard to determine where you stand. We’re going to divulge the telltale signs that reveal what’s going on in your Libra man’s head.
Libra Man Personality
Born between September 23 and October 23, this air sign is an innate charmer. He knows how to work a crowd and is capable of charming the socks off just about anyone. He’s debonair, intelligent, and has a well-balanced personality. Any of the following words could describe a Libra man’s temperament to a tee:
- Social
- Sophisticated
- Classy
- Caring
- Non-confrontational
A Libra Man in Love
Libras are full of sexual thoughts, and this zodiac sign is the quintessential romantic. He’s filled with natural optimism, which makes him a fantastic partner. But sometimes he prefers to view romance through rose-colored glasses instead of seeing the situation for what it is.
A Libra man is often indecisive when it comes to nailing down a relationship. His flexible nature means it’s easy for him to string along several potential partners at once, without fully realizing what he’s doing. Plus, his intrinsic ability to be flexible often makes it difficult for him to commit to a partner.
10 Signs a Libra Man Likes You
So keeping in mind his propensity for indecisiveness and his fear of commitment, how do you know if he’s really into you?
The good news is that with a Libra man, typically, what you see is what you get. Men of this zodiac sign are generally pretty straightforward with their feelings, and to an outsider, it’s usually more than clear who the apple of his eye is. But even if you think all the signs are there, you may second-guess what’s going on.
If you find yourself wondering where you stand, here are ten surefire indicators that your Libra man likes you.
He Flirts with You Nonstop
Take a look at his flirting habits towards you. For a Libra, flirting is a natural way to show his feelings, and it’s one of the most telltale signs that a Libra likes you. He does so to make his feelings extremely clear, which means that he’ll flirt with you nonstop. Not to mention, Libra is a natural-born charmer, and he likes to lay it on thick.
Besides being an excellent way to communicate his feelings, flirting also serves another purpose. Libras like to make the object of their affection feel good when they’re around, and being flirtatious is one way to do that. And even if they’re not physically near you, a Libra may find other ways to flirt with you, such as via text or by leaving cute notes where you’ll find them.
He Showers You with Compliments
Usually, Libras are the ones that like to be on the receiving end of a compliment. They’ve never heard one they didn’t like, and we must say that one of our best tips for attracting a Libra man is to compliment him as much as possible. But on the other hand, if you’ve noticed that he’s suddenly dishing out more compliments than usual, pay attention.
There’s just one reason for his frequent accolades: he’s fallen in love, and he needs to express how much he appreciates you every chance he gets. A Libra man feels comfortable showing his feelings by giving compliments, so if you notice that all of the sudden he’s your biggest fan (even about rather dull or uninteresting things), it’s a surefire sign he’s into you.
He’s Thoughtful
Does your Libra love interest do thoughtful things to let you know that he’s thinking about you?
He may make dinner for you, pick up your favorite chocolate at the store without you asking, or surprise you with tickets to an event you’re interested in. And he may be thoughtful in other simple ways, like holding the door for you or calling to see if you arrived home safely.
These gestures can be anything, but for a Libra, they’re vital for a developing relationship. If he’s putting in work in this way, it’s a clear sign that he’s looking for something more.
He’s Affectionate
This air sign is a highly affectionate one. Whether he’s on the giving end or the receiving end, one thing’s for sure: a Libra needs affection, and he won’t shy away from it, especially when he likes someone. If he can’t resist hugging you, or if he looks for an excuse to hold your hand, these are all signs that he likes you as more than just a friend.
A Libra man’s way of showing affection is about more than just physical contact. He also demonstrates devotion through his actions. He may start to call and text you more frequently, or he’ll show you he cares by planning romantic trips and dinners. He may even show you how he feels about you by surprising you in some way. Showing affection is his way of telling you that you’re always on his mind.
While being showered with attention is indeed a beautiful thing, with a Libra man, it can feel overwhelming at times. Be aware that when you’re in a relationship with this sign, you will be the clear focus of his attention, for better or worse.
He Goes the Extra Mile
One of Libra’s less desirable traits is that they often do only what is required of them and nothing more. This sign is not one of those that will drop everything they’re doing for just anyone. The story drastically changes when he’s in love, however. A Libra in love will always go the extra mile, and it’s a telltale sign that he’s got it bad.
He’ll help you with whatever you need, without hesitation. That last-minute errand you asked him to run? He’s on his way. Maybe you need help fixing your clogged sink, or your car won’t start. All you have to do is ask, and he’ll be there in a flash. There’s no way he’d rather spend his Saturday than picking up toothpaste for you because you’re not feeling well.
And not only will he do things for you, but he’ll also be keen to provide solutions to your problems, even ones you mention just in passing. He’s a “fixer” by nature, so keep in mind that his first reaction may be to try and resolve an issue you tell him about, even if you only need to vent.
Try not to get frustrated when this happens and take his enthusiasm for helping for what it is: a clear sign that he’s super into you. A Libra man in love just wants to make your life better however he can, and if he has to go the extra mile to do so, he won’t think twice about it.
He Shows You His Vulnerable Side
It’s typical in Libras to bottle up their feelings, but if your Libra feels safe, he will likely move past superficial topics and open up to you about what’s truly on his mind. When he tells you his dreams, his fears, and his emotions, it’s because he knows you won’t judge or critique him. So if he shows you his vulnerable side, there’s a pretty good chance he’s into you.
But heed our warning that when he begins to open up, the relationship has reached a critical moment. Don’t take his trust lightly. Let him know he’s entirely safe with you, and show him that he can depend on you for whatever he needs. Creating a safe space is an essential step in taking a relationship with a Libra to the next level. Once you do, you’ll be able to grow together.
He Only Has Eyes for You
We already know that Libra’s an impossible flirt, and for this sign, their need to flirt is almost something impossible for them to control. We previously mentioned that a Libra will become especially flirty with you if he’s interested. Not only will he flirt with you nonstop, but he’ll also take the all-important step of ceasing his flirtations with others.
He’ll stop flirting with others because he only has eyes for you—this is a dead giveaway. And when we say he only has eyes for you, you can actually look at his eyes for confirmation. It’s very difficult—almost impossible—for a Libra man in love to stop looking at the object of his desire. He’ll try to hide it at first, but it will become more and more apparent.
He Keeps in Touch
When it comes to staying in touch with his friends and family, he may or may not be the best communicator. But when it comes to someone he’s interested in, a Libra man makes an effort to keep in touch.
Your chat thread is a good gauge of whether or not he’s making this effort. If he likes you, there’s probably a continual exchange of messages between the two of you. He doesn’t want to miss anything going on in your life, so he’ll call and text often.
He Talks About Commitment
One thing that makes Libra men so challenging is that at first, they seem wishy-washy. It usually takes them a while to figure out what it is that they want, which can be very confusing as you feel like you’re hanging in the balance.
But once a Libra man has made up his mind, there’s no stopping him; he’s one hundred percent ready to commit. He’ll start testing the waters with conversations about the future, or he may be a bit more brazen and talk about exclusivity. Whatever way he shows his desire for commitment, he’ll likely start using terms like “us” and “we,” which is another good indicator.
A fair warning for anybody reaching this point in their relationship with a Libra: once he’s decided he wants to commit, he’s going to show it. Prepare yourself for an uptick in attention, as well as a significant focus on you and the relationship.
He Makes His Feelings Known
The last and best way to tell whether or not a Libra man likes you is if he says he does.
We mentioned that, in general, Libras are straightforward. They are transparent, and they’re not the “man of mystery” type like some other signs. A Libra is very romantic, but he’s not apt to declare his feelings right away. He’s quite good at keeping his emotions under lock and key.
But just like we said, when he’s ready to commit, he commits one hundred percent. The same is true with his feelings. If he really likes you, he has to tell you. The way he does so may not be as romantic or as subtle as the way other signs do it. But because he feels comfortable with you and trusts you, he’ll spit it out.
Even if his declaration sounds blunt, there’s a reason for that. He wants to make himself perfectly clear. He’s highly affectionate and wants no misunderstandings.
Final Thoughts
When you first meet a Libra, it can be hard to tell whether you’re just another person he’s trying to charm. But if you pay attention to these signs a Libra man likes you, deciphering how he feels about you becomes much easier. Even if he has lots of admirers, he’ll demonstrate some or all of these signs to let you know that you’re not just another suitor.
Libras seek stability, so if you’re looking for something permanent, a relationship with this sign could be just what you’re looking for. Remember that he’s all about reciprocity, so if you ignore him or don’t reciprocate his feelings, he’ll be agitated. He might even sulk and become obsessive.
So don’t leave him hanging if you’re interested, and make sure to cherish him if he exhibits any of these behaviors toward you. A Libra man will give you the fairy tale romance you’ve always dreamed of.
